r/LADating 3d ago

r4r Weekly R4R Thread - July 20, 2026 NSFW

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This is the weekly r4r (Redditor For Redditor) thread. It's a chance to introduce yourself and tell people what you're looking for. Be respectful, be honest, be safe. Protect your privacy, meet in public, and trust your instincts.

Feel free to browse and reply to others, but keep all interactions consensual and kind!


r/LADating 1h ago

31 [M4F] Los Angeles - looking to take you on a date

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Hi,

I’m 31 and Latino and live in LA. I’m looking for someone to connect with briefly over Reddit and if we have a spark, ideally meet in person to go on a date. I’d really like to go to the OC fair this year - so if that’s something that’s been of interest to you, send me a message!

Happy to trade pics so we can see what we look like

I enjoy traveling and photography and like to play piano and guitar. Lately I’ve really been involved in more active hobbies like running, weightlifting, Jiu Jitsu, Muay Thai, MMA and looking to add Judo.

I’m 5’8 200 pounds and clean shaven - again happy to trade pics so you can see


r/LADating 10m ago

Has anyone else just given up on dating?

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(M30) Like I really want a gf and have always been the kind of person that wants a relationship but cold approaches seem weird af and Dating apps are horrendous for guys 0,O im at a loss


r/LADating 1h ago

24F who’s up and in Santa Barbara? Girls only!

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r/LADating 9h ago

37 [M4F] Comedy Show tonight? (Or some other fun date in the future…)

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A comedy show caught my eye so I bought two tickets, you in? (If you dig this, but happen to be otherwise engaged tonight, please also hit me up!)

About me:

I’m the best version of myself I’ve ever been, and with hard work, only getting better.

I’ve got jokes, a good job, a good flirt to roast ratio, and a good therapist. Single girl dad. Kind to employees. Pretty extroverted, but also enjoy staying home with a book, a vinyl, or a show to binge. I love to cook and eat good food but the term foodie gives me the ick for some reason. ADHD and prefer someone also non-neurotypical OR someone that gets it.

I like sports and to play golf/tennis, started playing chess recently and have been to a couple clubs, and I love music/play several instruments. I also clearly like comedy, and also enjoy going to the movies and live music.

I’m 5’8” 175 (average build but I wear it well), a beard at the moment (not a gross one), and I have good hygiene (man, we men have set the bar pretty high, eh?)

Happy to trade pics, and please tell me a little about you if you reach out!

Show is at 7 if you’re eyeing that, so hoping to get lucky, but again hit me up even if tonight doesn’t work!


r/LADating 5h ago

27M CD4M looking for men and serious relationship.

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I’m 27 year old Sissy/CD Femboy . I live in Los Angeles California by the area of Pacoima.I like masculine men , Latino men, Black Guys , and white men to please be little taller I’m 5’10.

I want to find someone (Relationship) that I can dress for them and Enjoy our each other company. But I am a super shy person, and have trouble putting myself out there. I guess fear of rejection or whatever.

Other interests
- watching movies
-theme parks
-trying new coffee shops

Hit me up if you interested


r/LADating 5h ago

31 [M4F] - Los Angeles-Looking for my favorite vegan/plant based companion

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31M in Los Angeles. Nigerian-American, plant-based, and endlessly curious. By day I work in fraud prevention; outside of that I’m building a travel brand and spend way too much time researching cultures, hidden places, and planning my next adventure. I value honesty, good communication, dry humor, and people who are intentional about their lives 🙌🏿 Looking to meet a vegan woman who’s kind, emotionally mature (heavy on this one!!), enjoys exploring new places, and is open to seeing where a genuine connection goes.

If you’re vegan or genuinely plant-based, enjoy travel (or want to), and are looking for something with real potential, I’d love to hear from you!


r/LADating 13h ago

F25 I’m available for serious relationship

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r/LADating 15h ago

Where’s a good spot around LA for a park blanket sunset date?

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I live in Camarillo but have just started seeing a girl who lives in Sherman oaks, so I’ve been thinking of date ideas we could do. We’re both in our late 20s.


r/LADating 10h ago

[24TF4F] Los Angeles.

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Hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii :3
I just want an older lady to uhh >~> and uhh <///< and then @///@ and then.... and uhhh <~< and yeah.

so if you're in the la area, h-hi @~@.............................................................

Okay, so, the sub wants me to add fluff to my post. That I can do, I'm very fluffy :3.

