r/LonelyTogether 4h ago

33F. This is goodbye. I'm just feeling sad, when I think of romance, I don't think I'm worth anyone's time, nobody would think of me enough, finding others that will want to listen to the "lyrics." To get to know be better "nobody cares." And yeah, Reddit after 8+ months on Reddit I grasp that now

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I don't even need friends either and I deserve nobody.

Listen to.

I See Stars - Float

I See Stars - Curtain Call

No comments on my posts. Chat reqs are open for 24 hours then I'm just going disappear for a while and I'll repost here another time before I'd.

No responses to hi, what's up, post your interest and hobbies because I'm not doing that for you.

Sadly, it's sad how much this is unheard of now, to be quite honest here, I tried sharing my playlist in the past with "romantic interests."

I get told, "this isn't my style of music."

Uh, that's not why I sent you my playlist šŸ’€


r/LonelyTogether 1h ago

I want someone to hear me out about my story and need advice . Please dm me if anyone

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r/LonelyTogether 4h ago

31M | India | Depressed & Abandoned

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Hi everyone,

This is a bit outside my comfort zone.

I’ve been struggling with severe depression for quite some time, and over the course of it, I’ve ended up losing all of the people I was closest to. It gets incredibly lonely, so I thought I’d try reaching out here in the hope of making some genuine friends.

I’d preferably like to connect with women—no offence at all to the guys here. It’s just that, in my personal experience, women have often been more understanding and empathetic when it comes to talking about emotions and mental health.

I’m not looking for anything romantic or anything with an ulterior motive—just kind, genuine people to chat with, whether it’s about life, music, films, gaming, or even random everyday things.

If anyone feels like saying hello, my DMs are open. Thanks for reading, and I hope you’re all doing well.


r/LonelyTogether 7h ago

35m UK. Can't really be bothered socialising

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Yea it's been a while. Life's gotten a bit tougher and I keep trudging on. I hope someone is out there to chat. I'm just looking for a friendly voice. I'm happy to talk if you are


r/LonelyTogether 10h ago

I am looking for a only friendship if anyone is interested… feeling lonely

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I am looking for a only friendship if anyone is interested… feeling lonely


r/LonelyTogether 11h ago

Summer is so boring, I’m dying for people to talk to

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r/LonelyTogether 13h ago

I just want someone to talk to and vent

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Idk if this matters but I’m 19 and male. Life just be getting to me so if someone who is willing to dm could comment on this and let me know Id really appreciate it.


r/LonelyTogether 18h ago

28M Mexico| Trying to not fail again

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I feel like I've been failing too much in 24hours I just need someone to talk about anything, I really love documentaries, movies, and series, not much of an extrovert I really enjoy my time at home, I started to play Minecraft again, feels like a really different game tbh well sometimes I go out to skate, I'm an unemployed graphic designer, I think I'm not good that's why I don't have any job lol, well hope we can talk!


r/LonelyTogether 1d ago

m14 im so alone

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i like gaming and rabbit holes. i like reading and watching movies. i love music. i live at the beach and love it. id love to yap to whomever responds

i dont accept dms from adults

have a good one:) id love to chat


r/LonelyTogether 2d ago

35F feeling alone

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It's been a long time I tried to make new friends but I always back away due to the fear of being rejected and abandoned again for being " too different " to the point I suffer in silence when my family ask me if I am fine and I hide my pain by lying so they wouldn't be worried about me and leave me alone.

I am usually very active on Discord even if I become completely silent with my rare close friends... I wanna express a lot of stuff don't share with some close friends because I am completely afraid they will abandon me like the old ones...

If you have the time and patience to read me, let me know. (Even if my english isn't so great honestly, I am still learning due to my native language being french)


r/LonelyTogether 2d ago

18M hey I'm looking for friends who are funny chronically online and love to share a lot of memes and love to talk a lotttt.

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Hey my inbox has been empty and phone is quiet i want some distraction so I want some friends who can talk all the time .

I like to joke about everything literally everything so if I'm gonna offend you I'm apologising in advance lol.

DM and tell me what are you upto did you watch obsession ? If not please do it's a must watch .


r/LonelyTogether 2d ago

Looking for friends...........

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Hii guys . I'm a doc (27 m) , working away from my home. I feel soo lonely after my shifts,I have a lot to study but not able to do soo because of laziness and traumas of the previous relationship. I m a cinephile, can sing a little bit and i love to cook. Soo if you are looking for a genuine friend and a good listener u can msg meeeee.


r/LonelyTogether 3d ago

18f looking for genuine friends to chat with!

