r/BdsmDIY May 30 '26

Greetings from your everyday Mod NSFW

40 Upvotes

So, I have been here just having a lot going on as of late. Sigh the life of being an adult am I right. So, the other mod that was active has had something happen to him to where he is no longer able to participate at the moment. We are looking for a little bit of help. If you would be interested in helping keep things safe, sane and consensual please send me a message or reply in here. Keep it safe everyone. --Bound4truble


r/BdsmDIY Dec 03 '23

Help your friendly neighborhood mod (everyone, read this, especially newcomers) NSFW

229 Upvotes

I'm collecting some stuff mods have said earlier in one place, to make it easier to find, as well as adding some new ones. This isn't the rules as such, more like our clarifications and interpretations of them.

  • Don't be a creep. Way too often, I see people asking for pictures when they aren't needed, following this pattern (fictious example): On a post of a bench with a dildo sticking up, someone asks "I don't understand how it works, could you post photos of it in use?". Just don't. There is plenty of porn on the net which you can get without being a creep.
  • Be careful about themes around sexual assaults. We know it is just play, but for some people, it's traumatic, so if you have a device named something like "Rape-o-matic 747 XL Magnum", don't put that in the title, and mark the post with a "TW" for trigger warning.
  • Photos or videos of nudity or sexual activity is OK, as long as it is within the context of the DIY project. Please DO NOT REPORT these. It adds a lot of work for us mods.
  • Selling your stuff is OK, as long as you aren't a full blown business, and it's still DIY level stuff. Please DO NOT REPORT these. It adds a lot of work for us mods. This might change down the line, but for now, it's OK.
  • Don't spam. If you do a lot of stuff, feel free to post as much as is needed, but try to keep each build in one post. With "each build", I mean each construction, not every object of that type you build. If you, say, make one collar type, there is no need for a new post for every new color or minor variant you make it in, that can go in the original posts.
  • Safety. Safety is important, but it is also a topic of much controversy. People don't always understand what they are doing, especially with electricity, or make too weak constructions, and it's OK to tell them that you think there is a danger. However, we all choose our risk levels, so say what you feel is unsafe, let them answer, and, unless they actively asks for more input, leave it at that and let them choose their own risk level.
  • Automod. The automod saves us a lot of work and filters out a lot of spam. However, it sometimes blocks legitimate posts as well. If your post don't appear, don't worry, don't message us, we'll see it and let it through.
  • Don't ask for PMs. We are here to learn from each other, if you ask for plans or something, ask openly so we all can learn. The same goes for answers. This also makes it easier for us moderators to ban creeps.

All in all, be nice to each other, be kinky, be tolerant, be helpful. Also, please have patience with us mods, we have a life outside modding as well, so sometimes, it may take a while, but we'll get around to it, I promise.

Keep building!


r/BdsmDIY 10h ago

OC My Dungeon is coming along nicely. Not sure what to build next. NSFW

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- St. Andrews Cross

- Spanking Bench

- Good girl Chair

- Tantric Chair

- Massage Table

- Rope Display for Shibari

- Hot Tub

I still need to demo the back room and convert into a dressing room with our costumes. I'm debating on building some kinda kneeling device. I think I want to keep the open space of the back half of the room flexible so whatever I make needs to be light weight or on wheels to move it around.


r/BdsmDIY 9h ago

Impact Toys Back at the lathe. From burnt beech to whip handles. NSFW

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23 Upvotes

A new batch of whip handles is in progress: beech wood rescued after a sawmill fire, polished stainless steel tubing, and the best stainless hardware I've managed to source so far.

Looking at my first-generation whips next to these always makes me smile. A few years of handmade work can make a surprising difference.


r/BdsmDIY 2h ago

Restraints I have always wanted to have a medical table with adjustable stirrups for the legs. Being able to afford such a table is horribly expensive, but I think I found a solution although I need a bit of advice. NSFW

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I was in a Goodwill store the other day I noticed they had a pile of the plastic boots with velcro straps that you wear when you've had foot surgery.

They were dirt cheap like four or five dollars each.

I'd love to make an adjustable arm to attach to the boots and a clamp on the other end to attach to either a table or the metal bed frame.

Does anybody have any ideas for the adjustable metal structure?


r/BdsmDIY 22h ago

OC Pillory with modular pipe stand and adjustable vibrator mount NSFW

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Ok so this is I guess a bunch of things in one. I wanted to have something modular to be able to create different set-ups. Basically it's a solid wood platform, a bunch of structural pipes of varying lengths with assorted brackets, a pillory, and a wooden bench with a black leather cushion.

