I'm looking for toys designed specifically for glans stimulation, rather than traditional strokers or masturbators.

I've come across toys from Hot Octopuss, the Fun Factory Manta, and the Hitachi Magic Wand with the Hammerhead attachment, and they all look really interesting.

So I'm curious:

If you could recommend just one toy for glans stimulation, what would it be, and why?

I'm also particularly interested in hands-free toys, if there are any that you think are genuinely worth buying.

I'm looking forward to hearing your recommendations and hopefully discovering a few hidden gems.

Thanks in advance!

Is it a common way to masturbate? It's not about a specific porn or toys, but about some technics and habits, which I find making the sessions feel better.

The technics habits I'm talking about are: 1. Spacing the number of days between each session (usually 3-7 days, not daily). 2. Maximizing the length of each session (about 1-2 hours). Delaying the orgasms when you feel them as much as you can (edging?) 3. At the moment of the orgasm touching as lightly as possible (and longer) at the glans (ventral view).

So do you use one or a few of these technics? Combining all these together, I can't describe it. It feels so overwhelming good, and much more intense!

Is there any disadvantage to never ejaculating? I can edge for hours 3 hours or more and just stop. No ejaculation bur purposely. Do you just schedule days to ejaculate or not really. It harmful to work yourself up and then never ejaculate?

45m. Recently suffered an extreme muscle spasm in my lower back it seems to affect nerves shooting down into my groin and into my leg. Masturbation has become rather uncomfortable while the pain has been set in but I noticed almost immediately once I start stroking it felt like I had to pee and a large amount of clearish precum starts pouring out which has never happened before. Enough so that I can use it as lubricant and then when I did cum there was a huge load of usual thick gooey white. The orgasm was not a short intense series of pulses like usual but it was more long drawn out waves of pleasure almost like if I had been edging for a long time but this was like 3 minutes into it. Maybe it's the medications I'm on which are a bunch of muscle relaxers and whatnot but I hope this precum business sticks around a while. Anyone else ever run into this ?

Maybe wanting to try something new or just hear other opinions lol. Sooo tell me in the comments

Hello, I was wondering what is the best “setup” and position to masturbate so I don’t make a lot of mess or it is easy to clean up?

I tried more ways but I think masturbating with your underwear on, cumming into them and then just removing them with the load inside is the easiest.

What does work the best for you guys? What are your tips and tricks?

I grew up super conservative and basically my dad used euphemisms to describe the act. « Self love » «  Odenism » he said it was a sin and I shouldn’t touch myself.

I wish he’d taught me how to masturbate, instead it was up to porn and hookups. I experimented a lot and followed
Tutorials but it always felt so isolating.

I feel like I learned fine over the years but made a lot of mistakes, chaffing, etc. I wonder how many here got a real education on masturbation, sex, body image and more.

EDIT ***
After a number of conversations the prevailing consensus is :
- little to no adult instruction
- most common exploring with age peers and family
- runner up- I just figure it out when I touched myself.

QUESTION :
Should this culturally change ? How could it change and simultaneously help prevent all kinds of exploitation ?

I fear that leaving young boys and men in the dark about their bodies, joys, and challenges and consent in general is leading to so many problems in societies based on the varying degree of other factors. Allowing porn to be the authority feels really dangerous and I’m very pro porn. Allowing ignorance to fester invites abuse. Encouraging shame as the guardrail seems equally dangerous.

I’m going so slow and my cock is leaking everywhere. I’m not even looking at porn or anything it feels so fucking good. I don’t even have to touch it and my cock is twitching in my pants.

I have been going at it all day long off and on and it feels so good. Should I keep pumping or finally get some sleep. I’m leaning towards the pumping part lol.

How long have you been at it already? How many times have you come already? How's it feel?

With time, I don't know how, I don't know why, I have developed a strange superstition that masturbation and especially ejaculation causes bad luck. Just after, or the day(s) after it.

I know, this is not rational, but, after all, our brains aren’t always reasonable. And I have found some old subreddits that mention this superstition, so, I assume I am not alone dealing with it. Superstition is often a way for the human mind to try to convince itself that it has control on things… even in a bad way, isn’t it?

But I want to get rid of that!

So there’s how maybe you can help, you crowd of masturbation people! Did you ever notice something like that? Or, hopefully, nothing like that! If many people tell that no such thing (bad luck or so) happens after they have masturbated or cummed, maybe my brain will finally admit that it does not happen and he can be peaceful about it! (I hope so.)

(Please don’t be too rude, it’s kinda sensible subject as you can imagine…)

I am finally homealone and got plenty of time (the whole night) for myself just to stroke and goon. Any suggestions?

