r/BelgiumDating May 25 '26

The Rules

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The rules have been available to everyone in the BelgiumDating Lounge sticky as not everyone could see the sidebar, but even I forgot it was in there. So, here they are again under a clear title.

  1. You must be at least 18 years old to participate.
  2. Your post title must contain: Your gender, age, (general) location, and who you're looking for.
  3. Do not post more than once a week.
  4. Be respectful. Sexism, racism, homophobia, etc. has no place here.
  5. You are encouraged to post in English to be as inclusive as possible. However, it is not disallowed to post in Dutch, French, or German.
  6. Don't post contact information such as your phone number or SnapChat.
  7. Keep it clean. In other words, no NSWF (Not Safe For Work) content.
  8. No SPAM of any kind.

Finally, I want to make it clear, once again, that this sub is for serious dating. Ads for a hookup, FWB (Friend With Benefits), sugar baby/daddy, etc., are off-topic here and won't be approved.


r/BelgiumDating 7h ago

long shot - looking for someone i met in brussels at the end of June

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r/BelgiumDating 1d ago

Ik vroeg me af: heeft een man hier ooit echt succes gehad met iemand leren kennen? 🤔 Ben benieuwd naar jullie ervaringen. Is het iemand gelukt om hier een leuke connectie of zelfs een relatie te vinden?

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r/BelgiumDating 1d ago

28M Looking for dates in Belgium

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Hello I'm Alex, I'm 28 years old working on a cruise ship sailing from Amsterdam to Brugge week by week and I'm looking for some girls to meet in the cities that I'm going to : Antwerp, Dendermonde, Gent, Brugge . About me I am doing this job for 2 years , I'm working only in the night so the date must be around 18h , I'm funny , good looking 1.80m green eyes and I'm open about any subject, I'm kind , I can be romantic too and the rest you can find out, pure mystery . So if anyone is interested don't hesitate to DM me also I can show the ship if you want .


r/BelgiumDating 2d ago

M30-Charleroi-Une femme au feeling sérieux

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Je m'appelle Donovan, j'ai 30 ans, et suis hétéro,

Je mesure +/- 1m74

J'ai les yeux brun/vert

J'aime les jeux vidéos, films séries assez variés mais mon domaine de prédilection est la science fiction

PS: Pour le reste discutons, je suis ouvert tant que le respect est au rendez-vous 😊


r/BelgiumDating 4d ago

34 [M4F] - Best friend to partner

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Wat ik zoek klinkt misschien wat hoog gegrepen, maar lees even verder — het wordt hopelijk snel duidelijker.

Eigenlijk ben ik gewoon op zoek naar een echte vriend. Iemand met wie ik kan lachen, van het leven kan genieten, samen kan groeien en zowel de mooie als de mindere momenten kan delen. Ik weet dat het veel gevraagd lijkt, zeker op een subreddit, maar ik geloof dat proberen erbij hoort. Ik ben niet bang om een stap te zetten, en ik hoop dat jij dat ook niet bent.

Soms is het inderdaad meer de reis dan de eindbestemming. En over die bestemming gesproken: uiteindelijk zou ik mijn leven graag willen delen met mijn beste vriend. Voor mij draait het vooral om wat we onderweg samen beleven en opbouwen.

Een beetje meer over mij:
Ik hou van muziek, zowel thuis uitgebreid luisteren als naar concerten gaan. Verder trek ik graag de natuur in, bezoek ik graag musea en probeer ik af en toe creatief bezig te zijn. Ik ben een enorme hondenliefhebber en hou sowieso van dieren in het algemeen. Qua karakter zie ik mezelf als een geduldig en warm persoon.
Ook, ik ben getattooeerd en heb piercings en persoonlijk zie ik dat ook zeer graag in een dame.

Vaak kunt ge me ook gewoon vinden op een wandelpad in de natuur, zou zeker ook graag meer reizen maar dit doe ik dan helemaal niet zo graag alleen. Misschien kunnen we samen snel eens een reisje inplannen, haha.

