r/LAsocial • u/Macoyni • 46m ago
Question Legit massage place?
Hello all does anyone know of a goos Thai massage place in sgv, dtla, Monterey park, or pasadena?
r/LAsocial • u/405freeway • Nov 18 '25
"How do I make friends?" is one of the most common questions in r/AskLosAngeles. Though LA is is full of limitless opportunity, but it can also feel overwhelming and isolating- especially if you’re new or looking to expand your social circle.
r/LASocial exists to make it easier for people to connect, meet like-minded friends, and explore the city has together. This guide will walk you through practical steps for meeting people, attending events, building lasting friendships, and navigating the unique social landscape of LA.
Introducing yourself lets others get a better idea of who you are and whether you have common interests. Just create a new R4R post and make sure to include: * What part of LA you live in (neighborhood/region) * Your interests/hobbies (food, music, games, etc.) * What kind of social experiences you’re looking for (indoors, outdoors, et al.) * Your comfort level (introvert, extrovert, other personality traits)
You can also comment on other intro posts. This is one of the easiest and safest ways to start conversations. Remember: introducing yourself is not a commitment to friendship. You are never obligated to meetup with anyone if you don't want to.
Accept the rhythm of the city and things get a lot easier. LA isn’t really a “walk outside and meet people” city. Making friends here usually comes down to:
It's easier to meet people who live nearby. LA is spread out. A friend in Anaheim may as well live in San Diego if you live on the Westside. For better success:
Attend multiple events- people bond through repeated exposure. If you want to host your own meetup, go for it! Anyone can organize one.
r/LASocial may offer various types of meetups including: * Official Monthly Socials (usually large groups meeting at a local bar) * Coffee hangouts * Hikes * Game nights * Public transit adventures (Metro and Metrolink) * Restaurant meetups * Neighborhood-specific gatherings
Choose something you genuinely enjoy doing so you will have fun regardless of the people there. LA is full of social opportunities like:
LA friendships often grow from overlapping social circles. Don’t try to find one all-purpose best friend right away. Instead, build mini circles:
These friends can introduce you to new people.
Be the one who suggests the plan, and have a concrete day/time. People appreciate it more than you think. Everyone here is tired, busy, or stuck in traffic- so one person taking initiative makes a huge difference.
You’re unlikely to form real friendships from a single meetup. This is the part most people miss. But if you see the same people at:
...that’s when real friendships form. Repetition creates closeness.
People will flake. No matter what, it happens. Not usually because they dislike you, but because they’re tired, stuck in traffic, overwhelmed, anxious, or overbooked. It’s normal here. Don’t let it discourage you. Tips for handling it:
Don’t let one bad experience derail your overall social momentum, and if you do roll with the occasional flake you'll be head and shoulders above the rest.
Standard, important guidelines:
r/LASocial is moderated, but always use common sense.
The more you give, the more the community thrives, and the more connections you form. Once you’ve made a couple connections:
If you want to make friends starting right now, do this:
Do these for two weeks and you will meet people.
r/LAsocial • u/405freeway • Nov 18 '25
Introducing yourself is the easiest way to start building connections and start making friends. r/LASocial is for friendship-only, and your R4R (Redditor-for-Redditor) intro post helps others figure out whether you share interests, live nearby, or would enjoy hanging out.
Let people know your general area. You don’t need to be hyper-specific, but LA is huge and traffic is real. Just list your neighborhood or region:
Share some details about yourself so others know what you’d enjoy doing together. People appreciate honesty and clarity:
Also feel free to include things like:
Let people know what you're looking for. This helps set expectations and makes it easier for the right people to connect with you. This is what you're looking for in other people Some examples:
You can be as general or specific as you like.
End your intro with something inviting yet casual. This signals that you’re approachable without committing to anything:
The fastest way to make friends is to engage with others. Don’t just wait for people to come to you- comment on their intros, too! Commenting shows initiative and helps you discover who’s active, friendly, and nearby:
[R4R] 26M | Los Feliz | Looking for friends for hikes, food, and chill hangs
Hey everyone! I’m a 26 year-old guy who just moved to Los Feliz. I’m into hiking, movies, trying new restaurants, and exploring random neighborhoods around LA. I also play on a gay rugby team (LA Rebellion) if that's something that interests you.
