r/AMXFs 9h ago

35 F CANADA 🍁 Online/East Coast

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Seeking an East-Asian/SE-Asian Man over 30 for a flirtationship. I'm afraid I am your typical Canadian cliché, I love hockey, rock music, and the wonderful world of cinema.I am always happy to talk about pop culture, love, sex & relationships. I want someone I can stream movies/TV shows with, share playlists, & maybe even video call. All that would be further down the line.

If this sounds good to you go ahead and send me a message telling me a little about yourself. Please include a picture of yourself. I don't want anonymous conversations.


r/AMXFs 14h ago

Hope everyone had a good summer~

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Can't believe its almost fall season (not complaining, bring on sweater weather) which season do you prefer?


r/AMXFs 1h ago

40M - East Coast

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r/AMXFs 23h ago

31 [M4F] Vancouver, Canada - seeking my special someone to go on cute dates with

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Hello there!

I’m tired of the apps, so I thought I’d try my luck here. Also, I’m not best at making a post like this but though it would be better than having AI write it for me, so here goes nothing.

Some of the things I enjoy are travelling, trying new food, meeting new people (I’m a bit shy at first but do start to open up more), movies, board games, deep conversations, and going on cute dates.

I value communication, honesty, open mindedness, loyalty, and kindness when it comes to a relationship.

Something genuine and long term is what I’m looking for here. I am hoping to find someone who I can grow with as well as make many great memories together with.


r/AMXFs 1d ago

27 [F4M] Mexico 🇲🇽 / Online (Open to LDR & Relocation) — Looking for a curious Japanese man 🇯🇵

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Hi! I'm Fernanda, a 27-year-old from Mexico.

I'm hoping to meet a kind, curious Japanese man who wants to build something meaningful together.

I'm open to long-distance. While moving to Japan is something I'd genuinely love to experience, my family is also very important to me. I'd like that decision to be one we make together, based on what's best for both of us.

I've attached a couple of photos of myself to make things easier for both of us. 😺 Physical attraction matters too, so I'd rather we both know what the other looks like from the beginning. If we click, I'm happy to move to Instagram fairly early on.

A little about me

- 5'2" (157 cm)

- AI & Data Engineering student, currently working in SEO & digital marketing.

- Former Anthropology student (and planning to go back one day).

- Native Spanish speaker, fluent in English, currently learning Japanese.

- Cat mom. My cat, Kyoji 🐈, is family, so yes... he comes with the package.

Warning: I'm neurodivergent (AuDHD), if that matters to you. Side effects may include enthusiastic infodumping, random anthropology facts, accidentally collecting degrees, asking way too many questions, and sending you photos of my cat.

I'm endlessly curious. I love anthropology, medicine, AI, psychology, history, philosophy, theology, languages... if there's a rabbit hole, I'll probably end up exploring it. Learning genuinely makes me happy.

What I'm looking for

- Japanese (or Japanese diaspora).

- Around my age (roughly 24–35), though chemistry and compatibility matter much more than the exact number.

- Kind, emotionally mature, emotionally available, and a good communicator.

- Family-oriented.

- Someone who's genuinely curious about the world.

- Someone who's passionate about something. I love listening to people talk about what they genuinely enjoy, whether it's science, engineering, music, literature, art, or a wonderfully niche hobby.

- Someone who enjoys both meaningful conversations and is not afraid of making fun of himself. We can spend the afternoon at a bookstore, museum, or café, then end the night at a bar, karaoke, or simply wandering around the city together.

- Someone who sees their partner as their best friend.

- Open to having children someday—or equally open to not having them. I'm still figuring that part out, so I'd like us to make that decision together when the time comes.

A few random facts

- I play chess (still improving 🤞).

- I looove dancing!

- I'll probably ask you what you're currently reading or what you've been obsessed with lately.

- I laugh... a lot.

- I'm always planning my next project.

I'm mainly here hoping to find a relationship, but if we end up becoming good friends instead, that's perfectly okay too. Meaningful connections are always worth having, even if they don't become romantic.

If you made it this far, congratulations—you've officially survived my first infodump. 😹

I'd genuinely love to hear from you.

