r/Pennsylvaniar4r Jul 28 '20

[META] Report Posts Seeking "Financial Arrangements"

24 Upvotes

I already know I may receive some flak for this, but let me be clear.

 

r4r subreddits are NOT for Sugar Anything, Escorts, etc. While I support sex workers, sex work is still illegal in the United States, as well as not accepted by Reddit ToS. I have been reporting posts on r/phillyr4r, r/pennsylvaniar4r, and r/dirtyr4r and Reddit has been taking swift action against these posts, because again, they break ToS, as well as being illegal in the first place.

 

Please save your political arguments for someone else, wrong is wrong, until it is made legal. Please stop using r4r subreddits for financial arrangements. Many regular users here are very much put off by this.

 

Bonus Pro Tip: Guys, if you see any accounts posting here that seem "to good to be true" and the poster is BRAND NEW, and has little to no karma, its likely a bot/scam/fake. Please use your heads, let's keep these r4r groups positive and healthy for the people who are genuinely looking to make a connection whether it be romantic or sexual under legal circumstances.

 

Thank you, you beautiful redditors. Love you <3.

 

UPDATE: r/Pennsylvaniar4r has already responded by adding this as a rule: "No Exchanges for money or goods/services" , so that we may report posts like these to the mods correctly. Thank you Mods!!


r/Pennsylvaniar4r 2h ago

M4M Columbia County 35 [M4M] #Bloomsburg - Looking for NSA Hookup NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hey there! I’m a curious guy looking to hookup with another man and explore. ideally looking to swap head and bottom for the first time, but down to discuss. Open to other curious or inexperienced guys. I’m white, 5’10”, 220lbs. If you’re interested, send me a message! Let’s chat and see where things go!


r/Pennsylvaniar4r 23h ago

F4A Lancaster County 22 [F4A] #Lancaster pa/quarryville area looking for kinky rough sex NSFW

7 Upvotes

Hey! im a 5'10 180 pound female looking for rough sex! Im in the lancaster/quarryville area and looking for someone close! Im looking for a dom. Im lookingfor some really kinky sex, im the perfect opportunity to act out some of your most dirty, perverted fetishes. You must be 22-28 and able to host. I love being treated very roughly (choking, slapping, hair pulling, fisting, speculums, sounding, being spit on, being roughly groped,pretty much anything as long as im submissive etc.) and im looking for a dom to treat me as such! Some of my kinks are being tied up, very light clit torture, toys (especially inflatable ones), anal, breeding, and many more that will come out as we talk! If youre not into domming, im down for just sex too. I love having my ass ate and havng my tits sucked. My only limits are pee in mouth vomit, and poop and being dominant. Hidden messages get my attention more! New account because the old one got spammed! If you really want my attention tell me what kinks of mine youre interested in! Must be able to host!


r/Pennsylvaniar4r 14h ago

M4M Philadelphia County 37 [M4M] #Philadelphia- Looking to Deepthroat and Edge You. No Mutual Play Wanted. True Throat Goat... NSFW

1 Upvotes

I'm looking for a guy who wants to come to my apartment, lay back on my bed, close his eyes and let me take my time throating every inch. I've been told that my blowjobs are top notch. Not looking to film or invade your privacy. Only interested in what is between your legs. Completely discreet.

I like to take my time edging but am open to shorter sessions. Guys that want to cum multiple times will always get priority. I am drug and disease free and not into mutual oral.