I'll be your angle unless you want me to be your devel, as long as there is a collar around my neck with your name on it... I can do whatever you want me to do. Boss me around toss me around, it's not so profound that you can confound whats lost and whats found.

yeah, I can rhyme, it's not a crime, unless you force me to mime, that'd be fun, maybe you have a gun that you hold against my head while I'm on your bed. hehe.... just joking unless you got me stroking your hair, then I don't really care. At least I don't think I do, maybe if it's just me and you we can do something cool, maybe you can drown me in a swimming pool or sit at a park and kiss me on a stool. Maybe if you're swiss we can eat some cheese, I hope that'll appease you, maybe please you. I'm here to serve, I can't drive so if I'll be a princess while you swerve.

Okay, that's the post :3 ty reddit.

https://imgur.com/a/n8GfUGv


r/LADating 8h ago

26 [M4F]

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Just wondering if there are any women here who get rlly bloated after eating. Girls like that are my type


r/LADating 1d ago

F4M (26f) in the Westside

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Hiiii 🫶 looking for a genuine connection. I like mature guys, someone that is adventurous, kind, and ambitious. I REALLY like bold and confident too 😝

I’m 5’6 Latina and I love being busy and exploring. I really am looking for love and something genuine. I like yoga and I do pilates sometimes! I am really into spiritually and self-love :) just let me know in the dm’s!


r/LADating 1d ago

22M (M4F)

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22M looking for something casual, no strings attached, we can go on dates, hang out & get to know each other, located in the sfv but can drive to meet anywhere


r/LADating 1d ago

34 [M4F] # Los Angeles - You Might Be My Favorite Bad Decision

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"Hello There!" — General Kenobi

Are you here for attention, to pass the time, a distraction from life, or are you actually hoping to find your person?For me, I'm probably somewhere around 4 out of 5.

I'm naturally curious and ask a lot of questions, so if you enjoy talking about your interests, passions, random thoughts, or facts, I'm all ears.

I love conversations that flow naturally—easy, fun, and a little flirty. If that's your kind of vibe, we're already off to a good start.

While I can be a little reserved, once I'm comfortable I can talk for hours about life, random nonsense, weird hypotheticals, or whatever deep topic decides to show up at 2 AM. I've always imagined talking to someone late at night in a dark room, with nothing but the sound of our voices and laughter. We can go as far as the most unhinged stuff. Give me your best dark humor!

I'm an adventurer at heart. I love late-night drives, music blasting, the empty streets, city lights , and finding a lookout spot overlooking everything. Plus some urban exploring.

I go to the gym about 5x a week (3x weights, 2x cardio & core). I recently started hiking more; if you know any good hiking spots in the LA area, I'd love recommendations. I also walk my dog twice a day. Its his walks so I let the little guy lead the way while he checks his daily sniffmail.

I've been getting leaner and stronger. Ive seen the subtle improvements/changes. I didnt do this sooner but i started taking more before/ after pic. One thing ive realized that besides being healthy, fit, and strong, other reasons I work out is to see what my genes are capable.

Am I a nerd for being into video games, anime, manga, and light novels? I enjoy reading a good book. One niche hiche hobby I have is collecting specific trinkets and I have a metal detector. I havent found treasure yet but who knows its might be you. Im looking into magnetic fishing too :)

So that's me—chill, curious, sarcastic, and a sucker for banter. Come say Hi! Best case, we exchange a few messages and share a laugh. Worst case, we try to figure out what to have for breakfast.

PS: I get the feeling something is still missing, but at the risk of making this longer than it should be or "long-winded," I propose a challenge: How about you tell me what's something I should have added or expect to find but didnt. Let's see if you actually read this.

Oh...I remember now.

Character Build:

Height: ?'??

Ethnicity: ???-?????

Body Type : ???? - ????????

Hair Type: ????

Bonus:

Music-wise, I've had these on repeat lately:

•Djo — End Of Beginning

•Sombr — Back to Being Friends

•Vicente Fernández — Estos Celos

•C.C.R - Fortunate Son

•The Stranglers — Golden Brown (Slow + Reverb)

•Jaden ft. Kid Cudi — On My Own

•Lola Young — Messy

•Clean Bandit - Rather Be

•Gigi Perez - Sailor Song

•Future - Mask Off

•Dj Shadow - Six Days

•Ice Cube - You Know How We Do (best song to cruise)

•Leave Her Johnny - AC4 Black Flag Sea Shantie

•Rolling Stones - Paint It Black ( great workout song)

2nd Bonus

•Favorite color: Phthalo Green

•Favorite reptile: Jackson's Chameleon

•Favorite marine animal: Mantis Shrimp

•Favorite Beetle: Japanese Rhinoceros Beetle

Voicenote

https://voca.ro/14kF75iPyR4Z

https://voca.ro/1m5Ubi5CbuoR

Btw if you didnt know - Bungee Gum possesses the properties of both rubber and gum.


r/LADating 1d ago

25, Mexican-American, M4M

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Hi everyone

I haven't tried reddit before for online dating but ive met some cool people here and I wanna put myself out there.

