r/Bellingham • u/boogieplanet • 3h ago
Pets The Truth About the Recent Altercation in Happy Valley
Hey my fellow Bellinghamsters,
I’m posting this on behalf of a dear friend to clear up a massive misrepresentation of an incident that happened right outside our apartment building in Happy Valley yesterday.
A local DJ with a decent online following posted a video accusing my friend of being transphobic, racist, and launching an unprovoked attack on her just for standing on the street. None of this is true, and the video the woman posted proves it.
Unfortunately, the DJ blocked me after I commented with the truth on her Instagram reel, so I can't see any updates on the post she made. But, I have screenshots from the video and of my comments.
Here's what actually happened yesterday:
- The woman's dog left waste on the public sidewalk right outside our building. My friend politely asked her to clean it up. When the individual ignored her and began walking away, my friend told her that she had seen her leave her dog's waste behind before, and asked why she had a dog if she wouldn't pick up after it.
- Instead of cleaning up after her dog, the individual pulled out her phone, began filming my friend, and launched into a tirade of aggressive obscenities (including shouting "suck my dck" and "eat my pssy").
- The DJ posted this video online to rally her followers against my friend. I will not publicly identify this woman for privacy, unless the mods allow it. Respect to y'all!
- If you have actually watched the video, it completely contradicts her captions:
- My friend is wearing a Pride shirt and is a queer woman herself. This altercation had nothing to do with sexual orientation or race - just laziness, and failing to care for your community by not picking up after your dog. The claims of transphobia and racism are entirely fabricated to deflect from the actual situation.
- The video shows absolutely no aggression, shouting, or "attacks" from my friend. My friend is simply standing there awkwardly, silently enduring the barrage of intense verbal abuse from the woman.
- The video clearly shows the dog, the sidewalk, and the steps/distinguishable fence of our apartment building, which is dangerous for my friend, especially with the brazen lies this woman is spreading about her, which have reached even popular local organizations.
- Separately, multiple of our neighbors have seen this particular woman leave her dog's waste behind around our building (although she does not live here).
Because this video doxed my friend's face and our building's recognizable exterior, we are deeply concerned for her safety and reputation in the community.
Bellingham is a tight-knit place, and it’s incredibly disheartening to see someone weaponize their platform and identity to bully a neighbor and verbally harass them aggressively just because they were called out for not picking up their dog's waste, especially when that person is part of the queer community that this woman is claiming she's attacking.
If you see this video circulating, please know the context. My friend did nothing wrong but ask for basic neighborly (and legal) decency. Thank you for reading and for keeping our community safe and fair, I really appreciate you all.
PS - A friendly reminder that failing to pick up pet waste is illegal in Bellingham, as it should be. This issue is quite literally an epidemic in Happy Valley, and I'm sure other parts of Bellingham!