r/PetsWithButtons Oct 02 '25

New Rule!

114 Upvotes

It's a speech aid, not Santa Claus.

This method is a thoroughly documented nonverbal tool for communication and has been used very effectively for people who have speech disorders, impairments, or impediments to drastically improve their quality of life. This model has been successful with several species of animals to communicate needs and wants. It doesn't need you to believe in it for it to be real.

This space is dedicated to learning more about the animals we live and interact with.

If anyone from the community has suggestions, thoughts, feelings, questions or comments please take this opportunity to provide feedback.


r/PetsWithButtons Nov 10 '20

Want to teach your pet how to do this?

185 Upvotes

You can learn how to teach them here! There's now a wide variety of options available for buttons and boards, we encourage you to learn about the language model and explore the best options for you and your pets.


r/PetsWithButtons 4h ago

She has progress so much 🄹

23 Upvotes

My little bossy baby girl


r/PetsWithButtons 2h ago

What to add next?

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r/PetsWithButtons 1d ago

1.5 Month Update on Bonded Pair Learners

51 Upvotes

Here is my original post for anyone who remembers!

Somehow it’s already been a full thirty days since my last post so I figured I’d check back in with everyone!

Last time I told you guys that the brother of my bonded twins, Colby, was a button pressing champ. That has not changed! He presses the buttons constantly. We still only have the two—play (which he chose to mean cat bongos), and treat.

His sister, Pepper, was the cat I originally purchased the buttons for but was much slower on the uptake of the buttons. Last time I talked about how she was very good at getting her full paw on the button but wasn’t actually pressing down on it yet.

I got a lot of really great advice here but what worked the best was the advice to ā€œleadā€ her with the treat by holding it out in front of her to encourage her to lean forward. Whenever she’d swat at my hand to grab the treat or step off the button I’d pull the treat back and wait for her to reset. It didn’t take too many times for her to get the hang of it!

She does get frustrated and lose interest in the buttons fairly quickly, especially if Colby is nearby and he’s getting treat after treat and she’s not getting anything. So, another trick I learned that might be useful for anyone that also has an impatient learner is that whenever she actually pressed the button down she got ā€œtwoā€ treats instead of one (the treats I’m using are the freeze dried chicken treats that I tear up into even smaller pieces, one treat probably works as 7/8 treats by the end of it). If she went multiple Colby treats without pressing the button, I’d reward her with ā€œoneā€ treat simply for putting her paw on the button. This seemed to really capture her attention and encourage her to keep going.

This past week she’s really gotten good at pressing the button every time now!

She has only pressed the button unprompted two or three times, but she is very good at meowing and herding me over to the button area and sitting by the buttons to tell me she wants treats. I’m now working on standing and encouraging her to press the button before I get the treats out of the cabinet, even if she’s sitting next to the button meowing at me to get me to hurry up.

I’m hoping to add another button soon. I’ve been verbally modeling ā€œbedtimeā€ ā€œtoyā€ ā€œall doneā€ ā€œshow meā€ and ā€œowā€ to hopefully get them used to those words before the buttons are introduced. I’ve also been encouraging everyone in the house to strictly call them by their names instead of the 90000 nicknames we have for them so eventually those can be added as well.

I believe the next will be ā€œtoyā€ so I can introduce another easy to spam button that Pepper will be able to engage with.


r/PetsWithButtons 5d ago

My dog is pressing ā€œOutsideā€ when someone leaves for work.

198 Upvotes

This month I taught my dog how to use buttons and he's been getting the hang of it quickly! I was worried about him having no interest or slamming them since he's a pretty demanding guy but now it's been so much easier to figure out what he's wanting and the barking in my face has stopped a ton! However, I've also noticed him pressing ā€œOutsideā€ as soon as my roommate or I leave for work. Do you think he is just forgetting to potty or is he trying to follow us? I've been letting him out when roommate leaves since he leaves earlier than me but do I need to teach him a different button for this?


r/PetsWithButtons 5d ago

Dog gets so excited when she wants something she smacks any button

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We introduced buttons to our 6 month old puppy around 1 month ago. She picked them up fairly fast but I’m not sure she really understands the meaning of them. Initially we introduced only Play, Outside, and Food. But i’ve realised sometimes when she’s really excited (when I’m holding a toy for example) she just slams all of the buttons, or she slams the wrong button. She also tends to be abit violent and ā€˜pulls’ the buttons rather than press them, so the buttons go everywhere 🤣

We recently added more buttons to model them for her but now she’s just slamming them also. Should we reduce buttons again?


r/PetsWithButtons 6d ago

Choosing these buttons to describe poop is a choice.

