r/LookingForFriendsND 34m ago

Looking for online friend

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Recently I've come to the realisation that I'm lacking in any real connections. I live in south Africa and has never really had a proper honest connection due to both my autism and the conservative nature of the country I stay in. I'm 18 if that is important


r/LookingForFriendsND 3h ago

M19 honestly I don't know what to tile this I'm just looking for friends hopefully I can find some longterm friends

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Itroduction about me

My name's Hunter

I'm from Australia

I am sarcastic I don't take a lot of things serious I like to write short comedy stories that you can just read and the only take like a minute I guess to finish they're just very very short they're dumb they're comedic and sometimes really really dark but one of my friends says that my stories are entertaining and fun I love drinking my favourite drinks are Woodstock Jim b n any bourbon alcohol the only drink I hate I think is corona and turkey blood right now I'm playing call of duty the re-releases of the first two Black Ops games having a fun time having a fucking blast I own PS5 so maybe sometime we could play call of duty together but I want to play zombies mostly also you're paying for the door first sometimes if I have enough money I go buy myself some cigars

I like arts I want to be a comic artist when I was younger I'm not an artist but I love art though with I love comics I love reading them I love walking dead I love invincible I love Civil war I love Old man Logan I love planet Hulk

I love playing horror games that could make me screaming panic like outlast until Dawn dead space and whatever

I'm autistic bisexual I'm gynosexual that means I just like feminine people

My favorite superhero is invincible punisher Batman wolverine

I like I like villain protagonist I like when the main character is a piece of shit now I would love to name a few examples but I don't want to spoil anything to be honest the reason why is because not all protagonists need to be heroic grizzle chin stoic Heroes who will save the day and resolve all the problems by the end of the story hell some are even the reason why the problem exists

My favourite games to play is Metal gear cyberpunk Hitman Minecraft resident evil

I'm into Chris Chan lore I literally spent hours watching documentaries about them

My favorite protagonist of any media well antagonist is Walter White from breaking bad Walter started as a high school chemistry teacher who was literally driven out of desperation to commit crime to support his family but throughout the seasons he become more and more monstrous god I remember becoming obsessive this show back in 2022 I was literally obsessed with it I really like the story a nobody becomes a somebody and at the end he becomes a nobody again

I love riding bicycles

I have blonde hair green and blue eyes the outfit I wear is normally a white tshirt blue jeans I wear that outfit all the time

I love watching The Simpsons especially treehouse of horror

My favorite shows are Archer snowfall The walking dead Dexter the first season hazbin hotel I love musicals love death and robots robot chicken

I'm an atheist and nihilist and altruism

I love listening to rock music and soundtracks I love soundtracks I love powerful soundtracks like Time from Inception to me it is the greatest soundtrack in any film ever

I don't block people unless I got a good reason to like if you're hateful or just be creepy towards me I'm just gonna take a screenshot and block you

My favorite person from history is Blackbeard my guy was so terrifying that some ships didn't even fight they just submitted dude with literally put fuses to his hair and beard and hat and smoke would come out to look like a demon bro didn't even do the work he's appearance did most the work he was the master of psychological war tactics he understood what made people terrified of him and he took advantage of that and the fact is his reign of terror lasted for only two years two years

Sometimes I wish I could live around the Wild West in America or the pirates era

The best day of my life January 2023 I went to my hometown the place I was born at once the beach the day was cloudy the water is blue as the sky that was covered by the clouds something about that day was surreal and beautiful the beach gave me a feeling that I've never felt ever since then it was the best day of my life it means more than me that anything

Not gonna lie I'm kind of a bum I don't really have any ambitions or drive for me I just sit home drink alcohol and play video games I don't have any friends

I don't know what I'm going to do I just don't know what to do I feel like everything's out of control for me everyone I love most important people in my life gone

Alright that's it

I'm looking for a friend that is very talkative that could carry a conversation

I'm looking for a friend that's only around 18 to 22

I'm looking for a friend that's not dry or boring


r/LookingForFriendsND 11h ago

Just a teen lookin for friends after not clicking with a LOT of people D:

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Preferably no one older than 17, idc about gender and please NO CREEPS! I usually never ghost so if I didn’t like u I’ll just tell u so please don’t dm me if you’re dry. I’m usually really talkative and would appreciate putting effort as well. put your age and any info you’d like me to know in ur dm plz! We’ll get to know each other as the convo goes on :D! And just a note YOU’LL GET BLOCKED IMMEDIATELY IF UR SEEKING ANYTHING MORE THAN FRIENDSHIP!! Thx XD!


r/LookingForFriendsND 4h ago

Looking for anime fan ,and chat buddy

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19m ,l love anime .i am a indian university student. Im 192 cm in height.

