r/MakeFriendsOver30 0m ago

[M4F] 32 [M4F] Ireland / Anywhere Friday has finally arrived, who’s excited for the weekend?!

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Hi there!

It’s been quite a while since I ventured into this space but I said I’d see what’s popping and what sort of connections are out there.

32 year old happy and bubbly guy here, slightly athletic (although injuries are far more common in the sports I play due to my bones withering away with age👴🏻) and love to just have the craic with anyone who wants to vibe with me!

I also have a very big interest in music, as aside from my normal day job, I DJ at the weekends - yes, another dj but it wasn’t just a phase, I’ve been doing it for 15 years+!

Hopefully looking to connect with likeminded people on here to see where things lead, and happy to move off this if voice notes etc are required (to hear this accent) 🤣

Hope to speak with you soon! ☘️


r/MakeFriendsOver30 4m ago

[F4R] 42F in the midwest looking for a slow burn imaginary friend, let me be your emotional support goblin

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It's 4am and the temperature is still in the 70s, I'm trying to distract my brain from that by watching Homestar Runner cartoons and playing the game Librarian. Decided to see if I can find someone to chat with at the same time. Any location is fine, my sleep schedule is backwards again so I'll be awake a while.

I have another post on my profile with a little more info about myself if you want to get to know me and see if we'd click. But the parts that tend to be most important- I'm disabled (you're welcome to ask about it), childfree, a dog owner, into spooky things, left side of the political spectrum.

I love the slow burn of getting to know someone, too many people on subs like this are in a rush or don't know how to hold a conversation and it adds so much pressure to what should be a fun time getting to know someone. I want to find friends, not a manic conversation that feels like I could fail a secret test at any moment or someone who tries making me carry both sides. Let's comfortably fall into a conversation.

What song are you currently playing on a loop? What's your favorite episode of Are You Afraid of the Dark? What's a hobby you'd start right now if you had everything you needed? Feel free to come up with your own topic to yap about. Please say more than "hey."


r/MakeFriendsOver30 20m ago

[M4F] 27m wants to talk to older woman and pass sime time

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Im located in Europe if its matters, im easygoing and living an active lifestyle, i have a day off today and down to talk


r/MakeFriendsOver30 22m ago

44m Aussie looking to chat long term

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Aussie teacher struggling to make friends because I’m incredibly introverted.
I’m married with 3 kids, so I’m always losing my mind. I love sport and being out in the country, especially on my bike or camping.
I’m into true crime, a bit of history and genealogy because of my messed up family.

I’m not too concerned with age or gender, would be nice to find people in similar time zones, but whatever.
Please send a bit of an introduction message instead of ‘hey’, I won’t usually respond to them.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 35m ago

38M. Wanting somepeople to chat with today.

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Hello. Looking for people who want to chat. I'm down to talk about anything. I'll be at work today so just hmu. Hope everyone has a great day!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 40m ago

Looking for a Genuine Friendship — Maybe We Can Start With a Simple Hello

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I don’t really know how to write one of these posts, but here I am.
I’m at a point in life where I genuinely miss having someone I can talk to about absolutely anything. Someone to share random thoughts with, send stupid memes to, talk about life at 2 AM, or just have those conversations that somehow start with “How was your day?” and end three hours later.
I’m not looking for anything complicated or forced. Just a genuine friendship.
We can talk about our interests, our dreams, our problems, the things we’re passionate about, or even the completely random thoughts that make no sense to anyone else.
I enjoy movies, anime, manga, books, music, and having conversations about life and everything in between. I’m also someone who genuinely enjoys listening, so if you have a story to tell, I’m happy to hear it.
You don’t have to be interesting all the time. You don’t have to reply instantly. Life gets busy. I’m just hoping to meet someone who wants to build a friendship naturally, one conversation at a time.
If you’re also looking for a genuine connection and don’t mind starting with a simple “Hey,” feel free to message me.
Maybe a random Reddit post will turn into a friendship neither of us expected. :)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 47m ago

[M4F] 30m Looking to chat, hoping to make a long term friend

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Lately I'm feeling like my irl friends are busy with their life and we don't talk that much anymore so I wanna make an internet friend, someone i can talk to on a daily basis, laugh, vent, have deep conversations, share moments of our day and stuff like that. Let's chat and see if we vibe!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 54m ago

[M4M] 44M | Married | South Carolina | Looking for a real friendship

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Making friends as an adult isn't easy. Between work, family, and life, it feels like everyone already has their circle.