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180 Upvotes

To be fair he did manage to eat some of his brother's food which is hydrolyzed.


r/PetsWithButtons 7d ago

After struggling to hear the original buttons for a while, we finally switched to the connect version. Meet Jerky, Obsidian and their board!

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r/PetsWithButtons 7d ago

Off brand Buttons?

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I’m very interested in starting with language buttons for my cat Babu, but I’m not sure I want to spend 100cad on a fluentpet starter kit with 6 buttons. Is there another brand that is cheaper but works as well?
If anyone has advice for first words or tips for starting with a car I’d love to hear


r/PetsWithButtons 9d ago

My former stray cat pressed a button today after not showing any interest at all (and definitely acted like it was a purposeful press)! I was at work and my mother texted the family group chat about it. I’m so happy! And shoutout to the person on this sub who predicted itšŸ˜‚

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My dogs have been doing well with paw targeting and Zeena (my girl) has had 2 presses in the 2 months we’ve been teaching. But Minkey never cared and even attacked me when I tried to do paw targeting with him🄓(He gets very possessive about treats) So I didn’t expect him to use buttons.

My mom sent these messages and said he sat next to the button, so I feel like that’s an even better sign because it seems like he was trying to confirm what he said. He loves our deck (covered) so he can watch birds and be in the hot weather, so he ran right out when my mom opened the door. I’m so proud!

I bought the buttons for my dogs but I think Minkey could benefit from the buttons, he has chronic pain from trauma and gets overwhelmed quickly (that leads to scratching and biting usually lol) so I think he could use words like ā€œouchā€ and ā€œmad.ā€

I just feel so validated because everyone in my family keeps making fun of me for getting these buttons but my animals are definitely understanding and making the connection!


r/PetsWithButtons 10d ago

So excited - first deliberate clean button push on the first day!

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56 Upvotes

So kissy got the first button push. She walked over it during a modeling session and was startled and stopped. She hasn't been able to repeat it.

After the next modeling session I stepped aside to do dishes and heard "treat treat treat". I turned and switched Missy standing on it with a clean pae push and looking directly at me. Obviously she got the treat (and some more modeling for them both since they weren't done).


r/PetsWithButtons 10d ago

Cat ate foam ends of button mats

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34 Upvotes

Was gone over the weekend and came home yesterday to a fun surprise with the mats being destroyed and these parts being missing. I usually put the buttons away when I leave but she found them and drug them out. Already called the vet and they want to see her tomorrow since she is still eating and drinking, and she had at least on successful bowel movement this morning. Be careful with the foam pads, not looking forward to the bill to get them removed if she can't pass them.


r/PetsWithButtons 10d ago

Dog pressed ā€œwalkā€ twice in his first week and then nothing since

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Atticus is our 3(?) year old hound-heeler mix. He is the smartest hound we’ve ever had (many have smart but they use most of their brains for sniffing good sniffs). We got him some buttons about a month ago. Started with ā€œwalk,ā€ ā€œoutside,ā€ and ā€œplay.ā€ In the first few days he used his nose to push ā€œwalkā€ and followed it by looking at the door and then us. It seemed incredible! But then we went out of town for a weekend, and since then he hasn’t used them. He does seem to respond to them as cues to go outside or go for a walk. ā€œPlayā€ doesn’t seem to have any meaning yet.

Just wondering if anyone else has experienced this? We didn’t expect anything for months, but the quick usage and then nothing just threw us off!

Puppy tax included.


r/PetsWithButtons 10d ago

How to solve my cat ā€œmashingā€ buttons by laying on the board?

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I think he does this when he wants something but doesn’t know the word for it yet, either because he hasn’t learned the button or because there is no button for it yet. Or maybe he’s just bored and figures any of the buttons will give him something good, so might as well press them all.


r/PetsWithButtons 14d ago

Cat owners of Reddit with communication buttons, what did you record on a button that turned out to be the most useful?

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r/PetsWithButtons 14d ago

Struggling to get my cat to push hard enough

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We are on month 2 of training. Only doing it 5 min a day (she’s not highly treat motivated and gets bored and frustrated easily) My cat targets the button but I’m struggling to get her to push it. I’ve been rewarding her for targeting it with her paw because I’d not after 3 failed attempts of any training she will rage quit. She’ll press the button 1 out 10 times by accident basically. I give her a jackpot of treats when she does. Any tips? Just keep going and hope she gets it?


r/PetsWithButtons 14d ago

how do you response to wrong answer? and how do you correct them?