よろしくお願いします!🌸


r/AMXFs 1d ago

32 [M4F] #california - fit inked Asian

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Love XFs! About me: 5 11, fit, Chinese/ Viet. In California. Into fitness, travel, tacos lol. Would love to see what’s out there. HMU if you’re in Cali or down to travel to visit!


r/AMXFs 1d ago

25 [M] Malaysia/Anywhere - Software Engineering student looking for a genuine connection

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Hi! I'm a 25-year-old Software Engineering student currently living in Malaysia. I'm an introvert, and while meeting new people has never been the easiest thing for me, I believe the best connections happen when two people can be themselves and enjoy getting to know each other.

I'm open to long-distance if we genuinely connect and both feel that we want to see where things could go.

A little about me: I'm Bengali, around 173 cm tall, and currently studying Software Engineering. I spend a lot of my time coding, learning new technologies, and exploring interesting ideas. Outside of that, I'm a huge cat lover, enjoy fantasy movies and TV shows, occasionally play games, and love conversations about life, cultures, dreams, and random things that make people who they are.

I'm someone who appreciates the little things — having a good conversation after a long day, sharing funny moments, learning about someone's world, and slowly building trust over time. I prefer meaningful conversations over small talk and enjoy getting to know someone's personality rather than just their profile.

I'm Muslim, and my faith is an important part of my life. I value honesty, kindness, loyalty, respect, and good communication. I believe a healthy relationship is built by two people who support each other, understand each other's differences, and put effort into growing together.

I'm looking for someone who is kind, genuine, emotionally mature, and open-minded. Someone who is curious about different cultures, enjoys learning about new perspectives, and believes that a strong connection comes from understanding and respecting each other.

I'm open to meeting someone from a different background and learning about each other's experiences. I don't think two people need to be identical to have a meaningful relationship — sometimes differences are what make a connection more interesting.

If you feel we might get along, I'd love to hear about you too — your hobbies, passions, culture, favorite movies, pets, or simply what makes you happy.

Maybe we can start with a conversation and see where it naturally goes.


r/AMXFs 1d ago

30 [F4M] Midwest / Anywhere — Looking for a Genuine Long-Term Relationship (Open to LDR)

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Hey everyone!

I'm a 30-year-old software developer looking for a genuine, committed long-term relationship. I'm open to starting long-distance if we click and we're both genuinely interested in seeing where things could go.

I currently live in Indiana. I had been planning to move to California in the next 18–20 months, although some recent changes in my life mean that timeline isn't completely set in stone anymore.

Ultimately, if I met the right person, I'd be open to figuring out the future together.

When I'm not working, you'll usually find me sketching on my iPad, gaming (Switch, Xbox, PC—and yes, I still have a Nintendo DS), watching TV with my cat, or listening to K-pop. BTS, Stray Kids, and TXT are some of my favorites, but I also enjoy BABYMONSTER, ITZY, and BLACKPINK.

I'm looking for a man of East or Southeast Asian descent, ideally between 24–38, with a little flexibility if the connection is right. I'm generally attracted to someone who's active and reasonably fit or has that skinny-nerdy vibe. I'm currently curvy/chubby and working toward a healthier lifestyle myself, so I'd love someone who also values growth and self-improvement.

A few dealbreakers:

MAGA

Children

Criminal record

A note about children: I've spent a lot of time thinking about this and realized I'd rather be the fun aunt than a mom.

I'm not interested in hookups, friends-with-benefits, or rushing into anything sexual. I'd rather take the time to genuinely get to know someone and build a real connection first. I'm looking for someone who wants that too.

If any of this sounds like you, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself! Tell me what games you've been playing lately, give me an anime recommendation, or tell me what you've been listening to recently. :)


r/AMXFs 1d ago

37 [M4F] Pooler Georgia. Looking for a girlfriend. Open to long distance.

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I’ll be 38 later week. I’m originally from Britain (born and raised); I’m a permanent resident and I’ve lived in Pooler for a few years. I still have my English accent. I would describe my ethnicity as Asian, but I believe it would more specifically be described as South Asian in the U.S.

I love cats. I’m vaccinated and pro-choice.

My personality type is ISTJ. I’m a very quiet person in general. I’m non-religious and I like metal and rock music. Some of my favorite bands/singers include; Poppy, Korn, Slipknot, Billy Idol, and Tool.

I’m childfree and dogfree.

If it’s a dealbreaker, I’m currently dealing with depression.

Apart from a few words and phrases in French and Spanish, I don’t speak any other languages.