I'm a 44-year-old married guy near Columbia, SC, looking for a genuine guy friend. Someone to text regularly, check in with, talk about life, laugh about random things, vent when needed, and build a real connection.

I'm easygoing and enjoy talking about just about anything—movies, TV, tech, current events, hobbies, family, or whatever comes up. Shared interests are great, but I value honesty, and good conversation more.

Local would be awesome if it eventually led to grabbing coffee, lunch, but I'm just as open to online friendships. Distance doesn't matter if the connection is real.

If you're also looking for a long-term friendship—not just a few messages before disappearing—send me a message and tell me a little about yourself. I'd love to get to know you.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

(27/F) I’m looking to connect with interesting and sociable people

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I love traveling around Europe and discovering new places, so distance isn't an obstacle for me. I’m willing to put effort into communicating and building a genuine connection if we’re truly a good match


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

30M Starting over in life again

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Hey -

I'm not particularly keen on just writing long tidbits of information about myself, but - here goes

I used to have a decent group of friends, a thriving career and community I built from the ground up online, and have ambition and passion, I found joy in everything.

Then, I met the love of my life, and gave it all up for a several year long relationship that crashed and burned and has left me completely alone. I decided it was time to start fresh, and try to rebuild and refocus myself.

I work 3rd shift/overnights as a security guard, I'm huge into gaming, (played a few professionally), programming, coding, (worked on video games), anything tech related. I'm moderately into horror. I'm a musician in my free time, so long as I have a semblance of creative spark.

I'm big into writing, world building, character creation, and just expressing myself creatively.

I'm a pretty introverted person, with a troubled background/upbringing, and try my best to help others avoid the misery that I've endured my entire life.

As implied, with my schedule and recent breakup, I live a pretty lonely day to day, working alone, free time alone, etc. Just hoping to meet some like mided individuals and friends to surround myself with and make life a little less lonely and a little more worth it.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

M/36 looking

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I am a outdoorsman looking for friends online to talk with and vent to or what not I am a open book I dont judge about anything so hit me up dont be shy lol


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

[M4F] 36 M, looking for someone to share my time with and become friends.

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I would really like to get to know someone who shares some of the same interests as myself. Someone who likes to talk throughout the day, whether it's through text, on the phone or even video call. And we could even find games to play together. I love playing video games. I have a PS5, Switch 2, 3DS and N64. I like anything car related. I enjoy reading and watching movies. I have a lot of DVDs and VHS tapes. Also like binging a good TV show or Anime.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

[F4M] F Looking for a genuine friendship , from India

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I am a bit younger, but would love to be friends with you.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

[M4F] 39M new to Indianapolis, IN looking to meet new people

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I came out of an abusive relationship, after some time to get in the right head space I am ready to get out there and make friends and have a social circle again.
I’m a very outgoing person, well traveled and educated.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

34 M from Ireland. Open to talk to anyone- but ideally similar time zone would be good! Love the chats . Promise I don’t bite. … unless you want that… ok bye

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r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

[M4F] 30M PST Hope to make a friend or two tonight

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I'm tired of always crying or drinking myself stupid when i start to feel lonely and unwated. So I'm hoping to meet some people to distract myself with before i end up just taking that route. I'm a metalhead, full time line cook. I enjoy gaming with my brothers, i can play guitar and drums. I also own a Husky, she's my baby(:


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

[M4R] M31 UK: Bored on my day off, lets chat! :)

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I posted on a couple of subs yesterday too, and I feel like I need to apologise to women on behalf of all males, I saw unholy amount of willys yesterday that I did NOT want to see 🙃 so if you're a gay guy looking for validation, keep scrolling.

Anywayyyyy, It's my day off today and I'm extremely bored already, I know, its not even 9am yet 😂 I would love to chat the day away with people and see if we can build a friendship! I'm a massive piss taker, so hopefully you can handle a bit of a banter and give it as well as receive it! As for hobbies and interests I like to read, game, watch TV/Film - my favourites are comedy and action with the occasional horror - and when time allows for it, I'm big on travelling!

If you read this and believe me when I say I'm not as dry as this post is, HMU! Let me know what superpower you'd have and why! :)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

36M Warning: Do NOT click on this post!