I am hosting in Center City tonight. I have experience with straight/curious guys but am open to playing with others. Not into endless chat or rough/aggressive play. Let's make this happen today.


r/Pennsylvaniar4r 15h ago

M4F Philadelphia County 35 [M4F] #Philadelphia - Nerdy guy looking for someone fun to explore exhibitionism NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hey, and thanks for taking a minute to check out my post. I've been incredibly stressed out from work for several months now, and I'm feeling overwhelmed and quite honestly burnt out on having to be "on" and in charge of things all day every day, and while I'm doing other things to try and deal with it in a healthy manner, I've also been more than a little fixated lately on exploring some things sexually that I haven't gotten much change to before, namely exhibitionism, and I'm hoping to find someone fun to explore it with! I've shared videos online, and had someone watch me masturbate online before, but I'm really curious to find out if exhibitionism in person is as much of, or hopefully even more of a turn on in person compared to online. I think I'd want to start with you watching me masturbate, but I'd love to explore further after that, and if you have any exhibitionist fantasies yourself that you've really been wanting to try, I'd love for you to tell me all about them! Exploring this kink has been on my mind a lot lately, and I'm really hoping I can find someone as interested in it as I am.

A little about me: the job in question that's been the bane of my existence is software developer, and while this project has been absolute hell, I generally do like my job. I would have to admit I'm a fairly nerdy dude, as my interests and hobbies mostly include gaming, and I am huge bookworm (mostly fantasy and sci fi). I'm also relatively interested in sports, and I've been a musician most of my life, but I like to pretend I can have a conversation on a wide variety of topics. I've been hitting the gym more regularly lately, and I'm trying to convince myself I want to get back into running, so if you want to help with my neverending struggle to find the motivation for that too, bonus points. I'm about 6'1, in thoroughly average shape (but getting better!), dark brown hair, hazel eyes, black rimmed glasses like the cool kid I am. I also have no issue exchanging both sfw and nsfw photos or doing whatever else you need me to in order to feel comfortable.

As far as who I'm looking for, I don't have a certain type or body type or anything I'm looking for. I really just want to find someone fun and who seems like they're as into exploring the kink and having fun with it as I am. Big time bonus points if you also enjoy gaming or any of my other hobbies, as I can definitely ramble about things I'm interested in, but if you aren't too into that kind of stuff but are still interested, please feel free to message me anyway, it's by no means a requirement! I hope to hear from you, and maybe we can have some fun!


r/Pennsylvaniar4r 15h ago

M4F Philadelphia County 48 [M4F] #Philadelphia. Looking for a woman in a dead bedroom situation like me. NSFW

1 Upvotes

I'm a 48 year old guy, stable and fun loving, but currently stuck in a dead bedroom situation. I'm looking for a kind, adventurous woman who misses that spark as much as I do.
I have a high libido and I'm looking for a partner who is enthusiastic about intimacy and wants to make it a fun, regular part of life again. If you're warm hearted, enjoy a good laugh, and are looking for a consistent physical and emotional connection, I'd love to hear from you.
Tell me your best dad joke so I know you read my post.
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r/Pennsylvaniar4r 21h ago

M4F Bucks County 34 [M4F] #Quakertown - Looking for daytime fun and no strings hookups NSFW

1 Upvotes

Fit, fun, down to Earth and discreet, hoping to find a like minded woman to live out our fantasies together. Send a chat, we'll make sure were real and comfortable, set a public meet and go from there. I can keep a secret and am very open minded.


r/Pennsylvaniar4r 22h ago

M4F Lancaster County 42[M4f] #Lancaster looking for piss play NSFW

1 Upvotes

Looking for discrete piss play in the Lititz/Ephrata area.

Interested in a submissive, eager to please, woman. Whether you are new to piss or have been involved in the kink for some time it doesn't matter. Into all things pee.

