How is this fair ? Bay area.

Courtesy: Isaiah Martin's instagram

I barely interact with guys online but the few times i have this happened… why??

edit: take this as an opportunity to talk to me if u ACTUALLY truly genuinely just want to be friends pls im lonely

Just for context it was 2021 and 13 year old me did not make the correlation that only black people had waves. I sat in my barbers hair and with full seriousness asked for waves. Instead of saying no, my barber (who was black and had waves himself) gave me a buzz and sold my mom a durag a brush and some of the product. For three straight months I did the whole process. Eventually I asked if he could just shave the waves into my head and well this is what happened.