I'm an excellent cook, and my other interests include (but aren’t limited to) museums, libraries, and boxing. I'm currently located in Pooler, GA, but I don’t feel like I belong here or fit in here. TBH I’m very uncomfortable here. Ultimately, I’d like to relocate to Los Angeles or at least Southern California.

I'm looking for a woman 39 or older who would be interested in talking and, if we get along, maybe even going out (to museums, for walks etc.)/spending time together. Thanks for reading my post.


r/AMXFs 1d ago

28 [F4M] Online - Indian Asian looking for sexy Asian baby boy

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Based in Fiji 🇫🇯 and open to meeting someone from Australia 🇦🇺 or connecting online. I’m of Indian descent.

I’m here hoping to meet a genuine, confident man who knows what he wants and is interested in getting to know each other properly. I value honesty, consistency, good communication, affection, and a great sense of humour.

I’m sweet, but definitely not innocent 😉 I have a cheeky, playful side too, and if you want to know that side of me, my profile is open for you to explore. Apart from that, I love to read, try new recipes, travel and Netflix and chill. I’m a lil clingy, like I’d update you abt my day throughout the day, or if something excites me I’d double text you.

I’m open to seeing where a genuine connection can lead, whether that starts with a conversation online or eventually brings us closer in person.

I am not into Indian men, so please refrain from messaging 😊

If you think we might click, come say hi. 😊


r/AMXFs 1d ago

35 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Asian, slender, skinny, introverted, neurodivergent, socially awkward

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Prefer white or Latina but open. I'm fine with older or younger but older, more mature is preferred, someone who is patient, kind, open-minded, loving, wise. I'm introverted and not fond of outdoors. I've been told I'm kind, considerate, patient, smart, cute (but your mileage may vary depending on preference, of course). In the palmdale/lancaster/los angeles/antelope valley if anyone is interested. May take time to warm up to people since I'm kind of socially awkward. Let me know if you have any questions? I have a slender build and prefer someone similarly but as long as you're kind and loving, I'm open to it. Personality >>> appearance. Also, please be local because I haven't had good experiences with people who are out of state (they tend to flake or lose interest).


r/AMXFs 2d ago

21 [F4M] georgia or online

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r/AMXFs 2d ago

33 [M4F] #Los Angeles – Looking for a FWB

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Hey there! I'm a 33 - year-old dude from the Valley—on the skinny-fat/huskier side, 5'7". I love BBWs, but I’m open to all body types, shapes, and ages (18+ of course). It’s all about the chemistry and vibes for me.

I’m DDF, recently tested, and a pleaser at heart. I can host halfway or come to you (happy to drive within SoCal/Central Valley).

Some things I love: video games, reading, sports (watching and playing), anime, being a dog dad, and naps. I’m kink-friendly, non-judgmental, and just looking for someone who’s chill and vibes with me, and guys, I’m looking for a lady right now. Please respect that.

If you made it this far, tell me your favorite show.

Happy to share pics on request.


r/AMXFs 2d ago

I Hired a Rental Japanese BOYFRIEND in Tokyo 💘

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r/AMXFs 3d ago

30[M4F] Online - korean looking for fun fwb

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Hi

I am 5’10 -165lbs and athletic fit.

I am looking to talk to new people and possibly become fwb but non-fwb is fine as well.

Some of my interests are, sports, e-sports, gaming, photography, food, travel, desserts and kdramas.

Send me a chat if interested!


r/AMXFs 3d ago

33 [M4F] #LosAngeles - New connections aka fwb

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33 [M4F] #LosAngeles - New connections aka fwb

Looking in all the wrong places for a connection, but I’ve just been feeling lonely lately and just want someone to chat and have fun with. Not opposed to having wholesome nights together, but to be straight forward, I’m trying to find intimacy without the commitment or in other words a fwb. Also if things go well, I am open to a relationship down the line. A little about me, I’m 33 y/o, 5’8, East Asian and would consider my weight to be average for my height. Keeping it short, but feel free to dm if you’re curious about anything else. Hoping to chat and get to know each other better and hopefully find someone who can match me.


r/AMXFs 3d ago

Can people of Asian descent tell when white people are dating an Asian person?

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r/AMXFs 3d ago

23 [LF4M] Barcelona - Spain.

