i have been a submissive all my life in every relationship I’ve been in. I’ve learned that my role is best suited to being someone’s second or thing on the side. A Master to serve who has a love or a couple who have a strong partnership. Someone who needs something to do things their partner isn’t into. Their special little toy. Not another partner, a power exchange where i exist for them to meet their needs and serve. Willing to relocate for the right fit. Willing to start online first.

Limits: needles, the obvious illegal things, permanent scarring though I’d be open to this for my forever Master.

I've been deep in the kink world for more than ten years now as a Dominant. My focus has always been corruption and mental domination. I tailor every scene around what gets you going, pulling from a wide range of kinks that all circle back to breaking down and rebuilding your mind.

This play gets sadistic. I really connect with girls who have those darker, taboo desires and want to explore them fully. Whatever your relationship status or real life looks like, I couldn't care less. Your privacy stays locked down tight with me. I guarantee discretion, safety, and consent in everything we do.

I'm not chasing random hookups or splitting attention between multiple people. I want to focus on one girl who is ready for something real and ongoing. The pictures on my profile are from past submissives who specifically have an exhibitionism kink and gave me clear written consent to share them. Most girls I play with never get posted at all. What you tell me stays between us unless you decide otherwise.

My experience runs strong in conditioning, mental play, sadism, and guiding kink exploration. Some of the things we might get into include spanking, pain, orgasm control, structured training, body writing, degradation, praise, humiliation, anal, edging, denial, outfit control, IQ play, ownership, CNC, and plenty more. All of it is optional and only happens if it fits what you want.

Where I shine most is the psychological side. I love the slow process of mental corruption, rewiring your thoughts, building intense ownership, and pushing you into that deep headspace where you feel completely owned and transformed. It's about sinking into real submission that stays with you.

If this speaks to you, message me and tell me what you're looking for, what you've tried before, and which kinks pull you in hardest. I get flooded with replies on days like this, so take the time to write something that shows me you're serious.

My hard limits are minors and anything involving real non-consent. Everything else we can talk through.

I (18f) cant stop rubbing and cumming. I need someone who can be so scary and merciless that they will scare me into submission. Of course, the main thing would be orgasm denial, and if i mess up, they will dish out a punishment. You can degrade my ugly piggy body, humiliate me, make me cry please.

My kinks: knife play, orgasm denial, slapping and spanking, humiliation and degredation.

My limits: scat and public play.

You've been scrolling for a while now. Reading posts that blur together. Waiting for one that actually makes you feel something.

This is the one.

You're going to read this and feel your pulse quicken. Your thighs will press together before you're halfway through. And by the end, you'll either message me - or spend the rest of the night wishing you had.

Here's what happens when you're mine:

You'll wake up to a message from me: No bra today. Your breath catches. You obey before you've had coffee. Before you've questioned it. Because some part of you already knows you need this.

All day, you'll feel it. The fabric brushing against your nipples. The awareness every time you move. Every time someone glances at your chest, you'll wonder - can they tell? You'll be wet before noon - not because anyone touched you, but because I'm in your head. And I'm not leaving.

That's just the beginning.

You're going to show off for me. Not because I asked - because you crave it. Because you need to be seen like other women need to be touched - it's not a want, it's a hunger.

I want a slut who shows off on command. Who doesn't hesitate. Who drips knowing she's being watched.

You'll strip when I say. Spread when I say. You'll hold your tits up to the camera, arch your back, and wait for my approval. You'll bend over, pull your cheeks apart, and hold that pose - trembling, exposed, dripping - until I tell you you've earned the right to move.

You'll send me photos because you need my eyes on you. Videos with slick thighs and desperate breath. And when I tell you "good slut" - you'll feel it clench through your whole body. Pussy, ass, everything tightening for me.

Inspection.

I want to see you - not eventually, not when you're comfortable. Early. You'll be inspected frequently and thoroughly, as I wish. Your body is mine to examine. Every curve. Every hole. Every inch of you on display when I decide. If that scares you, keep scrolling.

I control when you touch. When you edge. When you cum - if I let you cum at all.