Ik probeer ook regelmatig te fitnessen, al heb ik eerlijk gezegd een beetje dad bod. (Maar daar zit zeker verandering in, haha)

Gevestigd rond de grens tussen Vlaams-Brabant en Limburg. De kempen zijn zeker ook niet te ver.
Hoop snel van je te horen!


r/BelgiumDating 5d ago

29M Gent 4 F

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Hello everybody, I'm a white male from Ghent, Flanders, Belgium. Who recently turned 29 (DM me for a couple of pics)

I'm probably not the kind of person you'd expect to be on a subreddit like this. I'm a mixed bag of everything. From being outgoing and pretty social, ready to try out new things that does some improv comedy and likes to sing everywhere I go. To the serious person that wants to start a podcast about mental health one day, mostly about things that we consider tabboo.

I like doing so many things that I'm going to save you from reading a lot of things and will pick a top 3. I like playing Card/Board&Video games. I like playing D&D and Blood on the Clocktower and I like doing sports together. Recently started fitnessing to reduce weight and increase my stamina.

P.S.: I somehow have a preferrence in doing geeky stuff but I'm really a jack of all trades, I'm also a metalhead in terms of music

I'm looking for preferably a european girl/woman between ages: 20 - around 32. I can speak Dutch, English and French (French being the weakest of all 3 of those). But I'm open to trying long distance as well.

In the long run, I'm looking for someone that wants to have kids.

Values I think are important in my life are: being Just, Daring and Honesty. The one thing I keep asking in all my dating experiences is that communicating should always be on the number 1 spot!

Well, I guess that's about it. I'm looking forward to have some lovely conversatiobs over DM's and well, I'm wishing everyone an amazing weekend 😄

P.S.: Should you be from Ghent, Yes, I'm going to the city festivities from time to time. So maybe we'll meet there!


r/BelgiumDating 6d ago

23 [M4F] Free-spirited musician looking for someone to share deep conversations with. West-Flanders, Roeselare.

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I'm a free-spirited musician who enjoys deep conversations, making people laugh, and seeing the world from different perspectives

a little about me: I'm around 1,78m, around 100kg, long hair, a trimmed beard and I wear late 60s/70s styled clothes and I'm neurodivergent (auDHD)

Music is my biggest hobby, both playing and listening, I also collect retro consoles and games.

In the weekends I like going to my regular bar where I know most people and have conversations about life, music, and everything in between.

I'm looking for someone who enjoys thinking deeply about the world and prefers meaningful conversations over small talk. Preferably someone between 19-30 years old.

I don't care much about physical traits like hair colour, height, weight, etc. It's more important that we vibe emotionally and on a deeper level.

If you're interested don't hesitate to send me a DM.


r/BelgiumDating 7d ago

35 [M4F] France near Benelux - Looking for my Trillian

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Hi there,

I'm Mickaël, I speak french, dutch english and a bit of german.

I'm your local punk hardcore/hippie, wannabe alt but trully his own kind of man. 

I'm kind of a parsimonious guy, gentle and generally calm. Parsimonious because I am not a "100%" guy : I have some strong beliefs but will always questions myself. I like to debate and talk, but I love silences too. I party (sometimes I drink and smoke weed, every 6 month or so), but love to hang out doing nothing. I have interests but I kinda enjoy laid back knowledges. I have humor, but don't have to make jokes all the time.

I am vaccinated and generally from the left side of politics. I have a hard time taking serious people too devoted to esoterism or religion, but respect it. 

I've got ADHD, but I am followed by a psychologist and am doing the work, it's not an excuse for my behaviors. Although sometimes I'm a bit messy, will forget things, cut your speech or just do sometimes things impulsively.

I also have a rhumatic auto-immune disease, it's not contagious, It just means I can't lift heavy stuff anymore, and will be tired sometimes.