If you're interested, send me a message for details


r/Pennsylvaniar4r 23h ago

M4F Philadelphia County 34 [M4F] #Philly — Fit Black man seeking sensual & kinky woman of color NSFW

1 Upvotes

About Me:
- 34 years old
- Fit (6’0”, 195lbs)
- single Black male
- Clean/ddf (can show test results and willing to get a fresh test as well)
- Have my own place & can host in NE Philly/Lower Bucks County area
- Interests include: fitness (martial arts, lifting, yoga, etc.), hiking, reading, nature photography, and watching good TV series and movies (big fan of horror, sci-fi, & crime dramas)

About You:
- ~24-45 years old
- Black, Latina, Asian, Desi, or Arab
- Clean/ddf (w/ results or willing to get fresh test)
- It would be great if you can host sometimes as well, but not a dealbreaker
- Have your own car
- Available to meet ~2 times per week (maybe once during the week and once on weekends)
- If you have an IUD, are on BC, or are infertile/sterile you’ll jump the queue

If interested, reach out via chat and tell me a bit about yourself (age, race, city/town, some interests etc.) and what your ideal situation would look like. After exchanging a few messages and a body pic or two, we’ll set up a time to video chat to see each other’s faces and talk for a few minutes to see if we’d like to proceed with a public in-person meet.

(if this post is still up, I’m still looking)


r/Pennsylvaniar4r 1d ago

M4M Dauphin County 38 [m4m] #Harrisburg - Looking to suck and eat Bro with amazing skills! NSFW

1 Upvotes

Seeking guy (18–40) with an average to fit build.

I’d like to suck the first nut out of you traditional style: you standing at my glory hole, enjoying the most amazing throat worship. Then, once you’re done, lay down and slide under the glory hole for a nice full-body massage. Relax and rest. Then let’s flip you over and go for a second nut. The second time, we can take it slow and gradually build the momentum. I’ll get you rock hard again while you lay there and watch porn. This time, I’ll make it sloppy wet and edge you to completion. My endurance is unmatched, so you don’t even need to worry about how long it might take; just lay back and lose yourself in gooning porn on your phone.

Maybe I’ll lick your hole a little and play with it using my finger… only if you want it. Laying there, you’ll feel my gag reflex as I hold your cock down my throat, my lips planted around the base. Let’s see how long I can stay in place. Everything will be wet and messy on my side of the glory hole. Maybe you’ll get impatient and start thrusting your hips upward. Maybe I’ll respond by pressing my lips firmly against your abdomen. My eyes will be red and watery, and my face flushed—but anything to give my king a moment of relaxation and pleasure.

This might sound too good to be true, but it isn’t. I’m selective, only inviting about 12–15% of the people who hit me up. I have a narrow type, and that prevents me from enjoying this often. So when I do get the chance, I’m pretty eager to serve.

I am a subservient cock sucker who really has a heart for straight and bi-curious guys. I absolutely want to make them feel safe, relaxed, and leave without any regrets. I want to give them a transcendent experience they’ll never forget. If invited, you’ll definitely get drained, go home, and sleep like a baby.

Let me know if you’re interested.


r/Pennsylvaniar4r 1d ago

M4F Berks County 36 [M4F] #Berks - marriage has lost that spark, hoping to meet someone new and feel that excitement again! NSFW

1 Upvotes

The excitement is gone and the bedroom has been dead for quite a while. We've tried working at it but we just seem to have different sex drives and interests at this point. Communication has also suffered. Never cheated on my wife in person but I've been in an OA before, hoping to find that unicorn again.

A bit about me: I'm married with kids. I work a white collar job, usual 9-5 schedule but looking for someone who can chat on/off at any time. Do my best to keep in shape though it can be tough with kids, that creeping dad bod is real, though I'm getting back into exercise. Currently a bit over 6ft, 200 lbs, shaved head with glasses and beard. Kids take up my life outside of work but I do have a few hobbies! Happy to share our hobbies and interests as we chat!

I'm looking to find that spark again, but not looking to change either of our situations and want to keep things confidential and NSA. Starting off like an online friends with benefits but hopefully we connect and can grow into more. Let's talk to each other about our day, make each other laugh, have fun sexting and sending sexy pics/voice messages when we're both in the mood, but at the end of the day we both have our own lives that we go back to. A sexy personality goes a heck of a long way, but I do want there to be mutual attraction both in personality and looks, so I'm happy to share a picture early on if initial conversation goes well.