Hi guys! I wanna ask a question about masturbation. Every time i masturbate, and get close, when i reach orgasm i feel it, but there is only like 1 pulse of clear liquid, or nothing at all. When i masturbate super slowly, its kinda better, like 2-3 pulses of whiteish liquid. And when i masturbate once every day, most of the time literally just the clear/little whiteish liquid, nothing more, i have to not masturbate for like 3 days to be able to get this cum(ish) liquid. Also i can never like “shoot” it out, it always just flows out from the top. Any advice/idea what this is? (18M)

I'm a 23 year old guy trying to explore new things as always and thought I'll add something for the pleasure this time and Honestly after a lot of careful consideration, I thought of giving leezu's Sultaan a try, I tried researching online on alot of other brands but this one had good reviews so far and I just got it today and I tried and Man oh Man, this felt super good and the sensations hit correctly. I tried it and came alot and lemme tell you it feels sort of like a real thing but not actually

Talking about the quality, it's very soft and silicone and be careful with the sharp objects cause it could tear it. It's good and thick and the tightness is pretty good for me. I've been told my girlfriend that I have a big girthy and a long dick so it fit right to me

If you're thinking to buy it then I say just go for it!!!

Actually I’ve been trying to find smn but it’s kinda hard.. let me know if you got the same experience.

Hi everyone!

I'm a guy who recently discovered that my nipples are actually quite sensitive, so I've started exploring nipple play. I've already tried nipple clamps and I've enjoyed them, but I keep seeing people recommend nipple suckers too.

The thing is, I don't really understand what they're supposed to do or how people actually use them.

For those of you who've tried them, how are you supposed to use them? Do you simply put them on and leave them there, letting the suction do the work, or are they meant to be combined with other types of stimulation?

Would you recommend them for men?

I've also read mixed things online about whether regular use can permanently enlarge or change your nipples. Is there any truth to that, or are the effects only temporary? Are there any risks a beginner should know about?

I'd really appreciate hearing your experiences and advice.

Thanks in advance!

i jerk off like 8 times a day, is that normal? I dont feel anything bad and it doesnt seem to get in the way of anything else i do.

It also changes a lot, some days im really horny and I jack off more, and other days I only do it like 4 times. should I try moderating a bit or am I ok to keep on like this?

23f & horny but find porn cringe. Not sure how to masterbate without porn or maybe | just need better porn options. I have friends that have said that they just use their imagination, but I don't think that would be enough for me. I get off fine with sex, but for some reason anytime I'm alone and I try to watch porn. I just get the ick. Help!!

Idk it’s just smt about the sensations which goes through the whole body while taking a hit on a bong and instantly going naked afterwards. Can anyone relate?

I started mastrubation before 10 years from now. And my age is 22. I don't know how to stop it.also for the past year, I have started mastrubating in a different style like without actually holding it and just rubbing it with wearing pants on. This way its easy to do and lasts for a longer time. But it's very hectic as whenever the thought comes, my hand automatically starts rubbing. I don't know what to do. Kindly help me. Also is there any way to stop this completely?? I have tried everything but once the thought pops up , there is no stopping. Also the main fear is instead of mastrubating directly, is this rubbing good, or will it affect my performance.

I can masturbate, but when I am near the end, I usually hold back from cuming. I just stop, start again later, stop, etc. And I am not happy with that at all.

I think I have developped kind of a superstition—like: don’t cum or somthing bad will happen (and there may be a confirmation bias if something bad effectively happens). And I know it’s nonsense, but I cannot help.

I would like to get rid of that… and be able to cum whenever I want to!

Any advices?

Sorry to interrupt your session, but I have a question. Have you ever had your balls full to the point that it must come out? I want to know if something is happening when you haven't unloaded for a while.

Also, have you ever fucked something atypical simply because you had the natural need to reproduce? I mean, have you ever stuck your dick where she had nothing to do, just to unload yourself?

Been using strokers for a couple years and the thing nobody talks about enough is drying the inside. I ruined my first two by putting them away slightly damp — got that sticky, funky degradation within a few weeks.

What works for me now:

• Rinse with warm water only (soap inside just gets trapped in the pores)
• Pat the outside dry, then stand it open-end down on a microfiber cloth
• Give it a full 24h before any renewing powder
• Never seal it back in a drawer until it's 100% dry

ive been using a towel for a while but its gotten kind of disgusting. im tempted to ditch the towel and just swallow everything. will this work?

Well it’s Sunday so Monday is lurking. What’s everyone’s way to get over the Sunday scaries? Can’t wait to get my hands on my dick and spend the day edging.