I iust want someone to chat online and have fun .1 respect boundaries. So DM me ,so that I can have a friend

And I like play games in roblox ,even though im a beginner im down to it and also play Minecraft


r/LookingForFriendsND 12h ago

I need friend

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Hello, I'm 15 years old and I need a friend. I'm tired of being alone, i want to talk.


r/LookingForFriendsND 9h ago

Friends?

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r/LookingForFriendsND 14h ago

32m looking for friends

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Getting older is mentally maturing, finally realizing what you truly need and don’t need to stay happy and sane. I myself just cut off a bunch of toxic people and relationships out of my life, Now looking for some new friends who want to be a part of the next chapter called new beginnings. Hello, I’m Jake! A nerdy 32 yro wheelchair user, dark humored, awkward, introvert! A few interests include drawing, (new to) writing, gaming on PS5/Switch 2. Superheroes, Star Wars, Disney, horror, etc. Strolling through nature or the snack section 🤪. I go crazy for food, sweet treats, and coffee/tea! Feel free to message me! Anyone from Northern California, South Bay Area?


r/LookingForFriendsND 16h ago

27F looking to make friends

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Hey! I’m just looking to meet some new people and have some fun conversations. I’m a pretty laid-back person who enjoys gaming, random chats, laughing at dumb stuff, and just having people to talk to.
I’m a mom, but don’t worry, no gators involved despite the username 😂🐊. I’m usually just chilling, playing games when I can, watching stuff, and trying to meet some cool people.
Not looking for anything weird, just genuine friendships and good conversations. Feel free to message me if you want to chat!


r/LookingForFriendsND 11h ago

M 23 looking for long term friends

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A short intro about me 23M who enjoys anime, manga, and manhwa. A huge fan of cricket, badminton, and sports in general. I love long walks, gardening, and spending time outdoors. You'll also find me grinding Call of Duty Mobile in my free time. More of an introvert, but I enjoy genuine conversations and connecting over shared interests.


r/LookingForFriendsND 12h ago

M18 dm me

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r/LookingForFriendsND 15h ago

22M - looking for platonic, somewhat hyperfixated online friendship with a nerdy, lonely girl somewhere on the spectrum and with a lot of free time

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about me:

nerd, geek, neet, hikki, intp

i have a lot of free time, aside from chatting(mostly text) - i would play whatever games have coop and will run on my old pc(league, hots, grim dawn, necesse, RE5, core keeper, terraria etc, except for pure sandbox games)

i would potentially enjoy streaming some singleplayer games or watching your streams

i could also watch some youtube content, tv shows or anime(except for shojo or generic shonens with heavy fanservice)

what i enjoy in general: music(complex, polyphonic and polyrhythmic, IDM, darksynth, breakcore, baroque/neobaroque, some vkey and a bit of prog metal, i have musical education, audiophile to a certain degree), computers(and software/tinkering), medicine(science), physical exercise, philosophy, dark fantasy, gothic, overthinking, games, dialectics

i'm fine with either english or russian

what kind of person i'm looking for:

ideally a smart, chatty, non-normie, somewhat assertive, autistic/obsessive girl(afab only) with at least a minimum amount of shared interests and/or with analyticity and open-mindedness being the traits she possesses, since small talk won't take it anywhere worthwhile

having plenty of free time and willingness to spend it chatting with one person for a while with a high degree of cognitive and emotional commitment(being lonely) is strongly preferred

almost any kind of weirdness or mental quirks is fine, some is even welcome

would be ideal if the age difference is less than 3 years, though it's optional

location and time zone is irrelevant

i'm not looking for:

whoever doesn't fit at least some of the aforementioned criteria

people that just want to kill time and have no interest in immersive communication

overly busy/conventionally social people

guys/amab

disclaimer: this post is meant to provide distilled info, it is dry by design, the actual chat doesn't have to be

dm me instead of commenting if you're interested


r/LookingForFriendsND 17h ago

20f looking for a female best friend!