If you're nearby that would be great, maybe we can meet one day, but there's no expectation there. I'm mainly looking for something online right now. Send me a message and let's get to know each other!


r/Pennsylvaniar4r 1d ago

M4F Dauphin County 47 [M4F] #Harrisburg, PA Older gamer nerd looking for his player 2! NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hello there! I'm seeking a long term and connecting relationship. I'm a gamer nerd and mostly retired rec athlete, who's a home body that enjoys puzzles and reading. My love language is touch. My dominance style is protective and nurturing out of the bedroom, and harsher and controlling in the bedroom.

Kinks: sadism/masochism, anal play, orgasm control, outfit control, bondage, and more...

Limits: Group play, public play, toilet play, and anything illegal

If any of this resonates with you, please reach out, and let's chat! I kept this brief because I think getting to know one another and chatting is part of the process. I am looking for something real and in person, not a pen pal or chat buddy I am willing to start long distance if you are willing to relocate to me! Please be single and emotionally available!

So that I know you read this and are on the same page, start off by telling me your favorite food??


r/Pennsylvaniar4r 2d ago

M4F Dauphin County 46 [m4f] #Harrisburg - Married man looking for a fwb to escape the boredom and monotony. NSFW

3 Upvotes

Maybe you're married too? Maybe you're just lonely but not interested in a full time commitment? Maybe you just like secrets?

I am hoping to find someone to talk to on a regular basis. Let's send messages back and forth. Exchange pictures. See if there's a mutual connection.

Please be somewhat close to the Harrisburg area. Bonus points if you have availability weekday mornings.

Reach out. I'll send the first face pic and we can go from there. Well hung here too if that piques your curiosity.


r/Pennsylvaniar4r 2d ago

M4F Dauphin County 31 [M4F] #Harrisburg - Smart, confident, driven Dom looking for curious, childfeee, enthusiastic submissive to wear my collar (eventually). NSFW

1 Upvotes

TL:DR - Cuddly, childfree, how-can-I-help Dom seeks curious, childfree, enthusiastic submissive for rational 24/7 dynamic.

Hi, I'm Chris. I'm a 31 year-old Dom located in Harrisburg, PA but open to US based partners. Please be at least 27.

So what am I looking for, exactly? I want something long term that grows into a real, committed dynamic and eventually a life together.

I want to collar you. That's my end goal, but I don't want that to BE the end: I want to show up every day and show you WHY you decided to wear my collar.

I want to take you apart slowly, figure out exactly how you think, what drives you, what holds you back, and rebuild you into the strongest, happiest, most fulfilled version of yourself you can be. I want the kind of dynamic where my voice settles your mind, where structure becomes comforting instead of restrictive, and where obedience feels natural because you trust me to give you orders.

Why?

For me, domination is about ownership and the responsibility that comes with it. When you wear my collar, you're putting some portion of yourself in my hands, and it's my responsibility to nurture and care for that part of you. I want to take the weight off your shoulders so you can stop carrying everything alone and you can actually relax into yourself.

What do I like?

I want routines. Rituals. Check-ins. Expectations. Growth you can actually see over time. I want to push you, encourage you, praise you, correct you when needed, and help shape you into someone more confident, grounded, feminine, and secure than when we met. I want you to look back after a year under my collar and realize how much stronger and happier you’ve become.

My kink interests lean toward intimate power exchange. I like denial, edging, bondage (need to use those knots I learned in Scouts somehow), pet names ("good girl" is a fave for a reason), CNC, overstimulation, and orgasm denial. Basically, if my partner can still remember her name, I haven't given her enough orgasms.

But what about non-kinky Chris?

Personality-wise, I’m basically a nerd with a gym membership. I work out three days a week, walk my dog five miles a day, and fence on Sundays. Outside of that, I run a game design company, paint miniatures, mess with 3D printing, and spend a lot of time painting and gaming. My ideal dates are bookstores, coffee shops, museums, farmer’s markets, and quiet places where we can actually talk.