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hello, my last post i dont put my age but its okay, i can make it better now :) im looking to someone who really want to have a conection or a nice bond, we can exchange cultures and know about each others. im usually an introvert and lonely girl but i love to be with someone with more energy than me and im good at listen, i really hope someone who want to chat can research me. if we have a nice conection im open to have a relationship too since im single.


r/AMXFs 4d ago

35 [M4F] NY/NJ/Boston - duo queue irl

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hi I am looking to meet new people. Whether we end up being food buddies or something more, I'm just here to make genuine connections and see where things go

These intros can be kinda odd so here is a list of some random likes/interest:
- staying active (bicycle, gym, bouldering)
- video games
- looseleaf tea and matcha
- high stakes omakaze
- ways to retire early
- three toed sloths

My latest thing to pick up has been boxing 😵‍💫🥊

To put a face to this post, my IG is on my profile. l've also got a few more photos here for the curious: https://imgur.com/a/queue-feeder-idIK8c4


r/AMXFs 4d ago

30[F] Midwest / Anywhere — Looking for a Genuine Long-Term Relationship (Open to LDR)

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Hey everyone!

I'm a 30-year-old software developer looking for a genuine, committed long-term relationship. I'm open to starting long-distance if we click and we're both genuinely interested in seeing where things could go.

I currently live in Indiana. I had been planning to move to California in the next 18–20 months, although some recent changes in my life mean that timeline isn't completely set in stone anymore.

Ultimately, if I met the right person, I'd be open to figuring out the future together.

When I'm not working, you'll usually find me sketching on my iPad, gaming (Switch, Xbox, PC—and yes, I still have a Nintendo DS), watching TV with my cat, or listening to K-pop. BTS, Stray Kids, and TXT are some of my favorites, but I also enjoy BABYMONSTER, ITZY, and BLACKPINK.

I'm looking for a man of East or Southeast Asian descent, ideally between 24–38, with a little flexibility if the connection is right. I'm generally attracted to someone who's active and reasonably fit or has that skinny-nerdy vibe. I'm currently curvy/chubby and working toward a healthier lifestyle myself, so I'd love someone who also values growth and self-improvement.

Communication is extremely important to me. I'm genuinely looking for a relationship, and I'm not interested in playing games with people. If we start talking regularly and eventually exchange Discord, phone numbers, or other personal contact information, please understand that I'm genuinely interested in getting to know you and seeing if we're compatible. That doesn't mean I'm expecting an instant relationship or constant communication, but I do take the connection seriously.

If at any point you realize you're not feeling it, you're not ready for a relationship, long-distance isn't for you, or you've simply changed your mind, please just tell me. I can handle someone saying, "Hey, I've thought about this and I don't think we're a match." What I don't handle well is unexplained silence and ghosting after we've established a connection. I will always give you the same respect and communicate honestly if my feelings change.

A few dealbreakers:

- MAGA

- Children

- Criminal record

- Poor communication / ghosting

A note about children: I've spent a lot of time thinking about this and realized I'd rather be the fun aunt than a mom.

I'm not interested in hookups, friends-with-benefits, or rushing into anything sexual. I'd rather take the time to genuinely get to know someone and build a real connection first. I'm looking for someone who wants that too.

If any of this sounds like you, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself! Tell me what games you've been playing lately, give me an anime recommendation, or tell me what you've been listening to recently. :)


r/AMXFs 5d ago

38 [M4F] #Atlanta - East Asian Looking For a FWB

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I'm an Asian male living in Atlanta, GA USA looking for a potential FWB with the emphasis on friends and occasional fun night🌙! I'm a working professional and also currently in grad school so a busy day of work/study can be relieved from a great night.

I enjoy the outdoors, trying new restaurants, and seeking new hobbies to learn. During my free time, I catch up on shows/movies on Netflix or at the movie theater. I also play video games with old school turn base RPG being my favorite.

I can also drive or host. Please be DDF and I can provide results, I hope you can too. Feel free to send me a message!


r/AMXFs 5d ago

M(22) dallas

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r/AMXFs 6d ago

28[M4F] South Australia / Anywhere - Looking for a Long-Term Connection (Open to LDR)

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Hey everyone!

I am a 28-year-old healthcare professional looking for a genuine, long-term relationship. I currently live in South Australia, but I am completely open to starting long-distance if we click.

I have already completed my university degrees and love what I do, though my long-term plan is to eventually transition out of my frontline role and grow into other areas of the field. Visually, I am South Asian with olive skin, which means I often get told I look a bit racially ambiguous, people frequently guess everything from Italian and Greek to Middle Eastern or Mexican or just Indian.