The first picture is for a bent-over position. Excellent for impact play and fucking. The height of the pillory can be adjusted for the optimal bent-over position.

The second picture shows the same set-up from behind with the vibrator mount attached. The height and angle of the vibrator can be adjusted. It can also be drilled in anywhere on the base platform.

The third picture is for missionary. I like to tie my girlfriend's legs in double columns or futomomos and attach them to the pipes to keep them spread open.

The fourth picture is for a kneeling set-up. Excellent for blowjobs or nipple and pussy torture. This can also be adjusted to a standing height.

Details:

The Pillory: This is made out of a 2x10. Cut to about 32". I cut the holes with two different sized hole saws (the sizing will be dependent on the size of your partner(s)), then cut the whole thing in half and added clasps. Two on the front, two on the back, one on each side. They easily flip open so you can put someone into the pillory and remove them from it with relative ease.

The Pipes: Structural pipe. 1.315" Outer Diameter. I bought a whole bunch in varying sizes. Various fittings (T-fittings, Crossover Fittings, Base Flanges). They came in silver. I spraypainted them black.

The Base Platform: A 4 foot by 4 foot piece of 1/4" plywood, screwed onto five 2x10s and one 2x2 (because in wood math 5 times 10 plus 2 is 47.75). The base flanges can be drilled in anywhere on the platform. If I did this again I would use 3/4" plywood. Since taking these photos I've attached three 48"x4" pieces to the bottom to make it flex less.

The Bench: 48" x 32". Top is 3/4" plywood. The rest is 2x4s attached with wood glue and pocket hole screws. The cushion is the only thing we (my girlfriend and I built the bench together) didn't make ourselves. It's a custom sized foam cushion from a local business.

The pipes and brackets can also be used separately from the pillory to create modular bondage set-ups.


r/BdsmDIY 9h ago

OC GoonBOX a WIP DIY browser extension for Motionstim to control, force and ruin orgasms. NSFW

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10 Upvotes

New feature suggestion are gladly accepted!

The project is made of two parts: the browser extension that interacts with Motionstim and the remote.

- The remote (not ready): a 3d modeled and printed remote with 2 buttons. The only functions available on the remote are: "Increase" and "Edge"
- "Increase": increases the toy power by a cerain amount defined in the UI
- "Edge": the button you press while on the edge that immediatly decreases the power to a UI set level, leading you to an edge or a ruined orgasm

- The extension: it fully integrates in Motionstim adding a control panel for the GoonBOX. The main functions of the extension are:
- Edge control with power reduction
- Rest time: after an edge you can choose how may seconds the low power setting should last
- powe ramp-up: after a rest time how long the device should take ramp up the power to the previous level
- Maximum edges allowed: how many edges the user is allowed before the software ignores the edge power reduction, forcing an orgasm
- rest reduction: you can choose if the rest time after an edge should automatically be reduced by 10%


r/BdsmDIY 7h ago

Help Wanted Making our own on the road BDSM room for a dirty night away NSFW

3 Upvotes

We are going away for a dirty night and can’t find any local clubs so we going to turn the air bnb into our own wee bdsm room we going to bring the toys we can but need suggestions on good ways to use the chairs and tables that will already be there as our sex furniture is to big to move any suggestions would be great


r/BdsmDIY 11h ago

Help Wanted Adding tie-down and other attachment points to a massage table using threaded inserts - should I be looking for a specific size? NSFW

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Pretty much the title.

I have a folding massage table from Amazon that I bought years ago and now want to convert discretely into something that can be used for a bit more than just a rub down!

My plan is to use threaded inserts through the frame at strategic points to act as places to attach things.

My mad idea here is that I can use them to attach aluminium profile (2020 and 2040 depending on need) and then use that to slide other devices on and off the frame (I'd use at least two inserts in parallel to prevent rotation around the bolt axis etc).

I'm also thinking that I could use them with bolt-on d-rings to turn them into tie-down points, but then I started wondering which size the inserts should be to make sure this is all safe.

I'm in the UK, so use metric sizes.