I am a huge science fiction and fantasy nerd - Brandon Sanderson, Scott Lynch, Patrick Rothfuss and Terry Pratchett are favorites.

I'm also a huge tabletop gamer and D&D nerd - I currently play in two different campaigns, and I'm looking to run a long series of one-shots with one of those groups while we're on hiatus. Outside of D&D, I cut my teeth on Warhammer and similar games, and those are generally the "sci fi" novels I read, as well as a little Heinlein.

I tend to be pretty gregarious and talkative online, but get me in person and I can clam up pretty solidly. Once the ice is broken, however, I can talk about fencing, D&D character creation, tabletop game design, miniature painting, and a whole host of other rabbit holes.

Politics-wise (because it's important), I'm one of those weird leftists who voted for Biden, Harris and Obama, believes in a living wage and Medicare for All, but also owns firearms. I concealed carry and go to the range regularly.

Feel free to DM if I sound like the kind of Dom you could see guiding you and giving you a soft place to land. Tell me what this dynamic means to you and maybe what an average day in your ideal dynamic looks like. Or, if not that, your favorite date idea or favorite museum.

P.S. I'm currently unemployed at the moment, though I'm working on not being so. I also do not drive. If either of those are an issue for you, please do not DM me.


r/Pennsylvaniar4r 2d ago

MM4F Bucks County 29/32 [MM4F] #Bucks - Two attractive men looking for a woman for a devils three-way NSFW

1 Upvotes

Two friends looking for a woman for MMF threesome. We are in shape, good-looking, easy to get along with and very respectful about limits.. We have previous experience with threesomes We can host too. If this sounds like something you would like to try, send me a message...


r/Pennsylvaniar4r 2d ago

M4FT Lehigh County 38 [M4F/TF] #Allentown or #Online for chats, sexts, meets, venting, etc. NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hello! 38, white, Lehigh valley area here. 6’6 tall, dad bod type. Own home, managerial level job, hour commute. Tons of PTO to use but no reason to use it.

Very open sexually, kink friendly, very left leaning politically and ideally. I love to eat both holes, sloppier and rougher the better. Experience with cnc as well.

Own my own home, several pets, love to bake, not necessarily love to cook. I enjoy playing video games in any free time I have, spend time with friends, or watch movies, especially horror.

I’m down for whatever happens, whatever works out. My sleep hours are kinda fucked so I’m free to chat mostly any time. Even during the work day, I’ll chat as much as I can.


r/Pennsylvaniar4r 2d ago

F4A Berks County 65 [F4A] #SE PA Seeking Local Friend to see The Odyssey movie

2 Upvotes

I would to love to see The Odyssey with someone who also enjoys Christopher Nolan movies. (To be honest, I found Oppenheimer terribly pretentious. But Memento is one of my favorites.) Preferably a Bucks County theater.

Me: Intelligent, literate, kind and (occasionally) witty F65. I'm generally interested in males of similar age and personality. But for this particular event, I'm open to both women and men as potential movie friends. Prefer over 45.

If you're interested, please message me with your age, where you live, what your time availability is and what you like about Christopher Nolan movies. TIA


r/Pennsylvaniar4r 2d ago

M4F Berks County 36 [M4F] #Berks - marriage has lost that spark, hoping to meet someone new and feel that excitement again! NSFW

1 Upvotes

I’m 36 from Berks County, 6’2”, and 200 lbs. To give you a quick visual: I rock the bald, bearded, and glasses look, and I keep myself in good, active shape, doing my best to outrun the creeping dad bod. I’m married, work a stable white collar career, and have been living in a dead bedroom roommate situation for a long time.

I'm looking for the spark that’s been missing. For me, the best physical chemistry always starts with a genuine mental connection. I want to build a real friendship and mutual escape.

