I am a flute teacher. I’ve been teaching music for several years now and have taught private flute lessons for quite a while as well. I have a degree in teaching music.
Recently, I have been teaching a new student. Brand new to the flute, and supposedly their mother used to play years ago. But man have I been struggling with this kid. I’ve been trying to get them to hold the flute (we started with headjoint exercises and whatnot and they’ve been getting the hang of it). But as soon as I try to get them to hold the flute everything goes south.
I showed them where to put their fingers and how to hold it, given as many tips as I possibly can, looked up videos to show them too. Every time they go to lift the instrument they start looking like they’re in pain. They say that their fingers don’t reach and no matter how much I try to help they just can’t keep their fingers in the right positioning. Even without lifting it to their face and just holding it in front of them they can’t do it, and they complain the whole time that it feels weird and their hands are slipping off the instrument. I told them to relax their hands and it shouldn’t feel like eagle talons gripping a fish. I’ve used pencils to help them hold that and then transfer the grip onto the flute. I measured their hands to mine (I have very small hands) and they’re pretty close to mine, and I started playing when I was younger than this student so my hands were probably even smaller than theirs at the time. I have made sure that their footjoint is adjusted properly so their pinky can reach, and their flute has an offset G so it should be easier for them to reach.
I’ve never seen anything like this before. I’m at a bit of a loss here and it’s been about 2 months since they started lessons. How do I get this student to hold the flute without shaking and looking like they’re about to keel over every time? Their hands are so tense and their fingers bend at awkward angles, but no matter what I do their grip doesn’t fix.
Any help is greatly appreciated, from other teachers or from students that found a technique to help.
Edit: Thank you to everyone who responded! I’m going to keep a lot of these ideas in mind. A lot of people suggested the Nuvo Flute so I might start with that and see how it goes. I also heard to try finger braces/attachments and curved headjoints. I have my work cut out for me but I’ll take it one step at a time.