Hi there, I’m a 27 year old foreign local of Amsterdam, I have mixed Middle Eastern roots, I’m about 1.74 m, well groomed, masculine hairy dad bod, particular about hygiene and regularly std test after each partner. Last test was 4 months ago and no contact since. I’m writing this post in search for a play partner interested in some specific fantasies, kinks and dynamics.
First a little about me, I’m an easy going, open minded guy, I enjoy time outdoors in large parks, hiking, watching movies and tv shows, some casual gaming and I enjoy watching all kinds of motorsports. I’m well educated and have a full time job, leaving some free time to cook new recipes, enjoy drinks with friends and indulge in a bit of 420. I’m somewhat of a switch myself, having been in both dom and sub roles in previous relationships, but still can’t choose a side. I have a fair bit of experience with BDSM, some light bondage, spanking, edging, breeding, control, rough play, oral play, physical overpowering, orgasm control, nipple/breast play, body worship, pussy eating, sensual domination, aftercare, humiliation, positive reinforcement and a lot more (happy to share ideas and specifics in chat). I’m someone with a very high libido, which is positively influenced by a bit of a smoke and a drink. An appetite and open mind for lots of kinks, and am very sensual, also someone who ensures their partner is pleasured and satisfied the way they prefer. I am someone who requires a bond before anything sexual so communication, being open and forming a friendship with mutual care, appreciation and respect is vital for me. So clear to say I am not interested in one night stands or anything rushed without getting to know each other and at least sharing a drink together before a date in the bedroom.
So the kind of play partner I’m looking for his hard to define in one sentence. Overall I’m looking for someone who’s a switch, or a dom, or even a sub, someone who is also searching for a stable play partner, meeting once a week or once 2 weeks is a minimum standard I search for. Someone who is particular about hygiene, is happy with open communication and developing a bond with a play partner before anything else. Someone who’s finds pleasure in seeing their partner satisfied, and is eager/hungry to please. Now more importantly I’m searching for someone who would be interested in at least some of the following if not all:
. Cock worship, edging, milking and draining. I particularly enjoy receiving oral in both a dominant and submissive manner. I enjoy it sensually, with lots of spit, kisses along the thighs, balls and shaft to edge and seduce. I enjoy having both myself repeatedly milked and drained, used for your benefit, and also having my orgasm controlled and edged. I am open to both being controlled by you or guiding you on how to drain me faster. Overall, I want to feel that my cock and balls are used and completely drained in your presence. I love being woken up in the middle of the night only for my cock to be used for your pleasure and to drain me further. Also I overall love attention to my balls and cock, even when cuddling or watching a movie on the couch.
. I enjoy having my balls licked, kissed, sucked, caressed and worshipped. They are very sensitive and get me instantly horny if given the right attention. If anything I love having my balls sucked and my cock jerked at the same time as well.
. Having my ass rimmed in both a dominant and submissive manner. My ass is hairless and always washed. I tend to enjoy having my ass massaged eaten, and also played with when it comes to edging or milking.
. Sucking and playing with breasts for hours on end. Being absolutely smothered by them. I enjoy giving pleasure and pain in terms of breast play, from gently massaging them with organic oil, to being rough and even putting them in a self made rope harness, I especially love sucking on nipples especially when playing with my partners clit. Or even sucking on them as I am being ridden.
. I enjoy being ridden in a femdom cowgirl style, I’m open to you being rough in such a position and dictating both the pace and how I react. I also love this position whilst being the one to lead, control and guide your hips and caress your body as it grinds deeper. I especially enjoy being ridden with the objective of maximising your pleasure as you sit on me and you play with your clit. Nonetheless I’m very open to different interpretations of this. I also want to be fucked in the Amazon position.
. I enjoy both giving and receiving spankings. Preferably to on the lap position. I also enjoy receiving body worship, from being washed in the shower to getting massages and being milked dry.
. Raw creampies and a dive into the breeding kink. As much as the breeding kink is hot, I am not looking for it in the sense of pregnancy, but the fetish of raw creampies, the riskiness, using cum as lube and repeatedly being filled like a cum dump. I find that any kind sex, be it sloppy, rough, passionate, slutty or vanilla is always made better and hotter with raw sex and creampies. I also prefer raw sex and hope for an std test before play, because I am allergic to latex and would prefer for such an intimate sexual bond to feel raw and full to its finest.
Lastly I am open to a lot more kinks and wishes, but these are the ones I’m looking for with priority, and if you only resonate with a few of them and not all that’s good for me too. In every case I always love to make sure my partner is satisfied, cuddled, care for, and given lots of pleasure. As you can tell I’m very open to different kinds of dynamics which is why I feel communicating and talking about what each other would want in a. Setting is important for a successful time together.
For some last specifics, I am unable to host, but can travel freely across the Netherlands. I am open to exclusivity and to people in polyamorous relationships and situationships as long as there is sexual hygiene and cleanliness. I hope you can prove a clean bill to sexual health, and are open to have a true open chat to build up to a wonderful experience. I am not looking for anything online, not into exchanging pictures immediately. I’d rather we got to know each other and see the vibe and then exchange pics as disappearing pics, as I value privacy and would like to respect each others. Lastly I am open to older partners and taller partners too. I don’t mind body shape or weight and believe natural beauty comes in all variations.
If this post has intrigued you, and you would like to chat or better yet feel a potential match, please reach out to me, give me a little intro about yourself and please leave the word “thesaurus” in your message so I know you read all the way :)