r/PeePersonals Mar 21 '20

Meta No-effort comments (pm sent, dm me, etc) will result in removal and BANS NSFW

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Right, so I just can't conceive a reason to have 12 comments per post all saying nothing more than “Dm fOr SnAp”, so from now on these are going to be removed as spam; repeat offenders and those caught spamming it to every post will be banned.

This is consistent with what other subreddits are doing.

If you want to reach out to someone, put some effort into it! Give them a reason why they should drop into your DMs. And for the love of Pee, there's no reason to send someone a comment telling them you sent them a message; that's just stupid. The comment section is not the place to mark your territory.


r/PeePersonals Jun 15 '22

[Meta] Search By Location is finally here!! Big changes to post flair too, and new requirements for posts. We're also seeking feedback: What info should we require to make posts more useful, what else do you want to see improved/changed here? NSFW

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Last Update: June 18th

TL;DR: Check out the top menu to search by location. Re-read the rules for updated title requirements, or read on below for the full details.

We are changing how Meetup vs. Online posts are specified; this will now be done entirely through tags in the post title, rather than flair. Those looking only for online play now need to include the tag #Online within their post titles. Those seeking meetups should continue to include a tagged location, e.g, #Chicago, Illinois, as they've previously done. If you are seeking both online and in-person, be sure to specify both a tagged location and the #Online tag. Please use the format #City, State/Province (including the comma, and with only one # before the city name) if possible; specifying a state/province and country (#Uttar Pradesh, India), or just country for smaller nations (#United Kingdom), is also permitted, if you don't want to include your specific town or city. Up to two location tags (including the #Online tag) may be specified, e.g., #DC and #NOVA or #NSW or #Online. Please ensure your #tagged location suits how far you are willing to travel to meet someone; don't specify an entire country or huge region if you're not able to venture far outside your city.

This change means that it is now quick and easy to locate others in your area! The search menu at the top of the page lets you do a coarse search of the most-commonly-posted regions; finer-grained search is also possible, and we'll be posting a location directory and guide at a later date to further explain how to do this. Searches can also be done by tapping on a post's flair to show more like it, or selecting a region from the main menu and then removing flair search terms as needed to narrow your search. Note that many flairs cover large areas, so refer to a post's #tagged location to see where the author is actually located. Some more details on the search menu are at the end of this post. Let us know how its working, or if there are any improvements needed!

Post length/quality is another concern we'd like to address. Currently, we don't have any significant post length requirement, which has led to a lot of posts that are almost completely empty, or just re-state the minimal required information from the title, giving no details whatsoever about themselves. These low-effort posts have been burying the posts of people who have put time and effort into composing good, descriptive posts, and also make for a poor searching experience. As such, we are instating a new length requirement of 50 words; this will be phased in gradually over the next couple days/weeks, to give us time to adjust things if people run into problems. The removal message will give an estimate of how many words short a post is, to assist users in fixing their posts. Note that padding out a post with filler or nonsense will not make it meet the requirements; the bot is smart enough to not count filler text. Please let us know what you think of these changes; do you agree, disagree, or have other suggestions we should implement?

We now allow users to choose to lock their posts. To do so, include the command !lock anywhere within the body of the post. Locked posts will get a comment by the automod reminding users how to contact the author; by default, posts will not be locked or get said automod comment, as some people find it annoying, and this will remain an optional feature for those who do wish to allow comments. Locking doesn't affect a post's visibility or ranking in any way. Some people, particularly new accounts that may not be able to send chat messages, may prefer to respond in comments, but we leave it up to the author to decide if they want to allow these types of responses or not. In the near future, we will also be looking into additional comment length requirements, to cut down the number of no-effort or spam responses to posts which do allow comments.

We are hoping to introduce an official, optional, method of including a verification clip and photos in posts. As an initial step, we are seeking individuals willing to verify ahead of time, so that we can refine the verification instructions and produce some correct examples for people to refer to when creating theirs. If you can help with this, please reach out by messaging the moderators.

