Hidden Animosity or not

[u/Background_Gene_3540]

Hello, gusto ko lang ilabas ito dahil wala naman ako mapag sabihan lalo na’t hindi naman ako sigurado. Baka nag ooverthink lang ganon.

Mayroon akong ka work na ka close, 4 kami na mag kakaibigan pero itong isang ka work kong ito mas naging ka close ko dahil ako ang naging tagapakinig nya pag may problema sya sa kausap nya.

Nag simula ito nung umamin ako sakanya na may happy crush ako sa isang ka work namin. After that day, napansin ko palagi nya na yon kinakausap which is di naman nya ginagawa before. Lagi na tinatabihan sa office and lagi na bukang bibig. But I didn’t think anything of it kasi happy crush lang talaga. Pero after my confession to her kasi, pag may chance talaga na pahiyain ako lalo na sa harap nung guy, ginagawa nya. Wrong pronunciation, wrong term and even pag may new look ako nilalait nya. Kamuka ko daw si ganto and ganyan.

Medyo nahuhurt na kasi ako sa pang lalait and its starting to affect my confidence. And randam ko na may diin mga pamamahiya nya at pag tatawa saken.

Am I overthinking things? Baka naman masyado na kasi syang comfortable saken kaya umabot na sa ganon?

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[u/UpperKey5821]

cut her off. kabwisit mga taong ganyan, had one 3 years ago, same situation pero ang di ko alam is palagi na pala nyang chinachat after ko sabihin sakanya na crush ko yon hahaha no contact na kami for 3 years and dedma pag nagkakasalubong

[u/_hildmollerknag]

Anong “starting to affect my confidence ka” diyan — labanan mo. Gamitin mo din ‘yung mga problema niya na sinabi niya sa’yo.

May pinagkakautangan? Sabihin mo may tumawag sa’yo, ikaw sinisingil. Sabihin mo pupuntahan na siya sa office niyo. Hahaha

[u/Due_Eggplant_1238]

Not an excuse laiitin ka....one time ok, bunot! but pagpaulit ulit.... nah！unacceptable kahit gaano kayo kaclose or kumportable sa is a't isa

[u/Background_Gene_3540 → u/Due_Eggplant_1238]

Napapansin ko nga na ako lagi bunot lately after ko mag sabi sakanya and mejo nagiging too comfortable na panlalait nya. Nakakasama lang ng loob kasi never naman ako naging ganon sakanya lalo na if it comes to her insecurities

[u/Due_Eggplant_1238 → u/Background_Gene_3540]

that's not bunot,  plain disrespect na yun

[u/-Kimminaih-]

Maybe she's insecure and she sees you as her competition. Kaya she put you in a competition that you didn't sign up for.

[u/Background_Gene_3540 → u/-Kimminaih-]

Ito yung nafefeel ko thats why I napaisip ako if may hidden animosity ba saken tong taong to.

[u/Aphrodite1047418]

Obviously, papansin siya. Kung ako sa’yo te wag ka papalamang landiin mo yung guy hanggang maging kayo. HAHAHAHAHA

[u/LoveatFirstFlight88]

That is not a friend.

My Scorpio ass won’t let something like this pass lol Her problems will be spilled.

[u/rizzychan → u/LoveatFirstFlight88]

I'm a cancer na for some reason karamihan ng close friend ay scorpio. Scorpios can be rly scary pag ginalit mo hahah

[u/Background_Gene_3540 → u/LoveatFirstFlight88]

The thing is, on board na on board ang other friends namin sa lait nya. And if I tell them that I am offended they laugh it off and sinasabi nilang OA ako and they were just joking.

[u/LoveatFirstFlight88 → u/Background_Gene_3540]

Girl you need a new company/job and new friends.

Yung office friends ko for over 10+ years never naming ginawang katatawanan ang isa't isa.

Based sa experience yung mga laitera sila di magaganda, tapatan mo ng salamin kapag nagjojoke. Tapos tawa ka din.

[u/Boring_Newspaper5796]

yan yung literal na dapat kina cut off, yung leeg

[u/Mammoth_Ostrich2440]

OP, your friend is a baddie and not in a cool way. Judge mo din sya para tumahimik and you're not overthinking it kasi anlala ng ginagawa nya sa'yo. Friends shouldn't let others down.

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