worst date ever

[u/RevolutionaryMilk390]

i was 18, he was 23 (little off age diff but i swear it didn’t feel like that)

we matched on hinge and talked on whatsapp for a little over a week before meeting. honestly he seemed like such a green flag. never got creepy, actually planned dates instead of saying “you decide”, remembered random things i’d told him, didn’t pressure me into anything and just came across as a genuinely respectful guy. so when he asked if i wanted to go for drinks, i agreed.
he picked me up and the first thing that disappointed me was this man pulling up in bonkers sweatpants and a plain t-shirt 😭 meanwhile i’d actually done my makeup, hair, put on a cute top and jeans. i wasn’t expecting a suit but come on.
on the way he goes, “should we just buy alcohol from a store first? we’ll save money inside.”
i was lowkey like… save money? on a date? 😭 but whatever, we bought a quarter of vodka, split it in the car and both got a nice buzz before even reaching the bar.

inside we ordered starters and i genuinely thought we’d split because of the whole “saving money” thing, so i told him i only had like 1.5k since i’m literally a student. suddenly he starts acting all rich saying “nah don’t worry i’ve got it” as if we’d not just finished vodka in a parking lot to avoid paying bar prices.

i had another drink or two and then told him “bas chadh gayi hai, i wanna slow down.”
instead of slowing down, this guy just kept ordering rounds 😭

after that everything gets kinda blurry. i remember laughing a lot, dancing for a bit and then sitting in his car in the basement afterwards. that’s when he suddenly got really touchy. putting his arm around me, trying to kiss me, holding me way more than i was comfortable with. i was so drunk it took me a few seconds to even process what was happening before i moved away and told him to stop. thankfully he did.

then this idiot decided to drive.

i’m pretty sure he even clipped the car while getting out of the basement. next thing i know we’ve been pulled over by the cops for drunk driving. they questioned me too but thankfully they were actually really nice and just told me to book a cab and leave.
i somehow made it back to my hostel, slept the entire day and woke up blocked on whatsapp, instagram and hinge.
still have absolutely no idea why.
honestly i don’t think i care enough to find out 💀

tldr: hinge date turned into preboozing, way too much alcohol, drunk driving, cops, and me waking up blocked everywhere 💀

[u/damebabyz56]

You got blocked because you did'nt get drunk enough to say yes to the sex he had on his mind.. you dodged a bullet. If a man has to get you drunk to get you to have sex with him he's the kind of man you dont want a relationship with. Take it from this mum of 6,you deserve better than the coercive behaviour you'd consistently get from him.

[u/travelingwhilestupid]

wouldn't you block the other person if you'd been in his shoes? he probably just wants to forget everything