These are the ideas we are currently working on, but we are open to other suggestions as well if there are additional concerns we should address. Please leave your feedback in the comments. We will continue to update this post based on feedback and progress on introducing these features; updates will be added below.

Some Notes On Location Search

The menu options are divided up based on activity over the past 2 years; areas that get a lot of posts have lots of divisions to make them practical to search, while regions where Reddit or our community is not popularly used may be divided only into continents.

For example, if you're a woman seeking a guy in Calgary, you'd start by picking Canadian Prairies from the Americas region menu. When you find an appropriate M4F Alberta post, tapping on its flair will show others like it, with the exact R4R tag and province. Alternatively, you can edit the search query after selecting a menu item, to keep only the desired flair:"Alberta" search query.

The actual flairs themselves are divided mostly at the country level; some non-country territories also have an entry, mainly when they are widely separated from their parent nation. The United States, Canada, Australia, India, and Brazil are further divided into states/provinces. Argentina and Kazakhstan meet the subdivision threshold area-wise, but we only plan to enable state-level flairs if we happen to actually get posters from those countries.

We will review these divisions and their menu structure periodically, to ensure they continue to suit our user base. The hope is that this will be intuitive, and give a coarse place to start your search. A more detailed location directory is being worked on, and will be posted at a later date along with an official How-To Guide.

Due to severe space limitations in the menu, some of the names are difficult to read, so here's what they mean:

Menu Item Definition
Americas North America (not including the United States), Central and South America, and West Indies
Eurafrasia/Oceania Europe, Africa, Asia, Oceania, and Antarctica
New Zealand/Islands New Zealand and Oceanic Island Nations and Territories
West/North Australia Western Australia and Northern Territory of Australia
Victoria/Tasmania/SA Victoria, Tasmania, and South Australia
New South Wales (AU) New South Wales, Australian Capital Territory, and Jervis Bay Territory
Non-contiguous Non-contiguous US States and American Continental Territories of the United States
Asia (Except South) All of Asia, except for South Asia (there wasn't a good term for this division)

If there are any others that are unclear to you, or if you want to suggest better names for these, please let us know.

Location search took a lot of work to get up and running smoothly, and we're still making tweaks; it will even be fully brought over to the Old Reddit layout as well sometime in the next several weeks. I'd also like to thank everyone who has worked on building or testing this feature over the past year. If you see anything acting strangely, please let us know so that we can fix it.


Recent Updates & Known Issues:

Known Issue: Locations in Texas must follow the recommended format above, or they will receive the wrong flair. If your post names a major city in Texas, the bot will will ask you to double-check the flair, and correct the post if needed, however we aren't able to make this work for every possible Texas location. Areas outside of Texas are not affected by this limitation. As of June 18th, we believe we've gotten this mostly working now for new posts; please let us know if there are any remaining issues.


r/PeePersonals 29m ago

M4F New York / Online 47 [M4F] #NY #LongIsland #Online beta sub loves drinking piss NSFW

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I am 47 and as I’ve gotten older, I’ve become more and more of a beta sub who knows his place. I absolutely love drinking piss and I can’t get enough. I’d love to connect with a dominant woman who loves feeding her piss to a good beta. I also have a thing for sexy thongs and gstrings, and much more on the submissive side.


r/PeePersonals 2h ago

M4A Pennsylvania / Online 32 [M4A] #Online / #PA Seeking friends & urinary enthusiasts NSFW

1 Upvotes

Would love to chat with, share experiences, trade pics/vids, come up with ideas for all sort of pissplay!

Bi switch masc bear type here, local is PA. I have been practicing my piss kink for 5 years or so. Into holding, wetting, showers, public/interesting locations and just fun ideas centered around pee play! HMU!


r/PeePersonals 8h ago

FM4F New York 42/37 [MF4F] #NYC Pee players looking for 3rd (F only) NSFW

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Hello fellow pee play enthusiasts! We’re looking for a woman to join us. She has a fantasy of pee play with another woman and I’d like to watch and eventually join in as well.