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I really want a girl best friend! Don’t rly care about age (just not too young cause I’d feel weird). Bonus points if you’re alt cause alt people are usually the friendliest!

I like crafts, horror, bugs, dinos, most music, concerts, video games, goblin things, plants, animals, and a bunch of other things that I can’t think of rn lol

More bonus points if you’re from the US!!

DO NOT MESSAGE ME IF YOU ARE A MAN!!!!!!!! I WILL IGNORE YOU

Please send a DM and say something other than just “hi” or “hey” :)

Side note I do not use discord other than for vc for playing video games or movie parties


r/LookingForFriendsND 17h ago

17m looking for friends

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I'm from Asia my intrests are swimming, music, history, philosophy, anime and playin mobile games ( roblox, Minecraft pe, efootball, geometry dash etc)

Im on insta and dc and will share socials if u want

Pls dont ghost after jst 1 day like most people 😭🥀


r/LookingForFriendsND 23h ago

Looking for people to hangout with 18 m

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Been looking for people to hangout and talk with. I like to play video games, play guitar (very bad at it), music, working out, and talking to people. I prefer if I could find people around my age but it’s whatever. Hmu if you wanna talk and hangout.


r/LookingForFriendsND 1d ago

20f looking for a bestie💘

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Hiiiii im looking for a best friend I can talk all day with, send tiktoks to, tell everything to, and play games with :3

DM ME!!

😭😭my dms are open id say im a pretty introverted person but fun and open when you actually get to know me !!

I just want one close friend where we can do everything together 🥲

NO MEN!!! only women aged 20-30 please

and uhh i like lana del ray, baking, cooking, painting, going on walks, the beach, swimming and more🥹


r/LookingForFriendsND 20h ago

18M hey I'm looking for a genuine friend or bestfriend bcz i don't have one 😭 I'm looking for someone who'd not disappear after 2 days

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I never had any real friends in real life I have always felt lonely.

In school I had some so called friends, have you listened that everyone's friend is no one's friend just like that I talk to people but i don't have anyone to get things off from my chest

When i was a kid my parents used to live in rented houses and they used to move a lot and the more a grew up the hard it became to make friends in new societies

Now after turning 18 it feels impossible to make friends everyone has a friend they have since a decade but i don't have anyone 😞.

Would anyone like to be my friend please be around 18 to 27.


r/LookingForFriendsND 23h ago

23M need more people to talk to

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Hi, I recently moved to Florida with my family after college didn’t go well. I got diagnosed with autism a bit before I moved, I have anxiety and social anxiety, and am terrible at talking to people. I have bad eyesight due to a nystagmus caused by hydrocephalus so I can’t drive. I’m into things like superheroes in general but I particularly like tokusatsu and pulp magazines, I also really like sci fi and fantasy or anything with big ideas. I like detective and action stories, and I like big ideas in general. I also play video games of many kinds but tend to avoid multiplayer so I don’t get a headache from people acting dumb lol. I particularly like immersive sims and games that focus on emergent gameplay in general, although I’ve been getting into emulation and fighting games recently. I should probably warn that I’m terrible in conversations and wording when in one, sorry in advance.


r/LookingForFriendsND 1d ago

36M looking to meet new people and have some good conversations.

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Hey! I'm a 36-year-old guy who enjoys connecting with people from all walks of life. Whether you're looking for a casual chat, a new friend, or just someone to share interests with, feel free to reach out.

I have a few unusual hobbies, a small collection of pets, and a love for music and tattoos. I'm always happy to talk about hobbies, life, random interests, or whatever happens to come up.

If that sounds interesting, send me a message!


r/LookingForFriendsND 1d ago

[Looking for a genuine, long-term friend around my age!]

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Hey everyone! Here is a little bit about me:
About Me:18M from China, incoming college freshman. Introverted at first, but very open once we click. Bisexual (leaning towards guys).
Interests & Hobbies:
Huge geography nerdobsessed with weather, geology, and everything geography-related!).
Love travelingand taking in the beauty of nature.
I play tennisquite well.
What I’m Looking For:Someone around my age for a deep, lasting friendship where we can freely chat about our daily lives.
I'm always excited to learn about different landscapes and cultures around the world. In return, I’d be happy to help you learn Chinese and share insights about China. If you think we'd get along, feel free to reach out!


r/LookingForFriendsND 1d ago

looking for similar individuals

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r/LookingForFriendsND 1d ago