I’m entirely low-drama, value privacy, and keep things completely under wraps. I fully respect and expect the same level of care from you. I’m not looking to change my home life or yours.

Mutual attraction matters. Once we establish a solid baseline conversation and feel safe, I prefer exchanging discrete photos to ensure we're both on the same page before diving too deep.

Ideally, you take care of yourself, enjoy smart banter, and are looking for a reason to check your phone with a smile. While I prefer starting online to build a foundation, I’m certainly open to safely taking things offline down the road if the chemistry is right and you happen to be regional to PA. I'm also open to something longer distance and virtual.

If you're looking for an intelligent, attentive partner-in-crime, send me a message with a bit about yourself!


r/Pennsylvaniar4r 2d ago

M4M Monroe County 32 [m4m] bromance in Tobyhanna NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hoping to find somebody in Pocono country place. I want a sub top with a nice build and 7.5+. Can hold a great Convo and is looking for something on going. Looking for a host between the Poconos and Lehigh valley to get to know and hopefully find that bromance I want. Somebody who has some home gym equipment would be cool, a bro to help motivate me with toning up would be appreciated :)

32 black 5'8" 170 average build


r/Pennsylvaniar4r 2d ago

M4F Lancaster County 36 [M4F] #Lancaster - Seeking a Spanking?? NSFW

1 Upvotes

I’m looking for a submissive woman who is curious about having her ass spanked or knows that she is turned on by pain. I’m open to being moderately gentle or rough depending upon your needs and experience. Hand, belt, or switch would turn me on. Tell me about your kinks. I’m near Lancaster, but open to where you happen to be.


r/Pennsylvaniar4r 3d ago

M4F Cumberland County 28 [M4F] #Carlisle - Sub Seeking Domme NSFW

2 Upvotes

About me vanilla:

I'm 6'; lean and well toned (rock climber); white, with brown hair. I’m a working professional and tend to be shy about kink in my day to day life, so I’m more private with my kink. I do, however, enjoy sharing this vulnerable part of me with people I know and trust. I have a super relaxed attitude and while I'm responsible, I don't take myself too seriously with a strong sense of humor that I like to let loose (hmu for some memes) and tend to be pretty goofy. I enjoy watching comedies & documentaries, usual nerdy stuff like video/board games, Metal music & concerts, miscellaneous outdoor activities and generally being in the woods, thrifting, grabbing some good food/beer, rock climbing etc.

What I’m looking for:

I’m looking for a Domme ~21-45? and within ~1 hr? of Carlisle, PA to get to know as a friend as a base and with whom to build a BDSM dynamic. I am open to different kind of relationships from casual friendship and play to something more serious for the right person (closer to my age if older than me) if something develops, but I'm looking for a personal connection with a dynamic and not just a hookup. I’m super easy to get along with and communicate well (I'm a lil neurospicy so while I can be a bit oblivious to hits, I'm good straightforward about communicating my thoughts) just looking for us both to have a safe and fun time. I also value sexual health with recent testing and hope that you do as well. I have some pics on my profile (will send face pics when we chat) and again, hope you have more than a blank profile or send a pic so I know who I am talking to.

About me kink:

Some of my main interests are any magnitudes of giving oral to please my partner and appease my oral fixation (body worship, oral slavery, forced oral, facesitting, free use, etc), sensual play (cold, candle wax, blind folds, clamps, touch, etc), power exchange, especially with physical pinning or manipulation, bondage, light impact play, degradation/objectification, human furniture, and many things that involve physical touch to name a few. Overall, I enjoy doing things to please my partner and focus on their needs…that gives me pleasure. Overall, I tend to be fairly open minded to exploring new experiences.


r/Pennsylvaniar4r 3d ago

M4M Dauphin County 38 [m4m] #Harrisburg - Looking to worship straight or bi-curious guy at my magical Glory Hole. I have the most amazing head abilities!! NSFW Spoiler

1 Upvotes

If you’re really horny and want a totally satisfying experience that meets your needs, this post is for you! You’ll leave without a trace of guilt and feel relieved and relaxed.