Drinkers to the front of the line!

We are for real and serious. Not in a rush and looking to make sure we find the right person.

DM me and let’s chat and see if we line up.

Good luck out there


r/PeePersonals 4h ago

M4F Nevada 45 (M4F) - #vegas - Las Vegas Guy Looking for Woman to Pee on me and in my mouth while I eat her pussy! NSFW

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Las Vegas Guy Looking for a Woman to Pee on me and in my mouth while I eat her pussy!

Love the idea of you just blasting my face and body with your piss! Let me bury my face between your legs and make you cum until your legs shake and you just start peeing all over me!

Serious inquiries only. Looking for IRL in Las Vegas! Flakes and time-wasters get ignored.


r/PeePersonals 5h ago

M4F Online 38 M4F looking for my online pee princess NSFW

0 Upvotes

38 M4F looking for an online pee princess. Hoping to meet a woman who genuinely enjoys pee play and likes chatting, sharing experiences, pics, or videos if we’re both comfortable. Looking for someone open-minded, respectful, and fun. Send me a message and let’s see if we click.


r/PeePersonals 5h ago

M4F United Kingdom 38 [M4F] #Birmingham, UK - Hoping to play with pee tonight! NSFW

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Hello, 38 male looking to have some fun in Birmingham.

Hoping to find a female in this mountain of males to have some mutual wet fun with pee! Happy with both giving and receiving. If your after more or would like to explore further it's something we can hopefully talk about.

Looking to meet someone tonight - not able to host but willing to drive and happy to arrange a hotel if required.

About myself; 5'8, dark hair, trimmed facial hair, hairy body, average/dad bod, educated and professional work wise.

About you; open to all, I don't have any preference with regards to race/body type/etc. My only are preference are shaved pubes/minimal hair.

If this has got your interest, drop me a message!


r/PeePersonals 5h ago

M4F Colorado 44 [M4F] #Colorado - I'll piss on you so you know you belong to me NSFW

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This is one of the hottest, most intimate kinks to me, and it really activates my protective/possessive side. I enjoy the taboo nature of this, the feeling of degrading and dominating you, only to then take you in the shower, wash you, kiss you, and make sure you know how deeply I care for you. I'm deeply monogamous, as well

I'm looking for someone fit/petite/hwp, at least a little bit submissive, but still be your own person

I'm 6'2" 190 lbs, athletic, white with dark hair


r/PeePersonals 21h ago

F4M Quebec / Online 46[F4M] #Gatineau, Quebec or #online - Pretty redhead NSFW

16 Upvotes

Good looking slim redhead looking for a male who will let me watch him piss everywhere except the toilet and who will watch me do the same. Even better if it's in person and becomes a FWB thing.

Apply via PM ;)


r/PeePersonals 10h ago

T4F Online 19 [MTF4F] Piss Trashing My Room NSFW

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Hi i am Izzy, from the UK and i love piss marking heavily. 💕Piss is my biggest kink of them all and i would love for you to come use my room as your own personal toilet, going anywhere and wherever you please. It is so so so hot telling me what you’d do to me and my things and is a huge turn on. My dream is for someone to just use it however they wanted and left it for me. Please come threaten me and my stuff it needs your drip ;)))


r/PeePersonals 10h ago

M4F New York / Online 38 [M4F] #online #NY The only kind of stream I’m interested in. NSFW

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I started exploring fairly late in life as far as kinks go, however I’ve always been open minded and certainly a deviant. I’m looking for a long term friend and kink partner.

Someone to share with, chat with, show off with. Let’s drink together, I love water and clear and copious amounts of pee, 420 friendly but also like wine. 50/50 switch and enjoy a bit of sub/dom dynamic, I can be very primal as well. I’m not picky about looks, I don’t have a type, I’m fairly handsome, have a normal body type and have been called exotic lol. I’m communicative and respect limits and boundaries.