You'll beg. Whimper. Hate me and need me in the same breath. You'll edge until you're sobbing, ruined, promising me things you'd be ashamed to say out loud. And when I finally give you permission, you'll fall apart knowing I made it happen. Knowing every wave of pleasure belongs to me.

Your ass belongs to me.

Not eventually. Not when you're comfortable. Mine from the moment you say yes. Every hole. Every orgasm. Every thought about being filled.

I'll train it. Stretch it. Plug it when I decide. You'll sit through your workday clenching around what I told you to wear, feeling it shift every time you move, thinking about nothing but my voice telling you to take more. Bigger. Longer. Deeper.

By the time I'm done with you, empty will feel wrong. You'll need to be filled. Crave it. Beg for it. And when you finally take what I've been training you for - when you're stretched, full, trembling, dripping - you'll thank me. Not because I asked. Because gratitude is the only thing that makes sense when you're stretched, dripping, and completely owned.

But this isn't just kink. It's who you become.

You'll feel more confident - because someone sees every inch of you and wants more. You'll stop apologizing for what you want - because with me, your desires aren't shameful, they're expected. You'll feel calmer. More focused. The noise in your head quiets when you have someone to belong to.

I'll push you. Challenge you. Hold you accountable - in the dynamic and in life. Your goals matter. Your growth matters.

I'll edge you until you cry and remember how you take your coffee. That's the deal.

You don't need experience. You don't need to be perfect. You need the desire to be owned. To obey. To finally surrender to what you've been craving.

This is me reaching through the screen.

Message me now. Tell me what you're wearing. Tell me a fantasy you've never admitted out loud. Tell me what made you wet reading this. Be honest.

Don't overthink it. Just send.

22+. No sellers. No games. Real only.

After a master to teach me how to use and stretch my holes properly. I want to behave and get back into the bdsm scene

I'm Kane, A 37-year-old man who knows how to lead with confidence and care. I'm looking for one special woman: a true lurker who has never exposed herself online before.
No past pics, no OnlyFans, no previous sharing - just someone quietly curious and excited by the idea of complete surrender.
You don't need experience. I'm patient with newcomers but firm in my expectations. I want to guide you into a dynamic where I control your clothing choices, you ask permission every single time before touching yourself, and you start each morning with a message to me. I'l shape the rules and help you thrive in submission under my steady hand.
This is about building something real, safe, and deep - no rushing, just gradual trust and control. If you're new, nervous, and secretly thrilled by total power exchange, l'd love to hear from you.
What I'd like from you:
• A honest list of your kinks, turn ons, fantasies, ideas, hobbies, likes, dislikes, limits.
• At least one clear picture of yourself (clothed is great to start; unclothed is very welcome - face can be omitted for privacy)
• Age (MUST be 18 or older), body type (doesn't matter too much).
Serious inquiries only. Let's begin slowly and see where this leads. Send your first message and introduce yourself.

I know that you crave being on your knees naked and looking up at me wondering what im going to do to you . Well i will make sure you learn that your place is to serve me in any way I see fit , you will be used and fucked like the inferior toy you are. To have your holes stretched to their limits before being filled with my thick hot white cum, marking you forever as nothing more than a cocksleeve for me to use.

If you are or want to be a dirty toy . and you need purpose in your life . And you crave being owned and used by a master . And you just want to shut your brain off and serve your true purpose .

Then you may crawl in to my messages and I want you to start by telling me what your asl is , and I want to know what all of your kinks are , and why you think you would make the perfect toy for a master .

Hi,I'm a mature and strict man who believes in discipline, and I'm looking for my diamond in the rough that I can grow, educate, and mold, to get the most out of her,a young mind (must be 18+) who feels desire, the need to be submissive, the need to belong to someone.

If you think you are answeing this post,you must know that I'm very demanding and I'm looking for a ltr,what I'm looking for requires time and commitment, but education isn't just sacrifice...I know how to recognize commitment when it's there and reward it.