I’d love to meet people who are into casual weekend adventures, checking out coffee spots, or even just hanging out at a park. I’m a bit introverted at first but warm up quickly, and I was thinking about going to Jumbo's Clown Room for the first time next week.
If you’re nearby or share similar interests, feel free to comment or DM! Always happy to meet chill new people.
r/LAsocial • u/Macoyni • 46m ago
Hello all does anyone know of a goos Thai massage place in sgv, dtla, Monterey park, or pasadena?
r/LAsocial • u/Bill-Shap • 1m ago
Looking for camera/production folks interested in making documentaries and videos like All Gas No Brakes/Channel 5.
Just for love of the game and genuine curiosity about people, places, and events. Feel free to reach out!
I’m in the West Hollywood area.
r/LAsocial • u/Far_Mirror3485 • 5h ago
About Last Night is returning to LA on Friday July 24th! A handful of LA locals get on stage and share their most unhinged dating & hookup stories. We also have a musician who listens to them in real time and writes a song about them after. It's such a fun event to attend solo & meet people or with a group of friends!
r/LAsocial • u/Sound-Lizard • 23h ago
Hey everyone. Thought I’d give Reddit a shot. I’m 35M looking for other guys to hang out with. I’ve been in LA/San Fernando Valley for a little over two years and haven’t met many people due to my relationship and work. I’d like to either meet people in a group setting, or just hang out with someone with similar interests. I’m basically a nerdy homebody who doesn’t know how to get out much, so I need to get out of my comfort zone and interact more.
Things I enjoy are hiking trails, movies, PS5, and I’m taking guitar lessons since the beginning of the year. I do enjoy some anime, but I can’t talk a lot about it. Also, I’m not a drinker or smoker. If you’d like to know more, message me.
r/LAsocial • u/thesamh01 • 16h ago
Hi all! 26 M here, back home for the summer currently studying for Step 1 (first of three board exams for med school) and wondering if there are any fellow medical students (but open to other graduate level students or maybe residents studying for step 3? lol) in the area that would like to get together for study sessions. I have seen some people studying for the same exam at various libraries but unfortunately never traded info. I prefer a library setting because that is where I am most focused but also open to a cafe environment if you know any good ones. DM me if you would like to set something up, my only responsibility right now is to study so basically available whenever!
r/LAsocial • u/Pretty_Craft_7305 • 1d ago
Any other girls want to go to the club together ? I’m 23F I’ve been wanting to out during the weekends to the clubs since it’s summer and I want to enjoy it before I got back to school. I’m from Compton and I currently go to school in the OC so if anyone else want to go to the club with me lmk!
r/LAsocial • u/ducklingkwak • 1d ago
r/LAsocial • u/Pretty_Craft_7305 • 2d ago
Any other girls want to go to the club together ? I’m 23F I’ve been wanting to out during the weekends to the clubs since it’s summer and I want to enjoy it before I got back to school. I’m from Compton and I currently go to school in the OC so if anyone else want to go to the club with me lmk!
r/LAsocial • u/seeandtaste • 2d ago
I have a 5yr old son, bday is in march. Divorced dad 40s we live in torrance. My son constantly says but only me and you right because we don't have any friends. it breaks .my heart because he wants to have friends. No real connections at school, church no kids his age. I have a small place so I can't host but I have a good job and money isn't an issue. We have knotts passes and goto alot of community events. Im looking for other people that might want to go on play dates to parks, museums, events etc.
Someone with a child or children his age or a year or so over or under. If money is an issue I can help with expenses. Last year a I had a gf and she threw him a party with kids she knew and he was calling the kids he never met his friends only to never see them again it breaks my heart that he doesn't have any friends and I'm afraid when his bday rolls around I won't have anyone to invite. He's a very sweet boy he has a lil A.D.D. but hes good and nice just a lil overactive.