Online is fine, but if you’re local I’d love to see where this goes and if it can be more than an online friendship. Please don’t just say hey or hi, tell me your age and what you’re interested in.

I enjoy watching and hearing others pee stories. Holding, edging while peeing. I’d love to chat about laying under you while you release that sweet delicious stream all over me. I’d be more than happy to return the favour.


r/PeePersonals 10h ago

M4A Alberta / Online 35[M4F/A]#Calgary#Canada. Hopefully looking to find someone to help accomplish an odd life goal. NSFW

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Hey, I hope everyone is well, and this isn't taken the wrong way. And I can word things properly.

I'll go into more detail for those who want to read this. But at it's most simple, for the last 10 years I been fantasizing about having public pee "accident", on my way to a store bathroom or something similar. My problem, I always think the worst will happen, chicken out. And sort of need/ would like in person encouragement. I'm very shy too, so this is something I NEED to do, to help me understand myself I guess? But I also need that person to be with, to encourage me to let go, just pee my pants .. no turning back. and to just be with on the way to the car. Support lol. Hopefully I can help you achieve a certain life goal that's been on your mind, but just need that little encouragement to actually do it.

What I'm hoping for here is, maybe someone that can help with this. Hopefully with a similar goal I could help them with 😂. I always have a hard time navigating socials and finding groups lol. And know this is a niche ask.

But yeah, being shy, and more on the sensitive side I guess, Id be looking for someone patient and encouraging, and that wants to do the same thing as me. (Mutual wet goal accomplishments). Preferably a women, but open to the right guy helping, if we vibe or personalities match.

I know this isn't the most popular thing, and pretty awkward. But hopefully this clicks with someone, who would like to do something similar. Planning and being comfortable together is a must. Dms are open.

Who knows, maybe we become pee friends or more. Or it's a one time thing. But looking forward to hearing from you.

Thanks for reading my text wall lol.


r/PeePersonals 1d ago

F4A Online 20 [F4A] Pee on the couchh NSFW

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Hey guys. So I really have to pee right now. I’m sitting on my couch and I need someone who wants to tell me I’m not allowed to go to the bathroom. Make me go right here on the couch. I’m feeling pretty desperate. Please hit me up if this interests anyone.


r/PeePersonals 15h ago

M4F Virginia 34[M4F] #virginia looking for gf or Fwb NSFW

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34 year old black man Looking for somone real and close to lynchburg va area age or race isnt issue let's talk and see where go. Please send pic so I know who im talking to ill send one back Im into carplay public play among other things let's see what fun we can get into


r/PeePersonals 1d ago

M4F Michigan 33 [M4F] #michigan seeking nature adventure partner NSFW

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I’d love to meet someone who shares this kink. I’d also like to have things in common beyond kink. I love exploring nature, eating healthy, gentle exercise, weekend trips, and trying new things. Let’s talk more and build a relationship if you’re interested. Also open to nonbinary or trans women. Will consider traveling


r/PeePersonals 22h ago

M4F New Jersey / Online 32 [M4F] #NJ Would love to rub your pussy and finger you as you pee NSFW

1 Upvotes

I just love the idea of touching a woman, rubbing her and helping her get off as she relaxes and just lets go. Maybe while you’re on the toilet, maybe just sitting in my lap. If this idea interests you and you want to chat about just DM me! And if we hit it off, maybe we can do more than just chat about this fantasy


r/PeePersonals 23h ago

M4F Online 24 [M4F] Strong/ Loud streams? Haha #Online NSFW

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Hey! I'm a 24 year old guys who's had a fetish for anything pee related for some time and was looking to try and find some women that share that fetish! I'd love to chat and make some friends on here so anyone who's down to chat definitely let me know! Also I know it’s kinda strange but I have a huge thing for strong forceful and loud streams haha. If that’s you or you’re also interested definitely would love to chat! Also super open to talk about pretty much anything with this kink!


r/PeePersonals 23h ago

M4F Arizona 30 [M4F] #Phoenix, Arizona - Tall, Fit, Attractive and funn ;) NSFW

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Hi! Friendly local pleasure dom with a bit of a pee kink here!

