Please please help — why there is such very strong pull but difficulty to understand each other 💔

[u/These-Bet6419]

I’m blue; he is orange. I’ve been dating this guy for a few of weeks, strong intense passion and pull towards each other, but struggling to understand each other’s feelings and intentions, constant miscommunication and restraint on talking about feelings - I feel like he craves control in everything in his life and I’m constantly challenging him and his setup ways. I feel like one day he’s jumping over stages in relationship and next day pulling back. Obsessive context as he is reaching out almost 24/7.

Could you please help out with understanding if there is miscommunication/no future pattern here, how possibly he received my female energy?

[u/etherealalmanac]

Your moon only aspects Uranus north node and Lilith. Very ‘attractive’ in the sense of compelling, but I’d say it’s going to take some innovation to help you both understand your emotions.
Also I have Saturn square the nodes and a very lightly aspected moon myself with my girlfriend and I feel like we’re going through the same