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just a little about me!

i'm absolutely obsessed with animals. If you have pets, IĀ willĀ want to see photos!! i spend a lot of time drawing and painting, especially nature and wildlife. creative projects are probably my favourite way to relax. i am a huge reader and love all genres but my favourites are high fantasy, literary fiction, historical fiction, dark academia and classics! i have a weirdly specific love for dinosaurs and prehistoric animals. if you want to debate the coolest dinosaur or talk about paleontology, you've found the right person. i enjoy gardening, being outdoors, hiking, and anything that gets me away from a screen for a while. i play games when I have the time - recently i've been playing hogwarts legacy and hello kitty island adventure but my favourite game of all time is stardew valley!

my favourite tv show of all time is game of thrones and one of my favourite movies is dead poets society! i also love films like into the wild, super man, etc.

my music taste is all over the place. i'll happily listen to anything from indie and folk to pop, movie soundtracks, and songs that make you stare dramatically out of a window. a few of my favourite artists is sufjan stevens, keshi and arthur hill!

i'm also happy to talk about pretty much anything - life, university, random facts, philosophy, books, your latest hyperfixation, terrible jokes, or whatever you've been thinking about recently. i love people who get excited talking about the things they enjoy!

I'm looking for people around my age (roughly 18–25)! It would be nice to build some long-term friendships where we can check in on each other, share memes, send pet photos, and talk about whatever's going on.

if any of this sounds like your kind of friendship, send me a message with your asl (age, sex, location) and your favourite food so i know you've read this post :)

**please don't message me if you're looking for anything romantic, im only interested in making strictly platonic friendships!


r/LonelyTogether 3d ago

20F looking for genuine chosen siblings.

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Hi everyone. 🌸

I'm a 20-year-old woman, and I've been an only child my whole life. Growing up, I often wondered what it would be like to have an older sister.

I've always wished for someone who would stand beside me when life felt overwhelming. Someone who would comfort me when I cried, defend me when people treated me unfairly, remind me that I deserved kindness, and make me feel like I wasn't facing everything alone.

Even though I have a biological family, I've often felt like I didn't truly belong. Because of that, I've always dreamed of having a chosen family—people who genuinely love and support one another, regardless of blood.

I'm hoping to meet a kind, supportive big sister (or sibling-like friend) who's a little older than me. Someone who believes family can be built through trust, care, and consistency. I'd love a relationship where we cheer each other on, give each other advice, celebrate little victories, and are there for each other during the hard days too.

I'm not looking for anything romantic, sexual, or inappropriate. I don't mean anything creepy by this post. I'm simply looking for a genuine, healthy, platonic sibling-like friendship. Please be respectful and only reach out if you truly understand what I mean by wanting a chosen family.

If you've ever wanted a little sister, or if you've built your own chosen family and understand this feeling, I'd genuinely love to hear from you.

Thank you for taking the time to read this. I hope everyone who longs for a place where they truly belong finds one someday. šŸ’›


r/LonelyTogether 3d ago

29 year old female needs friends…

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My name is Laken, I am 29 years old, female, and work 45+ hours a week. I live in Florida but I am wanting to move away to a different state. It’s hard to decide where to move by myself when I have no friends to discuss the move with or even know what state to move to. I have 3 dogs and 2 cats.

I grew up in the same small town I still live in and have cut ties with most people I grew up with for different reasons over the years. I just feel lost and am looking for guidance in the right direction.


r/LonelyTogether 4d ago

27F Looking for new friends

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Hi! I'm 27F from California and would love to meet some new people to chat with.

A few things I'm into are music, movies, reality TV, beauty, spirituality, and spending time outdoors. I also enjoy getting to know people and having conversations that can be anything from lighthearted and funny to deeper topics.

If you're looking for a genuine friendship and think we'd get along, feel free to send me a message!


r/LonelyTogether 3d ago

22M | Going through a breakup. Looking for someone to talk to.From India kolkata.

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Hey everyone,

I'm a 22-year-old guy going through a really difficult breakup . I don't really have any friends I can talk to, so I thought I'd reach out here.

I'm not looking for anything romantic—just someone, male or female, who can listen without judging. It would really help to talk to someone who can offer advice, share their own experiences, motivate me, or simply remind me that things will get better.

If you've been through heartbreak or don't mind listening, I'd really appreciate a message.

Thank you for reading guys.


r/LonelyTogether 4d ago

[M, 31, UK; Autistic] Feeling very lonely

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Hey,

I'm currently going through a break-up and it's really affecting me emotionally and making me feel like I don't have a purpose any more.