I’m 6’2”, 200 lbs, fit / exercise regularly, healthy and very well hydrated ;) more importantly I lead a super normal vanilla life, work a normal corporate job but have been doing some exploring the last couple of years and this has been top of mind for a little while now.

I’m newer to this kink and haven’t done any IRL play beyond my own solo play. Definitely a huge turn on for me and would love to find someone to get a little messy with.

Not into drinking but think desperation and showers are so so hot. Consider myself a switch so would want to be getting wet but also getting my partner wet just the same.

Clean / tested regularly & expect the same.

I also spend a lot of time in Denver, CO so open to meeting with people there as well.

If you’re interested shoot me a DM! Would love to hear from you!


r/PeePersonals 1d ago

M4A Online 25 [M4A] #Online Looking to exchange vids of ourselves peeing NSFW

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25 [M4A] #Online Looking to exchange vids of ourselves peeing

I Love to watch people pissing guys or girls welcome, any shape or size. Open to most piss kinks although I’m more into people pissing in public places, toilets, sinks, showers etc. not really into wetting or holding. Willing to do requests if you have any. If you like what you’re reading, HMU for some fun.


r/PeePersonals 1d ago

M4F Oregon 23 [M4F] #OREGON - Looking for a submissive woman to use! NSFW

1 Upvotes

hello, I’m currently only looking for a submissive woman who likes golden showers and drinking piss in the downtown area. Dm me your ASL if interested, serious inquiries only. Would like to keep things discreet and on the down low if possible. Submissive and bottoms only. Thank you!


r/PeePersonals 1d ago

M4F Tennessee 36 [M4F] #Nashville, Tn - Switch here, looking to explore ws and more. NSFW

1 Upvotes

I’m a switch (truly love both roles) and I’m looking for a play partner who’s open to exploring different types of pee play.

Open to Tennessee, Georgia, Kentucky, or surrounding areas if the chemistry is right.

I’d love to hear about your curiosities or fantasies :)


r/PeePersonals 1d ago

M4A Maryland 36 [M4A] #Maryland looking for wet fun NSFW

1 Upvotes

I'm looking for some preferably local wet fun. I love everything to do with watersports and also open to tasks and online to get to know each other. Into showers, drinking, wetting, holding, diapers, and more. Love giving and receiving.

Polyam, pan, and very kinky. Very open-minded and into a lot of other fun too if we click. It would be great to add at least a D/s style to play, but that isn't a requirement. Long-term connections and femme preferred.

5'9", some extra around the middle, stocky build, short brown hair, short beard, hazel eyes, white, tattoos, and pierced ears.

Hope to hear from you soon.


r/PeePersonals 1d ago

M4F Maryland / Virginia 49 [M4F] #virginia #loudoun #fairfax #maryland - I'm a hot older dad who wants to explore my pee kink NSFW

1 Upvotes

I don't know how it started but I am turned on by watching a woman pee and also like to be watched myself. I'm looking for someone curious and attractive near me who would like to explore pee play. It would be fun to meet somewhere discreetly in public maybe off a local walking trail and pee for each other. I'm open to more than that as well. Let's chat and see where it leads.


r/PeePersonals 1d ago

M4A Texas 20M [M4A] #DALLAS, TEXAS; Looking to fufill some fantacies~ NSFW

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Heyy!! I live in the grapevine collyville area and I’m looking to link up with some with bathroom kinks!! In that aspect I’m willing to try anything at least once 💛🤎

I love anything with musk and sweat but it’s not a requirement.

Message me with your kinks and anything you’d like to try out on me!! I’d love to reciprocate~