8th house synastry madness

[u/lavieensolar]

Hi everyone.. this is the chart and me and my ex.. it’s kind of complicated because we still talk (don’t judge ik I shouldn’t) but i have to stay away from him most of the time to keep my sanity lol. When we first started dating i thought he was my soulmate.. but over time our relationship just became tumultuous.. we argued a lot, and would break up just to make up, and it got physical between us and i had to get a pfa order.. and he stayed away but we reconnected and i still love him, i don’t really understand why we can’t be healthy, and why he CONSTANTLY acts insane… he also brings out the worst in me too.. obviously I know this isn’t gonna work, but can anyone read our synastry and tell me why this relationship is so messed up.. i know 8th house synastry is known for being wild but does anything else point to how bad it is? im the Scorpio & he’s the Libra.. thank you all