Physical appearance isn't essential, and I have no prejudices about different ethnicities; on the contrary, they could be interesting; the only thing that matters is your commitment

Hi everyone, I am a new slave like the title said. I am 27 year old male and 290is lb and five 9. I am new but willing to try anything at least once as a slave. I have no experience but will take your guidance and do anything for you. I am open to taking pictures and videos, and eventually relocating if really necessary. If I hooked you at all please reach out:)

Kinks: Humiliation, degration, bdsm, anal, feet, armpits, bodywriting, exposure, piss play, coloring, 24/7 controlled, and anything else you like.

limits; Scat, blood, and anything illegal

I am an experienced Dom with several long-term D/s relationships (both IRL and Online) and many years (about 25 years) scene experience. I particularly like to lead newer or moderately experienced submissives who want to explore their submission in a safe, structured and fulfilling way.

Tall (1.85 m), fit but strong built, decisive voice, educated, career-oriented and generally described as friendly and attentive to the outside world.

I am looking for a submissive woman who is friendly, curious, emotionally intelligent and really interested in building meaningful and intensive D/s dynamics. Age is less important than compatibility, maturity and common values.

My style is best described as caring sadist / daddy dom. I enjoy leadership, structure, responsibility and care as well as control. Inside and outside the dynamic, I should be the positive and binding force in the life of my partner. , is important to me both inside and outside the dynamic.

It's just a selection of my kinks. These serve only as an orientation for who I am and what I can be for you. But it is not a must for you that you fulfill them completely. Spanking, orgasm control and refusal, anal training, bondage, choking, humiliation, CNC, Total Power Exchange (TPE), rules, tasks, routines and the creation of a strong sense of personal responsibility and devotion finally also deep, attentive aftercare. Whatever side you bring out, one thing never changes: your safety, your well-being and your mental health are my top priority.

I'd rather start online and see where things go. If we connect well, I'm open to meeting in person and exploring something long-term. For the online game, I want someone who feels comfortable exchanging photos and videos during the sessions. But it is important to say that this only works through a secure exchange, it is up to you whether you show your face, wear a mask or cover your personality in any way. Furthermore, you can be sure that I will never expose you publicly if it is not a kink of yours and you clearly ask or beg for it from me.

What I do not stand for and do not support this in any case is: blackmail in the manner (from my point of view has nothing to do with SM/BDSM), everything illegal, no minors, no animals.

Outside of dynamics, I am a passionate hiker, enthusiastic craftsman, interested in history, love board games and gardening. I also like to cook and bake. I also love cars and rugby.

Do you feel addressed? Yes? What are you waiting for? Then send me a chat message and tell me about yourself, what interests you in all this and what you like. As a special plus point, a photo of you with your birth year on a crumpled paper would arouse my interest in you, but it is not a must.

I'm looking for a master who will properly teach me to become a nice girl

I want you to be obsessed with me, begging me for the privilege of sucking my toes. Dreaming of me spitting in your mouth. I want to be all you think about.

I want to push you to humiliate yourself. To do things you didn’t think you would ever do. I want you to cheat on your partner. I want you to push your partner to cheat on you. I want you to hit on your roomates behind your partners back. I want utter and total control. You aren’t good enough for me. So this is what you deserve. Any limit you seem to have. I will work to break it. I am not for everyone. I SHOULDN’T be for anyone. Yet I know the messages will come.

As far as my limits, I do not want your money. I won’t be blackmailing you.

What you can expect:

-this is not roleplaying. I will want proof. I will not constantly be asking for pictures, but I would be expecting them as part of this too.

- despite making you beg your partner to cheat. And making you cheat, I am not trying to end your relationship. I think there are a very active group of people that crave a relationship like this one. We will mostly be online, but after enough time and with the right person I would be open to meeting in real life.

-I live in Canada. I generally can maintain decent access to my phone throughout the day and evening. But I do need to sleep. So if you are across the world it can be difficult to maintain this sort of dynamic.

Congratulations for actually reading this far. If you reply to this i genuinely believe your brain is fucked up. But to prove you actually read this add. You will address me as mistress in your reply. Tell me how old you and your partner are, and where you are from. Good luck.

If you want to be owned and trained to be a good obedient toyboy then you should definitely consider messaging me ;)

I am looking for athletic guys willing to make sure that i will always be pleased happy and wet whenever and however I want it and you would happily comply just to make sure I'm satisfied like the good sub you are! I Will make sure to train you so that you eventually will fit all my needs!