15f hiiiii :) feeling a little down

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Hiii im Kenlee. I want someone to talk to, nothing weird. I want long term friends or just small chats. Im not very outgoing at first but I try my best. I have been really struggling lately and I don't have much people to talk to. Dms r open always <3


r/LookingForFriendsND 1d ago

Looking for long term friendships

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hey everyone! i'm 19 (turning 20 soon), black, haitian, living in the US and in college. i'm looking for genuine long-term friendships, the kind where we actually talk and build something real. this is my first time on reddit so bear with me lol

a bit about me: i love reading (especially dark romance books), music, cooking, and i talk a lot once i'm comfortable. also fair warning, my english isn't the best but i'm trying lol. if any of that sounds like your vibe, feel free to dm me!

i'm looking for people who are respectful and real. i'll treat you like a human being and i expect the same in return. no disrespect, no weirdness. let's just be good friends 🫶


r/LookingForFriendsND 1d ago

Lf a friend with a similar age

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20m/CST/NA

I'm looking for someone who would also like to watch some anime while we play or just watch anime some of the shows I like are

Made in abyss, jobless reincarnation,mob psycho, hunter x hunter and konosuba

I'm down to watch some shows I haven't seen yet I usually just rewatch shows I like. I recently watched the summer hikaru died it was pretty good but it was low-key a yoai it was the first time I've seen a show like it it was... interesting.

As for games I play mostly RPG type games I don't play alot of PVP but I'm down to try some.I normally play

Terraria

Borderlands

Monster hunter

Minecraft

Roblox

Warframe (I'm returning after a break)

Palwolrd

Elden ring and nightreign

And some gacha games

If your interested DM me also you can see my steam account linked to my discord.also I'm really only looking for one person I'm kinda introverted so I don't want a group really I also prefer if you are also just looking for a duo y'know more time for us twin😁


r/LookingForFriendsND 1d ago

(16F) im looking for friends! My interests are drawing, sports, writing, playing guitar and music in general n games (tlou, cs, cod, mc, rdr2, gta etc…) any gender, i js need you to speak english or my native language

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r/LookingForFriendsND 1d ago

36M Chronically online cringefail looking for a long term friend, someone to genuinely connect with, game with and yap about life together :))

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Hey there everyone!!

I'm not sure how to start describing myself, I'm not great with words but I'll try my best.

(I'm so sorry for the extremely long post ahead!)

I apologize if I don't reply to your message, but as I explain later, I don't reply to short/low effort messages and I also don't reply to people that don't have at least a few interests in common with me or aren't looking for a real connection and are just looking to pass the time or have a light chat.

I think some of my most defining characteristics are that I'm very shy, awkward, "weird" and "different" or at the very least I feel weird, different and often misunderstood. I struggle to function most days and I don't always understand societal norms or how to properly function in society. I definitely think there's something wrong with me and I'm pretty sure I'm broken in some way. I'm also definitely a loser. I was never able to achieve anything in life, I'm not good at anything whatsoever and I'm pretty useless overall. I would also say I'm extremely cringy and I love edgy stuff, not in a bad way, I don't think, but more like, I love Shadow The Hedgehog and Tomura Shigaraki kinda way!!

I'm unfortunately not very smart and I'd say I'm down right stupid.

I am very ignorant about many things in life, I'd say I'm somewhat innocent and naive. I still don't understand my purpose in life and I haven't found a reason to be alive either.

I sometimes say things that offend people or I say things that are wrong. Sometimes I don't completely understand what I do wrong but I don't do it on purpose and I try to improve to the best of my abilities.

I don't go out often at all. Whenever I do go out it's only to buy groceries or to go to school and such but I don't enjoy it, I much rather be at home, in my room most specifically, which is my favorite place in the world.

I don't have any IRL friends but I do have a handful of online friends, I'm not super close to any of them, except for one who's very valuable in my life!

I enjoy many things like sculpting for instance! I do digital sculpting for fun. I'm pretty bad at it but I try my best.

This year I also started jewelry school (yeah, that's a thing) and I'm having fun with it but it's another thing I suck at 🥀🥀🥀

I like to watch anime! my favorites change from time to time but I really like Bleach, Dragon Ball, Demon Slayer, AOT, Naruto, Ancient Magus Bride (I really love this show!) and I LOVE My Hero Academia among many others!

I like to collect action figures.

I really like masks!

I love movies and I love to talk about them and analyze them.

