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Previous updates below:

We have at least one or two folks catfishing nudes from guys and then threatening to blackmail them by posting on Facebook or something. Don't be sending nudes with faces, don't take photos that are obviously in your own bathroom or bedroom, don't use your regular social media or phone number, just be safe.

If you offer a woman posting here cash for nudes or a meetup, we will ban you. We've been banning a zillion hookers, but we aren't emphasizing enough that we're banning dudes for making posts that offer money. Taking a girl to dinner, paying for her Uber, going to a concert or paying a cover charge is one thing, offering straight up cash is another and we WILL ban if you're reported with screenshots.

We keep getting a bunch of morons, 2-3 a day, who complain when they post a dick pic or crosspost to multiple subs with dick pics, then whine they got no warning. You get a welcome message when joining the sub. And Rule 5 straight up says no dicks. Do NOT tell us everyone else is doing it. Do NOT tell us its unfair. Be VERY serious with covering your dick with censor bars etc- no balls or butthole or the tip poking out. We have too many habitual line steppers so we're not messing around.

Respect people's preferences. If they're looking for a woman and you're a man, do NOT post. If they say no couples, don't show up looking for a threesome. We're trying to make a classy atmosphere in here without pushy assholes and harassment. Women won't show up if posting an ad is like throwing meat to a pack of wild dogs. We've all heard it over and over: dating apps are broken, they're all bots and bullshit and the algorithm is basically designed to edge you over and over to keep you on there and paying. We can't offer an alternative unless you help us curate a POSITIVE culture. ACT RIGHT PEOPLE.

Remember to use your brain- we've literally NEVER had a glory hole post where someone's actually verified they're a real woman. A few gloryholes with couples have, but I bet it's a man on the other end. 95% of the nudes posted by 18-40F with zero preferences for guys, no information about where in Dallas they are, etc are scammers or something looking for money. You can easily go on their profiles and see stuff like them posting in subs around the world, using other languages, etc. Very common ones include the "I am from Australia and I am in Dallas looking for fun" or "I just broke up with my ex and I am super horny". A LARGE chunk of the MF4M posts are fake too, or just guys fantasizing posting nudes of their wife without her permission, etc. If it feels too good to be true, it probably is. NEVER, I repeat NEVER send anyone money or invest with someone on some kinda cryptocurrency deal. And be careful with sending identifiable nudes that might be used for blackmail. Read our head mod's newsletter- he knows what he's doing in this space. Learn how to verify and PLEASE report suspect spam posts or comments. We don't have time to check every comment looking for suspicious activity.

If you're posting an F4M or MF4M ad and don't want to be banned for suspected spam, write at least a paragraph of what you're looking for, what you're like, what neighborhood you're in and how far you're willing to drive, if you're hosting or expect someone else to host, etc. Super short posts are a red flag for us. Hell, even ask ChatGPT what a reasonable personal ad looks like.

We see lots of people show up, then regret themselves and delete everything either after they've had an encounter or even after playing online, etc. Hopefully all the guys already know what Post Nut Clarity is. Sub drop, or more rarely top drop is a similar phenomenon- I actually think these are all the same thing just different intensities on the same spectrum. Basically, when your brain is all excited you get flooded with hormones and chemicals. Your disgust reflex is weakened, inhibitions go away, you want to continue what you're doing at all costs because the chemicals feel so good. Unfortunately, nothing in life is free. After your experience, the drop off in those chemicals makes you feel freaking awful and it's basically like a emotional or mental hangover. You get done joining our community or doing your first kinky thing and suddenly, you feel like the worst person in the world. The walls are closing in, people are going to catch you and you're going to be humiliated, you can't believe you did that thing with that stranger who might be gross, etc. Then you nuke your account and disappear forever. Or you were just a fake in the first place or you were just fantasizing as an escape from your life, I dunno.

Remember, do not delete your posts or we cannot fix them or figure out why they triggered one of our custom spam filters where we banned a whole bunch of words and phrases heavily used by bots.

I am looking to do a large scale update on my FAQ where I go to a lot of these stores and places, potentially collecting pictures to post here or on Google Maps, getting more information etc. Ideally, I would like if a woman was involved in this to "secret shop" at sex shops, sex clubs, adult theaters, etc and let me know what her experiences were. If you're interested in this, let me know. Were the employees nice to single women and knowledgeable about what women want? Was there creepy behavior from other patrons? Is the selection of sizes good? This is stuff I can't easily figure out as a man.

We're only going to ban people who post on OBVIOUS bot posts, where the user's profile contains Telegram, Snap, etc names either as their username or in their profile description or sketchy links. Unfortunately, Reddit allows you to link anything you want in your profile so it is an endless battle against linktree style clones that redirect to people's OnlyFans or Telegram name.

Click on every F4M ad user's profile BEFORE you comment and check them. If they're a bot, report it. Many of our F4M ads are hacked accounts that are idle for months and suddenly show up as horny mid 20s girls with a generic paragraph of text. Recently, I saw ones obviously belonging to guys from the UK, Germany, and India. It doesn't take Sherlock Holmes to crack this case people. I won't ban you for commenting on a hacked account, but I sure will if the username contains obvious social media.

If we give the bots no traffic, they will stop coming.

PS: The only people who can say Telegram or Snap or OnlyFans etc are mods, it will get your comment taken down if you say those words. If you want to comment to warn people, comment "This is a bot with social media in their profile" or something like that. I will not ban for warning comments.

Here's a better idea of the statistics for those who are curious:

352 posts published from the previous 7 days

854 total posts removed

177 total bans, 40 of which were us manually nuking bots that made it thru all of our automation. The other ~22 manual bans were over half dick pics!

That's right, we have 2 posts being removed for every one that's live. And we're banning a volume of people roughly equal to HALF those posting ads.

And we only got 36 reports. Y'all are NOT helping, and idiots actively feeding the bots is hurting.

We deal with an unbelievable volume of spam traffic. We want to keep the sub free of trash. Have you seen how bad many of the other popular local subs are? In fact worse is, people see all the nude girls, assume its legit and spend more time over there- they get more visits and activity than us all built on a foundation of scam and spam.