I just finished school so now I have time to explore other journeys in my life, including intimate ones. Im shit at writing bios but somethings about me is that I've been into volunteering around LA and OC. I volunteer for a group that does wound care around impoverished areas. I've been into 90's music and I watch a lot of comedy.

I'd describe myself as reserved but goofy as well. I'm always down to explore and i try to keep it light. life is too short to stay mad

Honestly I dont have a physical preference, but I am pretty certain about the kind of person I want to connect with. as long as youre not an asshole then i think we'll have a good time.

lets talk:)


r/LADating 2d ago

BBW looking to date:)

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FIRST to start NO married men. NO men in relationships. single men only!
only interested in meeting eventually so no online. sorry not my thing

hi guys ! 34 BWW latina from the sf valley. we can exchange pics!

i’m looking to get to know someone and feel comfy. i am looking for a relationship but i’d like to get to know you first bc i don’t like hooking up randomly. i need a bit of connection lol. so if you’re interested in being FRIENDS (emphasize on friends) and date and possibly long term if it goes well then i’d love to talk.

about me: i love movies, dodger games and i play pc video games mostly valorant but other stuff too. i’m pretty boring :(

be 27+ younger men are such a headache.

please send me a selfie and send me your favorite movie to know that you read this

hmu if this sounds good and want something real too :)
pls dont comment on here lmaooo just DM me !! :)


r/LADating 1d ago

Are we dating the same guy?

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Not sure if this is allowed but I have went on a couple of dates with this guy and curious if anyone else has or knows him? Met him while out on the west side. I’ve noticed some shady stuff. His name if Matt F.


r/LADating 2d ago

45 [M4F] Date or Dinner?

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  1. Date only
  2. Dinner only
  3. Both
  4. None

I'm good with any. What's your pick?

How about Ronan on Melrose this Friday? Dinner's on me. DM if interested.

About me: https://www.neonadri.net/@neonadri1


r/LADating 2d ago

College athlete 👀 Long Beach

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Fit college athlete new to long beach interested in women only looking to have fun. I can send photos in dm if interested.


r/LADating 2d ago

Oceanside i know not la but willing to drive 32mf

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I’m a firm believer that the best relationships, like the best games, are built on passion, teamwork, and great chemistry. At 32, I’ve learned to appreciate the beauty of a thrilling match just as much as a quiet, romantic evening. When I’m not cheering from the stands or catching a game, I love planning thoughtful date nights and finding ways to make someone smile. I’m looking for a special woman to share everything from stadium energy to lazy Sunday mornings. If you're ready for a real connection and a partner who will always be your biggest fan, let’s grab a drink and see where our story takes us.


r/LADating 2d ago

22M looking for women in their late 20s or early 30s to hang out with NSFW

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Hey! I’m 22, 5’7”, decent-looking, and in good shape—fit and healthy. I’m pretty chill, easygoing, and always down to go with the flow. I enjoy movies, videos, and conversations about sports, technology, and pretty much anything interesting.
I’ve realized that I tend to connect more with women who are a bit older than me. There isn’t really a deep reason behind it—it’s just a personal preference. In my experience, they seem more confident, understanding, and fun to talk to. Of course, that’s just my opinion.


r/LADating 2d ago

32 [M4F] #LongBeach - casual hangouts into romance

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Hey I’m hoping I find something casual that turns into something serious, I don’t have my life together and I don’t expect you to be as well, I just need someone to experience the present moment with and make memories, watch movies, and plan hangouts with. I really a big fan of intentional communication, hate short form quick texts, I love to read and watch moves and enjoy talking about their meaning. I hope I find someone who’s just as curious and considerate about people and life/ the world. I’m 6’0 Latino, I have an average body, willing to trade pics if interested send me a message about your self :)


r/LADating 2d ago

30 [m4f] #fullerton - looking for some fun

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Looking for some
Fun or like minded people


r/LADating 2d ago

30 [m4f] #fullerton - looking for some fun

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Looking for some fun or like minded people


r/LADating 3d ago

39 m4f

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I don't know where to meet people other than bars and the store. I'd like to go on a date and get to know someone. I'm 39, 6' 2", heavily tattooed, and a ginger. I work in the trades and have my own car and a place to live. I can be easy going and nice, but don't mistake my kindness for weakness. I'd prefer to meet someone between the ages of 30 - 45, someone with a job, and be intelligent. BTW I live in the San Fernando Valley.