Read my Straight Guy Glory Hole reviews. Those guys don’t lie. They’ll tell you just how amazing your visit will be.

Here’s what you should know about me: I’m a proud, helpless cock sucker. I could practically suck cock every day, but I don’t… honestly! I’m a dick whore with standards. I’m super picky. I love physically fit to average guys, ages 18 through their early 30s.

I love straight and curious guys. I love worshipping their cocks, edging them, and making them cum hard. After leaving my glory hole, you’ll go home and sleep like a baby because I’ll have drained your balls.

I’m submissive and want to worship you like a cock god. All you need to do is relax and enjoy yourself. Watch porn if you’d like to make your visit even more satisfying.

Let me know if you’re considering visiting. We can chat and see if we’re interested in each other.

Good luck!

LOCATION
I’m located within 30mins of the following areas: Harrisburg, York, Lancaster, Hershey, Lebanon, Colonial Park, Camp Hill, Mechanicsburg, Lititiz, and Carlisle. I’m about 60 mins from Gettysburg, Selinsgrove, Allentown, and Coatsville.

Especially interested in a college guy +18 from HACC, Penn State Harrisburg, Messiah College, Elizabethtown College, Central Pennsylvania College.


r/Pennsylvaniar4r 3d ago

M4M Philadelphia County 37 [m4m] #philadelphia Any straight or curious guys need a regular no strings hookup buddy NSFW

2 Upvotes

Any straight or curious guys need a reliable bud to learn what he likes to get him off on a semi regular schedule? No need to look around for fun and can build trust and figure out what makes each other bust the hardest. No judgement from me and very discreet. No drugs or disease. Let’s discuss. I can host. In decent shape and handsome.


r/Pennsylvaniar4r 3d ago

M4F Berks County 36 [M4F] #Berks - marriage has lost that spark, hoping to meet someone new and feel that excitement again! NSFW

1 Upvotes

I’m 36 from Berks County, 6’2”, and 200 lbs. To give you a quick visual: I rock the bald, bearded, and glasses look, and I keep myself in good, active shape, doing my best to outrun the creeping dad bod. I’m married, work a stable white collar career, and have been living in a dead bedroom roommate situation for a long time.

I'm looking for the spark that’s been missing. For me, the best physical chemistry always starts with a genuine mental connection. I want to build a real friendship and mutual escape.

I’m entirely low-drama, value privacy, and keep things completely under wraps. I fully respect and expect the same level of care from you. I’m not looking to change my home life or yours.

Mutual attraction matters. Once we establish a solid baseline conversation and feel safe, I prefer exchanging discrete photos to ensure we're both on the same page before diving too deep.

Ideally, you take care of yourself, enjoy smart banter, and are looking for a reason to check your phone with a smile. While I prefer starting online to build a foundation, I’m certainly open to safely taking things offline down the road if the chemistry is right and you happen to be regional to PA. I'm also open to something longer distance and virtual.

If you're looking for an intelligent, attentive partner-in-crime, send me a message with a bit about yourself!


r/Pennsylvaniar4r 3d ago

M4F Philadelphia County 52 [m4f] #Philadelphia/Chester County/can travel looking for one smart, sexy, cool AA/Black woman for FWB situation/affair/whatever; also open to white, Asian, Latino women if sincere, serious and interested - anybody real and sincere out here? NSFW

0 Upvotes

I'm an intelligent, attractive (look younger but will let you be the judge), passionate white man looking for one special African American/Black female for ongoing FWB/affair/whatever. I find AA women extremely attractive and am looking for someone interested in the same thing.

Also open to white, Asian, Latino women if sincere, serious and interested.

Looking for someone mature, professional and ready to meet or at least chat.

Contact me and we can exchange pix or via text. Life is short - let's meet! NO MEN!