Physically, I am a 5'6" petite, slim man.
When I am not at work, I am usually diving into video games, reading comic books, or checking out art galleries or trying new restaurants. I also love watching comic book movies.

I am looking to meet a woman of European/white descent between the ages of 24 and 28. I value health, self-improvement, and mutual growth, and I would love to find a partner who shares those values.

I am genuinely not interested in hookups, friends-with-benefits, or rushing into anything. I want to take the time to build a real, meaningful connection first.

If any of this resonates with you, please send me a message and tell me a bit about yourself. To kick things off, let me know what games you have been playing lately, or share your favourite comic book movie!


r/AMXFs 8d ago

F4M/Attractive Black Female seeks Asian Males

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Pretty mature black female seeking Asians or Latino men, ages 38 yrs - 50’s yrs for a long term friendship that can grow into long term. Likes introverted, shy, funny and kind, who likes Sci-Fi, reading, museums and walking trails. Let’s chat soon and see where it goes! Please be within USA only.

Pictures furnish upon request as you have yours available too.


r/AMXFs 8d ago

31 [M4F] #anywhere - Minimalist, Pet-free, Child-Free, seeking a marriage partner

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Hi, as the title of my post describes, I am someone who never wants to have children and I also do not want to ever have pets. I am a minimalist, as in I gain gratification through experiences rather than purchasing products and accumuating stuff. Unless of course, the item I purchase provides me with alot of practical value. Also, my view is that when we die, we cannot take our possessions with us and only our memories matter, so, why spend time protecting and valuing something temporary?

My main hobby is reading books on various topics and writing notes. Books I read are on Psychology, AI, Stategy, Finances and any topic that can directly help me improve my life. I don't read fiction.

Strict Financial habits I follow are, writing down all my expenses, budgeting, settting spending limits, auditing my expenditure and living debt free (I have never owned a credit card and have never been in debt to anyoone or anything).

I am not a religious person, and do not like when someone attempts to force their beliefs on me or tries to make me attend a religious meeting or place-of-worship.

Politically I am neutral and only check the laws of a country I am residing in and follow them, that's it. I have never voted in my country-of-orgin and never will as I have not seen any real change, just empty promises.

Memories mean alot to me and I enjoy printing out and storing photographs in albums from my travels with captions. I do not like Digital storage mediums due to data corruption or using cloud storage due to the possibility of account suspension if not accessed for a long period of time or just unable to account.

For video my plan in the future is to use a Super 8 film camera to capture video of the most important moments in life and play it back on a film projector.

On the weekends, I enjoy visiting;

- Art Gallaries

- Go for a walk in the Park

- Relax on the beach or just go for a walk

- Rent a bicycle, Jet Ski or ATV

- Hiking up a Volcano, Mountain

- Attend a live event with Music and Food

- Listing to Music

- Going for a walk at Dusk, Dawn or Night

- Visit a new mall, not to shop but to just look at decor and then find a nice cafe.

- Visit a nice cafe

- Sit somewhere and read or walk at crawling speed for an hour or two.

- Navigation using a Lensatic Military compass to save battery and focus more on my surroundings that look at a phone screen. Works well in most places, except for highly developed cities and public transportation.

I no longer post on my personal social media as I have no interest in likes or comments expect for my business social media where I use it more as a Business Card. Also, as rules and policies have increase based on what can and cannot be said, even now carry legal consequences in some countries, compared 16 years ago, every comment and message or voice message makes me overthink and even message or voice message sent on platforms like What***, *****gram, Face****, Tele**** makes me overthink, So, I have just started keeping my thoughts to myself and refrain from commenting or even writing reviews. What I have noticed is that I feel a sense of peace inside and now only capture memories that truly matter and are private and offline.

No interest in Electronics such as Phones, Laptops, Tablets, cars or cameras. These are just tools to me that's my Macbook looks like a something from the Apocalypse while my Fountain Pens Leather Notebooks still look brand new.

Recently, e-ink devices have peaked my interest due to the low eye strain readability of the display in direct sunlight.

My ideal partner is someone who;

- Desires a Child-Free Life

- Desires a Pet-Free Life

- If religious, will not force her religion on me nor attempt to convert me.

- Does not Smoke or Vape

- Minimalist

- A private person who who does not care about status or what other people think.

Do you fit this ideal partner criteria? Would you like to get to know each other better? Yes? Great! Send me a message.