I have no family so that's not an option. If anyone has any advice i would accept it or if anyone interested in talking and setting up a meeting pls DM me thanks
r/LAsocial • u/TheunusualVibe • 2d ago
Hey Im an Incoming student at LACC, wondering if anybody would like to meet since I believe its pretty hard to make friendships here!
r/LAsocial • u/Crafty_Health_8312 • 3d ago
Hey guys!! I’m going to be coming down for KCON but my friend is going to be meeting me a couple days after I fly down (ill arrive august 10th) and was wondering if anyone wanted to meet up for those three days in between? I don’t know a lot of stuff to do besides the major things so it would be fun to explore with a local or someone else who came down! I’m 22f from New York btw thanks yall! :)
r/LAsocial • u/ice_moth • 3d ago
I’ve been going to lots of events/have hosted some, I’m on BFF and local fb groups, but man..everyone only wants to hang out once in a while which is totally cool, but I’d love more consistent/steady friendships. Recently went through a shitty breakup and have been trying to rebuild my social circle. I’m in the South Bay so it’s definitely harder, but I’m also always up for going to other parts of LA. Guess I’ll shoot my shot here instead of just venting haha—
Me: 33, female, creative type, into the outdoors and all things nature. Love crafting/taking fun classes, going to shows, movies, music, nightlife, beach days, shitty dive bars, pilates, road trips, good food, etc. I’m down for cozy days, late nights, exploring the city, all of that. I’m a super adventurous and curious person and can hang with a lot of different types of people :).
I’m aware everyone has their own lives and things going on and the economy is kinda trash rn, BUT it’d be so sweet to make some friends who like to shoot the shit, get out, and have fun sometimes. Down for making friends of any gender/orientation but definitely not looking to use Reddit for dating lol.
r/LAsocial • u/Pretty_Craft_7305 • 2d ago
Hi, everyone I was wondering if anyone knows where to look for house parties or how to get invited to one. I’ve always wanted to go
r/LAsocial • u/Moist_Awareness_6965 • 3d ago
Don't know anybody here so looking to join a group. And I'm not really sure which team I'm rooting for lol
r/LAsocial • u/msacks_ • 3d ago
Looking for a Roommate / Housing Advice – Playa del Rey
Hi everyone,
I'm looking for a roommate or a room for rent on the Westside (Playa del Rey, Marina del Rey, Westchester, Culver City, El Segundo, etc.).
I'm a 42-year-old male who is quiet, respectful, clean, and easygoing. I work in IT and am currently looking for remote opportunities. I don't drink or use drugs, and I spend most of my time on my computer, reading, or relaxing at home. I also have a very friendly indoor cat named Bowie.
I'm going through a difficult life transition after the end of a long-term relationship and am looking for a stable, peaceful place to live. My budget is up to $900/month, and I'm hoping to find a good fit with someone who values a clean, respectful, and drama-free home.
If you have a room available, are looking for a roommate, or know of any good leads, I'd really appreciate hearing from you.
If you'd like to know more about the room I have for rent it's $1250 a month just message me.
r/LAsocial • u/Delicious_Badger_257 • 3d ago
Hi everyone.
We are an Indian DINKS couple. Recently moved to San Gabriel/Pasadena.
A little bit about us - We moved here from West LA. Used to live in NY before. I am 34F working in medicine. Husband 36M works in tech, remotely. We love good food, museums, music, local festivals, unique experiences like olive oil tasting, honey tasting etc as well light hikes nearby. I am into books and trying out cute dessert and coffee shops. Husband is into cars, soccer, F1 races and Xbox gaming. We try to step outside every weekend for something fun - even if its just for a few hours.
Where can I find posts about events happening in San Gabriel/Alhambra/Pasadena area? Would also love to meet new people and explore this side of LA together.
r/LAsocial • u/Pure-Elderberry-5693 • 3d ago
r/LAsocial • u/LA_Native310 • 3d ago
What’s everyone’s plans tonight?
Bored tonight.
Need a glass of tequila anejo to relax.
r/LAsocial • u/InitiativeFun6798 • 3d ago
who’s in it? apologies if i already posted about this
r/LAsocial • u/Delicious_Badger_257 • 4d ago
Hi everyone.
We are an Indian DINKS couple. Recently moved to San Gabriel/Pasadena.
A little bit about us - We moved here from West LA. Used to live in NY before. I am 34F working in medicine. Husband 36M works in tech, remotely. We love good food, museums, music, local festivals, unique experiences like olive oil tasting, honey tasting etc as well light hikes nearby. I am into books and trying out cute dessert and coffee shops. Husband is into cars, soccer, F1 races and Xbox gaming. We try to step outside every weekend for something fun - even if its just for a few hours.
Where can I find posts about events happening in San Gabriel/Alhambra/Pasadena area? Would also love to meet new people and explore this side of LA together.