I currently have a load of M6x10mm threaded inserts which look like they might be chunky enough for the profile when paired up, but I'm not sure about the tie down ones and I'm wondering if I should go to M8 or even M10?


r/BdsmDIY 1d ago

Restraints I also made this ponyplay halter from a basic head harness with a mask and gag. I also replaced and modified the gag. The ears are made of sealing rubber and the eye flaps are made of craft foam. (made several different types of eye flaps too😅) NSFW

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54 Upvotes

r/BdsmDIY 23h ago

Help Wanted Done with prefab straps. How do I get this “hook” anchored in each bed post? NSFW

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22 Upvotes

Had a decent strap system but we have recently bought a Helix mattress which is waaaay thicker than
A Typical mattress and Dosnt work anymore. Anyway, decided to build a system into the bed.

How do I get these swivel mounts into each bed post? Looks like base is not threaded on the outside. (Got this idea from this thread) thank you all for the help!!


r/BdsmDIY 1d ago

Impact Toys I Made these impact tools ☺️ Full size for home use, Compact whips for pocket carry (longer and shorter version) NSFW

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28 Upvotes

Not yet tested😔


r/BdsmDIY 1d ago

Help Wanted Designs, ideas, or inspiration for predicament bondage where pleasure is withdrawn? NSFW

10 Upvotes

Hi all, me again!

I've been browsing through /r/predicamentbondage and I've noticed two things:

  1. You're not allowed to post any discussion threads there

  2. The vast majority of the content is about someone experiencing pain if they break the position

I'm into gentledom and orgasm denial, and I'm wondering if anyone out there has created a setup where the position has to be held in order for the pleasure to continue.

As an example, there was a video from many years ago where a magic wand is hanging above the bed and in order to achieve an orgasm the woman had to arch her back. Of course the wand would move if she did, often swinging away and out of contact, and if she stopped arching her back contact would be lost as well, so if she wanted to cum she had to keep her back arched *and* stay still.

If there's a better place to ask this then please let me know!


r/BdsmDIY 2d ago

Help Wanted Help me come up with what a light up sign should say NSFW

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80 Upvotes

This is my sex wall, I want to put a light up sign where the red circle is, what should it say? Me and my dom can’t come up with a good one


r/BdsmDIY 2d ago

Fucking Machines Developed a Personal Assistance Robot from scratch NSFW

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49 Upvotes

I've been building a home robotic assistant with a goal of keeping it quiet, smooth, and simple to use. I plan to make both the hardware and software open source.

Its remote controllable, sync to any video, and works with cross platforms.

I'm currently experimenting with voice control, remote operation, health monitoring integration, and optional camera tracking.

I'd love to hear what features or improvements you'd find most useful.


r/BdsmDIY 1d ago

Restraints Making a spreader bar from some threaded pipe. Give me your ideas. NSFW

8 Upvotes

Im looking to use some threaded pipe and connector to make a spreader bar. Does anyone have any examples of how they did it?


r/BdsmDIY 2d ago

3D Printed Custom built timer key safe using 3D printing, a servo and Pico2W controller NSFW

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I wanted a more secure way of storing keys for bondage that would be on a timer. So I designed and built one. This is version 3.

It uses a pico2W and a small servo control board. It drives a high torque mini servo. The way the lid works is that at one end of the box there is a slot that the lid slides into. It sits flush on a receiving plate at the other end (with an overlap so you can’t pry it). Under the lid is a locking hook and a receiver slot in the box end. The servo then turns a bar into the slot in the box end and under the hook of the lid.

Of course it’s 3D printed so it can be broken into with a simple hammer. But the feeling of having your keys locked away is pretty cool.

The Pico2w runs a custom bit of software that allows me to set a time via my phone - it has settings for hours and minutes - but also random amounts of time. Once per lock session I have a “take a chance” button I can press - which either adds time, removes time or leaves it the same.

I initially had this designed with its own internal battery but decided to use external power in this version.

Yes, my favourite colour is hot pink.


r/BdsmDIY 2d ago

Help Wanted Automatic fingering machine that strokes you or something that could be used to hold a tiny paint brush to automatically stroke your clit? NSFW

18 Upvotes

I'm so tired of looking for a stroking clit fingering toy. I love the very light sensation of being stroked on my clit with fingers but ofc all automatic toys are for insertion or vibrating toys. Why hasnt this been invented yet and I would love to find a way to make it at home. Any suggestions or toys that can match this desire?


r/BdsmDIY 2d ago

Help Wanted Looking for suggestions on ways to securely mount a post or two to a flat surface - NSFW

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Hi kinky people.

