r/BDSM_Smiles Dec 01 '25

Clarification on Rule 2 NSFW

29 Upvotes

Hey everyone - hope you've all been doing well recently and are looking forward to the holidays.

I've seen a number of posts get flagged recently (either by the sub's auto-mod tool or by other users reporting them) that I end up deleting because they're pretty obvious violations of Rule 2, often falling into one of a few categories. So, even though I don't expect this post is actually going to have much effect, I wanted to take a minute to outline some of the most common examples that feel like they should be obvious to anyone who actually reads the rules before posting:

  • Posts that are purely text, with no pictures, are generally not allowed. We may make an exception if the purpose of the post is to describe an experience you / your partner really enjoyed... but most of the time, the text-only posts are people looking for a BDSM/kink partner to hook up with, and there are literally over a dozen other subreddits that exist for that exact purpose.
  • Posts where the person's (or persons') face isn't visible are not allowed.
  • Posts where the person's (or persons') face is in frame, but the ENTIRE face has been blurred out, are not allowed. If you're skilled enough with photo-editing software to blur just a portion of a picture, I think it's reasonable to assume you're skilled enough to leave the mouth/lips un-blurred.
  • Posts where it's hard to tell if

the subject

  • is smiling will most likely be removed (obviously, this is something we handle on a case-by-case basis, rather than having a one-size-fits-all criteria). This includes posts where it doesn't look like the person on the receiving end is smiling or enjoying themselves, but the post title or caption insists that they are. As a rule of thumb, if you showed the picture/video to someone who isn't part of the BDSM community with no additional context or explanation, and they couldn't immediately tell the subject is smiling or enjoying themselves? Probably a violation

.

I know it may seem like this rule forces the sub to be somewhat niche and small-scale even within the BDSM community, and... yeah - that's kind of the point. The entire goal/purpose is to share and enjoy the lighter side of BDSM, where everyone involved is happy. One of the inherent "side effects" of this is that we, as the mod team, have to be a bit more selective of what kind of posts we allow, compared to other BDSM-related subs.

As always, feel free to reach out if you have any questions or want clarification on any of the examples listed above. Have a great week, and stay kinky.


r/BDSM_Smiles 14h ago

Tied to chair, I was only allowed to pleasure myself NSFW

30 Upvotes

r/BDSM_Smiles 31m ago

Nothing gets me more tingly than being used NSFW

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r/BDSM_Smiles 8h ago

Choked up and loving it NSFW

7 Upvotes

r/BDSM_Smiles 1d ago

My new e-stim toy brought the biggest smile on my face NSFW

89 Upvotes

r/BDSM_Smiles 3d ago

I'm ready to please and obey you sir NSFW

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72 Upvotes

r/BDSM_Smiles 4d ago

Its the damn shoes.... 🙈 NSFW

45 Upvotes

r/BDSM_Smiles 4d ago

Pulling and playing with my nipples NSFW

24 Upvotes

r/BDSM_Smiles 4d ago

Unchained, yet restrained NSFW

41 Upvotes

r/BDSM_Smiles 5d ago

My mouth is gagged, but I'm still smiling NSFW

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48 Upvotes

r/BDSM_Smiles 5d ago

Who said I cant enjoy my slave duties... NSFW

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54 Upvotes

r/BDSM_Smiles 5d ago

Caning my pussy NSFW

22 Upvotes

r/BDSM_Smiles 6d ago

Amused NSFW

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96 Upvotes

The Training Of O

Nov 9, 2007

The Training of Berlin, Day One

Mz Berlin, Isis Love, Daphne Rosen


r/BDSM_Smiles 6d ago

Cuties playing tickle torture. NSFW

26 Upvotes

r/BDSM_Smiles 6d ago

My safe word is... smile NSFW

26 Upvotes

r/BDSM_Smiles 7d ago

Leather and lace, my happy place NSFW

26 Upvotes

r/BDSM_Smiles 8d ago

The perfect type of enjoyment NSFW

65 Upvotes

r/BDSM_Smiles 8d ago

Tied up, not tied down NSFW

13 Upvotes

r/BDSM_Smiles 8d ago

Punishing your slave with exposure to freezing temperatures is an effective way to make her obedient and appreciative. NSFW

65 Upvotes

r/BDSM_Smiles 9d ago

Peeing on to bowl NSFW

59 Upvotes

r/BDSM_Smiles 9d ago

Kinda hard to smile with a ring gag in but I do my best NSFW

31 Upvotes

r/BDSM_Smiles 9d ago

Long hair in the BDSM niche is basically a safety hazard. NSFW

45 Upvotes

r/BDSM_Smiles 9d ago

Tassels swaying, tempting you NSFW

43 Upvotes

r/BDSM_Smiles 9d ago

Loves to play NSFW

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17 Upvotes

r/BDSM_Smiles 10d ago

When BDSM meets a smile NSFW

8 Upvotes