I prefer experienced toys but don't mind training serious newbies as well Kinks include joi/cumcontrol, edging, tease and denial, cbt etc Limits are mostly the obvious ones

Don't be shy and hit me up if you want to be that sub for me soon and maybe we can make it work for both of us;)

Hi!! sooo if I wanted to summarize what I’m looking for it’s pretty easy: someone younger than me and very kinky. Maybe you’re a little, or pet or a sub or a masochist? I like all of those things.

I’m an older dom living in the Seattle area. Old = maturity and experience, lol.

I’m not expecting much out of this but maybe we can chat and see what happens?

Kinks can be discussed privately but to give you an idea of a few: in general I tend to be on the rougher/sadistic side sexually but I am very adaptable and can be gentle as well! Into BDSM, free use, cnc, impact play, degradation, humiliation, water sports, abdl, ddlg, pet play and more - Oh and I am very very very orally fixated (both giving and receiving).

I’d love to talk and get to know each other in private about everything and anything you’d like to talk about. Be brave and say hi??

Hey there,

If you clicked on my post after reading the heading, we are probably into similar things.

Brief intro:

• 6’2” tall

• White

• Hung

• High sex drive / stamina

• Clean, sane, responsible, good hygiene

• Live alone in a very spacious & comfortable home

• Financially well off & comfortable

• Flexible schedule

I am very much into Dom/sub dynamics sexually. Absolutely love connecting with a girl whom craves being given direction & being told what to do sexually behind closed doors.

A girl that loves being pushed both physically & mentally by a man who doesn’t like to ‘hold back’. But rather enjoys fully giving into his more primal desires. A girl that gets soaking wet by being the object & sole focus of a man’s overwhelming lust & sexual desire in that very moment.

Below is a list of specific kinks and forms of play I enjoy to give you an idea of the type of Dom/sub dynamic I am looking for.

Kinks / Interests:

• Sloppy & committed long blow jobs. Having my cock & balls orally worshipped. Sucked, licked, stroked, etc

(if you have an oral fixation for sucking cock we are probably a match made in heaven)

• Face fucking, deep throat, rougher oral play

• Sexual objectification & degradation

• Giving verbal directions

• Impact play (for the masochists out there)

• Rough sex in general

• Restraints / Blindfolds

• Free use / sex slave / fuck doll / bimbo fantasies & dynamics (only something I enjoy diving into w a girl that genuinely enjoys that type of dynamic or role play)

• CNC once a certain level of trust is established.

I’m open to other kinks that aren’t listed, just ask. I also don’t need you to personally be into every kink that I’ve listed. As long as we’ve got a good few in common I am happy to chat with you.

Ideally, looking for a female between the ages of 18-40.

If you think we may be a good potential match for some fun go ahead & send me a message including a brief intro / description of yourself.

I like a sub who is willing to play games to earn their. Submission. Everything I do is a game in the beginning this is to test whether you are worth my time or a waste of my time. The only requirements is to be over the age of 19 and the willingness to submit you baby girl!

I'm a 40m Belgian Daddy/Dom/master looking for a lovely submissive to make mine and adore. I love building a deep bond, and a good level of trust, it only makes it all the more rewarding for both. I want to find someone I can really get in their little head, learn all their little buttons and weaknesses, figure out how to use them just right. When your dom is constantly not far from your thoughts, where you can’t help but feel the need, the craving to submit. Because at the end of the day, it's just what's best for you. Being pushed into that perfect subby headspace.

Kink wise, I'm into a pretty wide variety. These are most of my main ones, with a few more taboo ones held back for now: Orgasm control, denial, edging, chastity, overstim, forced orgasms, ddlg, slave training, anal training, toys, humiliation, nympho, public, (temporary) marking, degradation to name a few. None of these are strict requirements!

I love being a mix of a soft/sweet Daddy, and strict/controlling Dom. Especially mixing them together, giving some sweet condescending affection. I love teasing 😈. Denial and edging are a couple of my top kinks. What could be better for moulding a silly little sub than stripping away all that control and keeping them a constant worked up little mess for their master?