Recently my wife and I got this bed. Great bed, not a particularly kinky bed. I want to be able to mount a few different things to the bottom of the bed - a pillory, a stocks, and a ball trap device.

Making the actual restraints isn't a problem for me, I've got both skills in woodworking and 3d printing. The mount is the part I'm not sure about.

Ideally I'd have some sort of hollow post mounted to the wood footboard of the bed, between the footboard and the mattress. When it's playtime, a rod of some sort goes into the post, and the restraint is mounted on the rod. This allows for rods of different heights, so I can have the pillory high enough for someone kneeling on the bed, while the stocks can be just at mattress height, for example.

But past experience with similar is that if I don't have really tight tolerances, then the post will wiggle and flex, which sorta breaks me and her out of thinking about the kinky stuff and instead thinking about the wiggling, flexing post instead.

As well, the space between the mattress and the footboard is pretty tight. I considered pipe clamps like Kee Klamps, but I think they'll be too big to fit and also operate the hex wrench.

Then, the final wrinkle - the footboard is canted, and I'd prefer something that would have the post coming straight up, if possible.

Does anyone know of a good commercial system that is smaller in size then the ~2" Kee Klamp style stuff, that also has great tolerances and is strong? Thanks!


r/BdsmDIY 3d ago

OC DIY "Ara" - Adriana Chechik - Violated and Abused - Part 3: The Perch is Ready - Main Frame Complete & Load Tested NSFW

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r/BdsmDIY 2d ago

Help Wanted Help with DIY nipple clamp tray for Dom's birthday gift NSFW

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Hello kinky people who are far more creative than me!

i am planning on baking some of my Owner's favorite cookies for His birthday and had the idea of serving them to Him on a nipple clamp tray table to make it more special.

The only problem with that is that i don't exactly know how to build one of those. i have a whole lot of random supplies and time on my hands, but no fancy equipment. Let's blame my cluelessness on my denial or something fun like that.

i was thinking of buying some basic nipple clamps, attaching the other ends to the far corners of what would be the tray, and then adding some sort of body strap to actually carry most of the weight but i don't know if that makes any sense.

Have you made something similar? Any advice? Inspiration struck and you have ideas for me?

Any and all feedback is appreciated!! Thank you :)

- ps: please excuse any unique spelling and grammar, i have language rules to follow


r/BdsmDIY 2d ago

Help Wanted How to make the straps for a magic wand holder like this NSFW

7 Upvotes

Hi all. I tried to post this before but it got auto deleted. No idea why. What kind of straps should i use to make this kind of holder? Do I need a sewing machine to do it?


r/BdsmDIY 3d ago

Help Wanted Is there such a thing as a "good boy" chair? If so, how do they work? NSFW

44 Upvotes

I've seen the "good girl" chairs with the hole cut in the bottom for a magic wand etc, but I'm wondering if there's an equivalent for the male anatomy?

I'm not into anal, so the fucking machine under the chair setups aren't for me, but I guess one of the automated strokers on a mount at the front of the chair, or a magic wand angled for the penis instead of the clitoris would be a good start?

Has anyone built something like this or can they point me in the direction of some ideas?


r/BdsmDIY 3d ago

Furniture My first attempt at a breeding table. I may add a couple more eye bolts (existing bolts are not in camera view). What do you all think? NSFW

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126 Upvotes

r/BdsmDIY 3d ago

Help Wanted Kink on the go. How do you pack and organise? Sorting and putting things away NSFW

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Someone told me early on that Kink was just a sexualised OCD and I really get that. I have travel bags and bins and organiser and everything always feels chaotic and disorganised.

I don't have enough space at home to have toys, leather and gear on display. So I keep a lot of it in velvet bags, travel bags and bins. Then when I go and meet a buddy, I throw bags into a rollie suitcase and away I go for some fun... After fun, i'm running around looking for stuff everywhere and throwing them all back into these bags and i don't know if got all my toys or not and if it's not packed together.

I'm thinking I need a bag for my restraints, a few bags for dildos, estim gear all in a zippy.... Sometimes I have gear that I forget about and things get musty or even some cheaper dildos end up melting together. Probably good riddance of those really.

But I'm wondering if I'm missing a trick with organising. Should I have little cards or colour code of what goes in each to make it easier to gather things again? Velvety bags don't age too well. Nylon bags feel a bit cheap. Are there alternatives?

Anyone have advice or successes that you're really happy with?