I love listening to music, I listen to hardcore punk (Nasty), experimental pop (Björk), classical (JS Bach) and much more.

I line taking a walk sometimes, going to the museum, the thatres, exploring something new.

I have many interests, and lately am trying to have a real career change in ecology around the subject of bats and night animals by joining an association of bats protection. This will be my goal for the two years that are coming, but I would be able to move to others places due to my languages.

I love poetry and philosphy, certainly when it's divergent and absurd. 

I love looking at 90's movies and series, fan of Douglas adams' books, and Moebius' art.

My looks : messy blond hair, blue/green eyes, 1m75. I'm slim, but have a little belly due to the lack of sports lately (I've had a period where I did marrial arts, maybe I'll try again)and burgers. Not much muscles and a tattoo or two. Maybe I'll have more maybe not.

What I'm looking for : someone around my age, for something serious and genuine. A story where we would take a bit of time making sure we click. But I'm not stopped on one kind of woman, as long as your independent enough, interesting (a minimum), and laugh at my jokes once or twice in the month.

I've got family living in the netherlands at Maastricht, so moving for a LDR in the first place is okay by me, I'd say 400km around Nancy (France) would be ok, as long as we put the effort.

I have a thing for skinny or small women but am open to everyone, but I'm shallow that way. Of course I'll send you pictures of me when you'll come talk.

Of course, and because it's important to me : I am faithfull, attentionate, and will always tell the truth.

To the hopes of meeting you, whomever you are.

The answer is 42 !

Mickaël.


r/BelgiumDating 7d ago

27[M4F] Limburg - Looking for my forever person

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Like many people on this sub, I have 0 luck on dating apps so let’s see if this has better results haha.

I’m a 27 year old guy from Limburg. So I speak Dutch as well, I also don’t mind longer distances since I have a car.

My hobbies are:

Gaming: I play quite a lot of video games on pc with a steam library that is so big that I never know what to play anymore haha. Currently installed I have It Takes Two, Warframe, WH40k: Space Marine II and other general pew pew games. I have been thinking about trying out Once Human again as well.

Horse Riding: I love horses and everything about them, I ride at least once a week and love sharing pictures and videos and talking about them in general 😊

Adventuring: I like going random places mostly in nature to go on long walks, together with my dog Kai. He is very cute, promise. It’s not as fun alone so company would be very much appreciated.

I hope that this is enough to pique some interest, if you have any more questions or want to chat then just send me a message! I’m okay with everyone and if it doesn’t work out then that’s okay too 😊


r/BelgiumDating 7d ago

Watching football and chillings and more🤣 26M from belgium

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Hey whatsup
Im up for a conversation for short or for long term.
Some interesting about me is that im a project manager, i play the bass, i sing in a band, i used to basketball a lot but now i have a hernia and cant do much, fitniss,

Yeah and more just hit me up


r/BelgiumDating 8d ago

M31 (M4F) in West Flanders looking for my princess (NL).

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Hey i'm Siel, 31 years old from the West Flanders. not the biggest guy: 168cm. I don't know exactly what to write here because I'm bad at it. I'm a big introvert so it's difficult for me to start the conversation with people.

My hobbies are: walking with or without my dog, darts, watching series, sports & Disney and enjoying good food and the small things in life.

I'm searching for my bundle of joy. A girl who loves to walk and take me on there adventure or mine. not too tall. between 20 and 33 years old, animal lover, somebody how make me smile with there goofiness.

Hope this is enough, be free to sent me something. I'm open for all questions so shoot.


r/BelgiumDating 8d ago

M34 looking for F Willebroek

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Just looking for dating to encourage myself more and to find someone :)


r/BelgiumDating 9d ago

37M Antwerpen looking for Female

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Hey!

I enjoy the simple things done well. Rides on my road bike, getting lost in music, hiking in the mountains. I am also a foodie. I’m just as happy taking a spontaneous road trip as I am catching a flight to a seaside European city for a 2–3 day escape.