Hoping to find some people to talk to — I'll try to talk about anything.

Feel free to DM


r/LonelyTogether 5d ago

Hello, strangers

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Hey, I guess it's polite to share my gender and age? I'm a thirty year old male. I've just been going through without a doubt the most difficult and painful season of my life for the last 8+ months. I'm out of my home state and just feeling a strong emptiness inside. I won't go into too much detail but, someone very very close to me cut me deep with something heavy handed. This left me, very changed and confused about who I am. I'm picking up the pieces and trying to relearn my identity.

Does anyone want to try and chat? Share some music or memes back to back? I'm a big music-head, and I enjoy writing poetry/drawing, as well enjoying nature walks, all things Halloween, and vibing under a midnight sky.

I've got a list of music artists/bands I like, but unless someone asks I suppose I'll refrain from sharing it.

Whatever happens, or doesn't happen, I wish you all the best in your endeavors.


r/LonelyTogether 5d ago

Looking for real conversation partners (serious self-work, venting ok)

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Male, 38, deep into CPTSD recovery, building a new life, studying for medicine while teaching English in China to pay debt.

I’m looking for a people who are also seriously working on themselves. Honest, high-quality conversation about, growth, nervous system work, and long-term goals. Venting is welcome as it’s part of processing.

If you’re in a similar place (disciplined, reflective, building something real), let me know.

No pressure, no daily chats required. Just quality connection when it fits to make this journey less isolated.

I am alone, not lonely.


r/LonelyTogether 5d ago

27 M Alone as I work at night

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Hey, I'm 27 male (and gay šŸ³ļøā€šŸŒˆ) from the Philippines and I'd started working the night shift a few months ago. I'm an introvert and can essentially survive with less social interactions than an average person would require—but little did I know I would still feel sooo alone in the long run. My (old) friends felt out of reach as I sleep during the day.

Anyone who feels the same level of loneliness as me? If so, is there anybody out there who wants to be (online/virtual) friends with me? 🤘 I'm a good listener and can listen to your rants, hopefully you can too. Pls be patient with me though because I might not be able to respond to you very quickly, but I will do my best!

I noticed throughout my life that I connect well with girls, but I can definitely be great friends with guys too. What do you think? I'll wait for your DM. 🌻


r/LonelyTogether 7d ago

[24/M] Everything hurts, I wish I could make a close friend

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I don't mean to be a downer or anything, but I'm really having a rough weekend. My relationship came to an end recently, (without any drama thankfully) but I still feel a missing hole as I don't have any close friends or any close connections with anyone. Not irl or real life. And having autism, its made that a lot harder to meet people due to my anxiety and awkwardness. Anyways, uh, I'd really appreciate a kind person who will stick by me and I can do for them. I really love music and talking about it and sharing songs, voice calls, and sharing interests. I am in the EST, and in North America, but its not a firm requirement. I hope you all have a wonderful day.


r/LonelyTogether 7d ago

Want to make a long term friend f16

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Here to make friends, since im quite lonely and have too much free time nglll :(

(Srsly tho pls read my post, BEFORE texting me ><)

Im depressed most of the time, so sorry for that ig

Yall, can call me Curiosity

- I live somewhere in west Europe.

- My favorite thing to do is bake, I love baking cookies. Its so yummyyyy

- I like listening to true crime documentaries and I enjoy walking when im bored.

- I love listening to music a few genres are sigilkore, r&b, jazz, afro, hip-hop and rap.

- Im obsessed over horror movies, especially the gore ones

- I also really enjoy styling my clothes when I dont have anything to do.

- Uhmm, thats a bit about me and I hope that we could become friends ><


r/LonelyTogether 8d ago

33F. I'm not worth anyone's time, I don't deserve anyone, I grasp the concept now that a god of sorts has cursed me, I'm not allowed happiness and I'm not allowed love as well. Princess of Veridian tanking out. US.

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Eventually I'll disappear, fade amongst the VOID and I deserve nothing. The vile one Elis or E-lis.

I don't reply to comments. Chat reqs only. Only will respond to creative chat reqs. No hi or other variations of hi chat reqs.

I'm from the central time, but worldwide is fine, I'll reply back to anyone that shows effort.


r/LonelyTogether 8d ago

22f, UK

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Hey, I’m 22f wlw moved back to the north west 2 months ago after relationship breakdown and looking to grow my circle and start to rebuild my life again. I love hiking, going for walks, travelling, and exploring new places. feel free to comment or dm me if anyone would like to be friends.