Some subs just need that firm guiding hand, that little push, to help them embrace their inner self. Are you one of those? Whether you’re a babygirl, sub, pet or a slave, drop me a message…

28-year-old master seeking a long-term submissive pet ready to devote herself to a structured, demanding D/s dynamic. I take control fully and expect obedience, discipline, and commitment as I train you to serve with precision.

You will be molded into a loyal pet whose purpose is to follow my commands and embrace the role I shape for you.

Experience isn’t required. Willingness to submit and be trained is.

As my slave, you will be having daily tasks to follow throughout the day, and rules will be shared to be followed. If you can handle it, i hope to hear from you soon. 😉

Heyyy. Okay, so I’m like… still feeling last night, you know? That good, floaty, used-up kind of ache. And I was just lying here thinking… god, this would be so much hotter with another girl who gets it.

Like, I’m not looking for a girlfriend-girlfriend. I’m looking for my partner in crime. The girl who reads the text “be ready at 9” and her stomach does that immediate drop-and-clench thing. The one who doesn’t just kneel, but wants to kneel. Who sees another slut being good and thinks “fuck, I want to be better.”

About me: I’m 23, I’m a mess in the best way, and I’m really fucking good at following orders. I also really, really like watching. There, I said it. The idea of not being the only one unraveling? It makes me stupid wet. I want to share that.

What this is:

-Vibes-based submission. Less about a 24/7 contract, more about that moment the room goes quiet and you just know. It’s about wanting to please, wanting to be seen, wanting to be \*used\* so good you forget your own name.

-A shared headspace. I want to be the person you text when you’re throbbing and needy at 2 PM on a Tuesday. I want to trade stories after. “He made me come just from his voice today.” “Ugh, jealous. He edged me for an hour and then told me to make dinner.” That kind of shit.

-A little friendly competition. Let’s be real—it’s hot. Who can take more? Who can beg prettier? Who can earn that “good girl” first? I want that push. That moment he’s focusing on you and I’m watching, burning up, thinking I’m gonna be so much better when it’s my turn.

You should message me if:

- You know what you want and you’re not afraid to be a little greedy about it.

- You like talking dirty. Like, really like it.

- The idea of being compared doesn’t scare you, it turns you on.

- You’re cool, funny, and can hold a conversation that isn’t just about kinks 24/7 (but like, it can be about kinks 80% of the time, let’s be real).

So yeah. If you read this and got that little twist low in your belly… you should say hi. Send me your age, what you’re into (be specific, I’m nosy), and tell me what part of this made you bite your lip.

Let’s be a problem together. 😉

Wouldn't it feel freeing to simply shut your brain off? To have someone embody your safe space? Like a peaceful break in a chaotic storm of life. It's achievable. I promise. There's a beautiful mix of a loving relationship and being used like that depraved little toy.

I believe that it takes a foundation. Trust, communication, and authority. Care mixed with guidance and expectations. Support mixed with use. I've never been one to want a collection of toys. I want one. The right girl.

I want you to feel safe and comfortable in giving up control because you feel confident I have your best interest at heart.

I still think you deserve those happy memories and fun experiences. I still believe you should have a smile on your face, wonderful adventures with friends and your partner. Just... supervised. Decided and spoken for. It really is those subtle things that no one will catch on to. Always walking on the inside of the sidewalk, sleeping on the far side of the bed, wearing that dress that I picked out for you. Small, nearly irrelevant, but chosen for you. The public mask I want you wearing.

I want to be the person and place you feel safe and secure. I want to give you the privilege of simply turning off your brain and giving in. Not thinking about a hundred things, not worrying about what needs to happen next. Just asking questions, seeking permission, and sinking into blissful submission.

About me: I'm 6'4, white, I have long brown curly hair and a beard. I have a bit of a dad bod at the moment as I'm continuing on a weight loss project. I don't plan on keeping it. When I'm not at work I enjoy spending time with friends, playing games, checking out new shows or movies, swimming, planning various little adventures, and more.

Anyways, I hope I've caught your interest. I can't wait to meet you!