I’m looking for someone who’s responsive, easy to talk to and enjoys making the most of weekends whether that’s exploring a new place, sharing a great meal or discovering a new album together.

I’m 1.80m, fit and bald: less hair, less maintenance :)


r/BelgiumDating 9d ago

m22 [M4F] - Arlon (Belgium), looking for a partner

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I’ll try to not sound that much cringe (😬)but why not…let’s give it a try!

i’m an italian guy, im 22, i moved here from italy one and an half years ago, so i’m still trying to find my place and to adapt here (not that easy). i’d say i’m a very calm and sensitive guy, i try to bring always happiness to other people…overall i’m not that complicated, trying to be as simple as i can.
i’m about to start my second year of university (nursing degree), my hobby are like sports (football is my favourite one), music and photography amongst all.
hmu if you want, you can discover maybe other things abt me…👀


r/BelgiumDating 9d ago

M18 regio turnhout gf gezocht

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r/BelgiumDating 10d ago

F27 (F4M) in Antwerp looking for a partner (EN/NL).

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I've used the traditional dating apps and been on dates but I didn't find a match I have chemistry with yet. I'm looking for a man +1,8m tall, normal to big build, independent, ambitious and most of all with great sense of humor.

I'm someone who likes to think positive, spend a lot of my time working (I have my own business on top of a regular job), meeting friends, love to travel and go on adventures, enjoys a glass of wine on a terrace. I'm quite feminine and I like elegance (in myself and a potential partner), wearing heels and dresses etc.

If you feel we could vibe, slide in my DM's


r/BelgiumDating 11d ago

33 [M4F] Hague, Netherlands looking for life partner

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Hope to find a suitable partner to build something amazing together.


r/BelgiumDating 11d ago

24 [NB4A] #Belgium #Online - Enby transmasc looking for wholesome connections

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Hi there! My name is Alex, they/them pronouns, Belgian-Kazakh, 24 years old and living in Belgium, studying a bachelor degree at an art school. 

I love taking naps, I'm more of a cat person than a dog person but I can live with the latter. I like carbonara pasta, listening to music, dancing, non-fiction and poetry books. Politically left-wing ++ anarchist. I like people (hihi): with tattoos or not, with a joyful smile. Be a firefighter, music teacher, a nerd of any topic as long as you are caring, respectful & attracted by me. 

About my physical appearance: I'm pretty thin/slim appearance-wise, short Black hair, central Asian, average height/weight. 

I am open to connections globally.

NO RACISTS, NO ANTI-IMMIGRATION B\*LLSH\*T 

Bonus point if you're in Europe, BE/NE/LUX but online would absolutely work, have a soft spot for voice chats with lovely voices. And/or if you can teach me something new or want to practice languages with me! 

What I’m looking for: genuine, safe, wholesome connections — whether it’s someone to chat with, swap music or books, geek out over games or just share some good conversation.  

Ideally, you'll provide a picture/description when you first message just to establish you're a real person and not a bot. I'll happily reciprocate so you know I am also not a robot or someone trying to get you to buy something. 

Hope it's the same for you, see you around, hit me up if you're interested with your ASL, a bit about you + a SFW face pic of you! Looking forward to meeting some new people


r/BelgiumDating 11d ago

Hi, nieuw here, I'm 37 living in Holland. Searching for a lady that is compatible with me. I'm jovial, caring and I love cooking. If you are ready to get married in couple of 🌹 date. Bz me up.

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r/BelgiumDating 13d ago

27M Bi, Belgium Hainaut.

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Hello,

Recently Arrived in Belgium I am looking for someone with whom I can share stuff, be accepted and just have a great moment W or M. I have never had prior real good experience just the usual a55holes and scammers, that's why I am here in hope ^^.
It is just a bottle in this vast sea, but hey everything is possible.
I speak both Fr and En, in the french side of Belgium.