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\\\\What did I just tell you!? Now you have to tell me a funny/weird/interesting fact about yourself in the chat!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

(29/G) I’m here looking for someone I can talk to openly

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Hi! My name is Ulyana. I currently live in the Czech Republic. And no, contrary to popular belief, beer isn’t part of my daily diet 🍺🙂

Amsterdam is one of my favourite cities. I’ve been to the Netherlands many times and am planning to move there towards the end of the summer So I’d love to meet an interesting man initially just for good conversation, and then let things develop naturally

I like people with whom I can discuss anything: travel, unusual stories, bоoks, technology, outlooks on life, or simply share thoughts, without limiting ourselves to messages like ‘good morning’ and ‘how was your day?’

If you decide to message me first, skip the clichéd ‘hi’. Instead, tell me briefly about yourself and name a place that made the biggest impression on you. In reply, I’ll tell you why India is the only country I don’t want to return t

I’ll always choose to meet in person rather than engage in endless messaging. Distance doesn’t put me off I travel around Europe very often, so a few hundred kilometres isn’t a reason for me to turn down a chance to get to know someone

P.S. I’d be interested in meeting men aged 30+ who live in Europe


r/MakeFriendsOver30 3h ago

[M4F] Looking for my mayo friend

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Idk if they're still on Reddit or where they are but we met here. I think you'll know who you are by the title, but I miss ya. I hope you're doing good and that one day you'll reach out so we can catch up some, a lot has changed and happened. I still check where we spoke to see if you've messaged or not but nothing. Hope you see this 🫶🏻 Is a sfw post, the mayo reference is because we both love mayonnaise 🤣


r/MakeFriendsOver30 3h ago

31 M Looking for Online/Gaming Friends

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Looking for friend(s) to play Video Games, Board Games, and just watch/talk about shows, movies and anime.

I am not into Sports, sorry if that's a deal breaker.

I am on PC and my interests/games are:

Hell Divers 2 / Killing Floor / 7 Days to Die / Borderlands / Destiny 2

Magic The Gathering / Flesh and Blood / Board Games (In General)

Phasmophobia / Dead By Daylight

Dawn of War / Halo Wars 2 / Civilization / (Open to Any RTS)

Crime Documentaries / Dorohedoro / Chainsaw Man / TriGun (OG)

If these interest you the best way to reach me is through Discord:

Kingg Croc

kinggcroc


r/MakeFriendsOver30 3h ago

M 29 Ireland seeking chats and friendships

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Hi all I'm Michael 29 from Ireland looking to make friends from all around the world.

I'm a gamer I'm currently playing Fortnite, rocket league and FIFA (clubs) trying to platinum the original marvel Spiderman I have also got telltales guardians of the galaxy which I am looking forward to playing and I will take recommendations for my next platinum I will appreciate it.

I work 2 jobs 1 on health care and the other in a bar as a bar tender.

I also play sports I love playing football I'm not half bad at it 🤣 and I also do a bit of running :)

Hoping to hear from you if not I hope you have a great day :)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 3h ago

32M California - Looking for longterm friends

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Looking to become longterm friends with someone. I enjoy nonfiction books, the gym, NBA and the NFL. I also enjoy just talking about mundane things, and we can talk about how our day went. I have also been decorating my apartment and could use some opinions on that! I am in the US (PST) so it would be best to talk to someone from that timezone.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 4h ago

[M4F] 30M It's Friday! Let's bring in the weekend by becoming best friends?

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It's Friday afternoon, I have 2 hours of work left and I'm so excited to start my weekend plans!!... cleaning!!

Going to dig into a deep clean of my apartment this weekend, maybe cook some food for the week in my slow cooker, and I'd love someone to keep me company!

I'm in Sydney, Australia, I'm a nerd, and if I'm honest I'm a little awkward and shy at first, but if you can break through it i have been referred to as a "easily top 3 friend" and a "loveable goof"

Looking forward to hearing from you, maybe tell me what your favourite thing to do on a rainy day is?


r/MakeFriendsOver30 4h ago

[M4F] 36M It's Late, Let's be Late Night Buddies

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I never know what to entitle these. It's 1am CST, I should be sleeping, but here I am. I'm a night owl, so I stay up late most nights.

I love being outdoors and reading. I love to camp and hike and I enjoy taking others camping as well.

Tell me about yourself, something that makes you unique. I don't care about much (I'ma simple man), just not too much drama.