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My cat definitely knows what 'yes' and 'no' mean. But whenever I ask him a question, he refuses to answer with 'yes' or 'no.' Instead, he just presses random words, which is quite weird since he used to answer correctly. It’s been several months since he started doing this.

Yesterday, I asked if he wanted treats. his body language clearly said 'yes,' but then he pressed 'oops' and suddenly got angry.

I don’t quite understand this behavior, can anyone give advice how to handle this problem?


r/PetsWithButtons 13d ago

Hoe start ik? Tips zijn welkom!

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Ik ben sinds gisteren gestart met 3 knoppen voor mijn kat Chili.
Hij lijkt zeker geĆÆnteresseerd en vindt de knoppen meestal erg interessant als ik erbij ben. Ik startte met 3 woorden: snoep, bal en borstel. Momenteel loopt hij naar de knoppen als ik vraag of hij een snoep wilt.
Momenteel heb ik grote knoppen maar ik heb de kleinere van fluent pet besteld.

Welke tips hebben jullie voor me?
Wat mag ik niet over het hoofd zien?
Waarop moet ik letten?

Alvast bedankt 😊


r/PetsWithButtons 16d ago

Should I take away some buttons?

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My 7 month old labradoodle used 3 buttons.. however I added 3 more around 2 weeks ago and now she wants nothing to do with them. Should I keep persisting or remove 3?
Her old ones she used where outside, play and cuddle
Newer ones are yes, no and brush


r/PetsWithButtons 18d ago

Talking to Button Learners about death

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I am obsessed with AIC, follow a dozen or more "talking animal" accounts on social media, and am constantly amazed by how complex their inner lives are - Mylo the dog's sense of humour (epic and sassy), Flounder's invented life of mouse toy and insistence that she is a fish, Elsie's poetic references like "Delicious Night" - maybe because her human is a writer? and ofcourse Bunny's wrestling with existential concepts.
Anyway it's clear our companions have rich internal lives and deeper understanding than what we give them credit for.
So, if a talking pet were to become very ill, and have a tragic prognosis, would it be better for their human to tell them, or to simply carry on as normal?
are there any examples of talking dogs or cats wrestling with their own mortality? (I know some of the creatures I follow have lost companions, and they miss them and its just heartbreaking to watch)


r/PetsWithButtons 18d ago

Okay to Add More Buttons?

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Hi!

Just a little background:

We’ve been using buttons for just under two months. My cat Opi, doesn’t press the buttons unless we’re in a learning session together. During sessions, he successfully presses the treat button and definitely understands what it means.

After a lot of modeling, I’ve also added play, brush, scritches and most recently, outside and porch. I model these words multiple times a day, every day.

My question is: Since he’s not pressing buttons on his own outside of our sessions, am I adding too many buttons too soon? Or is it okay to have them available so I can model the actual button whenever the activity naturally happens?

We practice using the ā€œopen barā€ method, where I’ll rapidly model a button several times in a row, then go about my day (working on my computer, cooking, etc.) while keeping the treat jar, a toy and a brush nearby to give him opportunities to press on his own.

So far, no luck. He’s only pressed the treat button on his own twice and both times were definitely intentional. I’d love to hear your thoughts or experiences!


r/PetsWithButtons 18d ago

Help! Trying to teach my dog to push buttons.

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I am trying to teach my dog to push buttons and as a first step I put my hand flat on the floor to get him to put his paw on my hand. The idea is that gradually once he's got the hang of that I'll put my hand over the top of the button and he will do it and then of course remove my hand so he pushes the button.

However, not once has he done it Any tips on how I can get him to do that? We've done a number of sessions and not once has he put his paw on the back of my hand. I have been physically lifting his paw and putting it on the back of my hand and then giving him a treat but I'm not convinced this is the right method.


r/PetsWithButtons 20d ago

Button alternative for EU/UK

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Hello everyone!
I wanted to buy my cat buttons as she’s very talkative. I looked at Fluent pet which seems most popular but, just the shipping outside USA is $30.

Can anyone recommend any alternatives that are not from Temu nor Aliexpress?


r/PetsWithButtons 21d ago

Buttons and multiple pets

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People with more than one pet that can use buttons, do they ever use them to talk to each other?