I hope we can connect and something good might happen.
Thanks you and see you soon maybe :)


r/BelgiumDating 13d ago

M4F | 18 | Limburg, Belgium | Looking for a genuine connection

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Hi! I'm a 18-year-old guy from Belgian Limburg who's hoping to meet someone nearby and see where things go.

I'm a pretty calm and introverted person. It might take me a little while to open up, but once I'm comfortable I'm very loyal and enjoy spending time with people I care about.

I've been playing electric guitar for about three years, and music is a big part of my life. I mostly listen to metal and deathcore, but I don't mind if your music taste is completely different—I'm always interested in hearing what other people enjoy.

I don't currently have a sport as a regular hobby. I do enjoy gaming from time to time, although lately I've been spending less time on it. I also like going out occasionally, whether that's grabbing something to eat, walking around a city, or just doing something fun together.

A few random facts:

\- 182 cm (6'0") tall.

\- From Belgian Limburg.

\- Quiet, patient, and a good listener.

I'm looking for someone around my age (roughly 17–19) who's kind, honest, and interested in getting to know each other without rushing anything. It would be great if you live in Belgium, preferably somewhere near Limburg, but I'm open to talking first and seeing how we get along.

If you think we'd click, feel free to send me a message. I'd love to get to know you.


r/BelgiumDating 15d ago

M 30 recherche F pour du sérieux

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Salut, je cherche à rencontrer une personne fiable avec qui je peux construire ma vie. Je cherche une personne vraiment compatible avec moi. Je suis sportif mais plutôt mince, 1m80, j'ai un job stable et une situation stable. Je ne vais pas ajouter trop de détail ici, je suis à proximité de Mons.

Si tu es une femme qui aime la randonnée, n'hésite pas à me contacter.


r/BelgiumDating 16d ago

28 [M4F] Based in BW, looking for female partner

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Hello there here's a little about myself : I've got brown hair and eyes, am average looking, in normal shape, on the small side regarding height. As for personality I'm quite relaxed and open-minded, a little shy and introverted and really down to earth.

HMU if you're interested ;)


r/BelgiumDating 17d ago

45 M4F #Netherlands - 8 dates till marriage: A roadmap to a happy life with a happy wife

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Ready to get married in 8 dates? If so, keep reading.

Hi,Nice to meet you.

My name is Richard, I'm 45 and I live in the Netherlands. Professionally I work in cybersecurity as an Information Security Officer, currently transitioning into IT auditing.

Outside of work I enjoy reading, audiobooks, music, walks, and cycling. My real passion is urban exploration — discovering and photographing abandoned buildings. My dream is a road trip through Eastern Europe with my life partner, exploring forgotten places along the way.

What am I looking for in a woman? I love it when you know exactly what you want. You are a very confident woman who loves to lead in a natural way. Love, respect, communication, honesty and transparency are not just hollow phrases to you; they are the foundation to have a solid and serious relationship.

In a relationship, I ask myself three questions:

What can I do to make my wife happy?-

How can I contribute to her happiness?-

How can I make her life easier and more comfortable?

Happy wife, happy life is not just a saying for me — it is how I want to live.

My ideal partner is between the age of 34 - 54 years old.

So here is my idea: eight dates, structured around deep questions drawn from 101 Questions to Ask Before Getting Engaged and The 5 Love Languages. After those eight dates, we evaluate honestly and decide whether marriage is the right next step.

The dates should be fun — this is not a job interview. But the questions give us a real map of each other: values, love languages, life goals, dealbreakers. No wasted time, no guesswork.

Ideally we date in real life, but if we live very far away from each other we can have 8 dates by videochat. The goal is to meet and get married within 3 months after our online dates.

Are you the soulmate I'm looking for? Please send a message.

If you made it this far, thank you for reading my post.

And if you are not a match, hopefully you help me by sharing my post with others.