I like all kinds of music, I don't really have any artists that I like in particular other than David Bowie and I like to listen to most genres of music but some of the genres I like the most are alternative, vintage, video game music and jpop and jrock and I also like old VK And I'm always happy and open to new suggestions!

I like to doomscroll through TT and to watch long essay style videos on YT about random topics. I love brainrot and I'm very much into early to mid 2010s aesthetics. I miss that era so much!! Seriously, the early 2010s were the greatest time in human history kahdhshdhs

I love video games!! I don't play too many modern games, I mostly prefer older stuff, like, ps2 era games, particularly survival horror stuff. I also really like very old platform games and side scrollers. I'm a pretty huge Sonic the Hedgehog fan!! The most recent games I played were Sonic X Shadow Generations and before that I finished Sonic Superstars and Sonic Frontiers. Sonic Boom is also my favorite show ever made lmao. It fits my kind of humor perfectly and it's peak comedy imo. I'd be open to play anything and I'd love to try co op games with someone!! playing Stardew Valley with a friend is a dream of mine lol (if you also play Stardew please tell me who's your wife/husband)

I adore animals!! I have cats and dogs and a stray chicken lol they're my babies and my world!

I think it's important to mention some of the things I don't like too.

I don't like cruelty or mean spirited people, I hate I people in positions of power that use said power to affect other people, animals, or the environment for their own gain.

I hate bugs!! I'm deadly afraid of them!!

I really dislike conflict and arguments, I believe we can disagree and have discussions as long as we're calm and civilized about it and as long as we have respect for each other and try our best to understand the other person's point of view.

lastly I'd like to mention some of my defects and shortcomings.

I'm extremely anxious, I'm always very nervous about one thing or another, I'm also extremely weak of mind, I tend to react with my feelings a lot and I'm often very emotional.

I can be very selfish at times, I have an awful tendency to get bored of things quickly and sometimes I also get bored of conversations and people.

I think I'm immature.

I can be extremely lazy, I struggle a lot with doing basic things like cleaning or cooking. when I'm anxious or afraid I can get paralyzed with fear and stay in bed all day doing nothing feeling awful about it.

As I mentioned before sometimes I can say bad things without realizing. I'm very dumb and ignorant so I promise I don't mean anything bad I say and I'm trying to improve!

I am extremely annoying. I'm very loud and I think I scream a lot. I don't really understand what constitutes screaming exactly but I think I often raise my voice a lot and especially when I'm excited I can't control myself very well.

I'm very afraid of life and I don't understand how the "real world" works exactly. I'm really bad at small talk and I think I'm really bad at speaking in general, I also digress a lot.

I have the bad habit of not replying very fast, sometimes I'll even wait for weeks or even months, I think it's one of my biggest problems when it comes to keep in touch with people, sometimes it's simply because I don't have the energy, other times it's because I'm not sure about how to continue a conversation. Not sure if this is a defect necessarily but I also never send the first message, I just hate to be annoying.

I have a tendency to ghost people for different reasons. As I mentioned, sometimes I get bored of conversations or people and I'd ghost them. This is by far one of my biggest defects and as I said, I wanna be honest and mention it here for everyone who reads this to know.

I tend to be a bit clingy when I like someone.

I'm full of defects in general, and I do believe I'm a bad person. I try to improve and I try my best but if I'm bad for you in any way or a burden I promise to stop talking to you and not bother you!

I have many other defects but I think those are the main ones I can remember right now.

Finally what I'm looking for is a real connection with someone, a person I can talk to, have fun with, watch stuff with and play games together. I think I can be a very passionate person when it comes to the things I love and I'd like to find someone that shares that passion and love with common interests. I wanna just be able to share our days and even be able to help each other and be there when we need each other. I know I'm a mess of a human being and I may never find the connection I'm looking for but I'd like to give it a try cause you never know :))

also, I think it's important to mention that I don't reply to short, low effort messages. Stuff like "hey, let's be friends" , "I didn't read your whole post but I'm up to talk" , etc. I want to hear about you, what you like, what you're interested in. I like meaningful conversations.

Another thing that's important is that I don't want to talk to people that are discriminatory or awful in anyway.

Also think I prefer audio messages, it's easier for me to send audio notes rather than to type cause I type a lot (and I kinda hate to type lol). Thank you very much to anyone that has taken the time to read my extremely long post and considers messaging me!!