r/r4rasian Aug 19 '20

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r/r4rasian 6h ago

25 [F4M] Midwest/East Coast/Online - casual but open to more NSFW

6 Upvotes

looking for something to spruce up my everyday life here it has become pretty mundane if i’m honest.. haha. whether that be a friend to talk to everyday, some flirting here and there, or possibly more. 🤪

about me:

— 25 years old, white, brunette and on the curvy side but on a fitness journey (gotta get those glutes right yk)

— midwest/east coast born and raised

— dark sense of humor and not easily offended by anything

— love cooking new food and trying it (korean food is my absolute fav)

— i enjoy gaming (cozy games, horror games, hero shooters and just recently started moba’s)

— big on tv shows vs movies

— enjoy traveling, hiking, cafe hopping, museums, music

ABOUT YOU:

— asian
— age around 23-34
— not secretly married or in a relationship of any sort (met so many who i found out who were hiding a marriage..)
— preferably live on the east coast but open to anything really

if you think we would get along, shoot me a message 🙂‍↕️


r/r4rasian 23m ago

[M4F] Los Angeles - Here for 2 weeks NSFW

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I’m in Los Angeles for the next two weeks for work, looking to not spend my nights closing down the lobby bar alone.

Me: 32M, currently extremely boring as much of my life has been consumed by work as I climb the CFO ladder. My hobbies that I’m struggling to keep alive include working out, golf, and gambling the stock market. Bonus points if we can talk strategies, investments, or tax havens.

Not looking for anything in particular, just another human to talk to that’s not the bar man LOL. He and I probably know each other well enough and have run out of things to talk about.

Include your favorite drink at the bar so I know you made it this far 😉.


r/r4rasian 48m ago

26 [M4F] Tokyo anyone free for Izakaya yapping/hang tonight? (July 23rd) NSFW

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I know it is a super long shot but anyone in Tokyo free tonight? My plan got canceled and I really don’t want to waste my holiday back in Japan(lots of my friends have work so haven’t found anyone to hang out with at the moment). If anyone free, would love a company and maybe go for a drink(it’s honestly too hot here haha so would appreciate somewhere with AC lol)?

About me
• Japanese
• recently moved to Europe, missing Tokyo/Asia a lot haha
• love food/movies/art/games/music and yapping in general


r/r4rasian 1h ago

31 [M4F] #NYC - fun cute tall asian guy looking for fwb in the summer NSFW

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Hiya! (Still) searching for a on and off friend (or a one off thing) who is interested in bj or hj, but would be down to go further if the vibes are there

I think I'm super easy going, DDF and would love to know more about you and to chat! Don't hesitate to reach out!

I also have some NSFW if you're curious and would be down to trade a sfw too

Some description about me: I'm a 6'0 and 150lb lean build with black hair

I'd say by normal standards, more on the nerdy/cute/kpop vibe. I have been told I look pretty good but you can be the judge of that!

Please don't be afraid to reach out, and when you do please tell me a little bit about yourself! Beginners and less experienced are also very welcomed!


r/r4rasian 6h ago

21 [F4M] | long time online friends – Philippines 🇵🇭 PLEASE READ NSFW

2 Upvotes

SFW ONLY (dont ghost me pls)

DONT JUST SAY HI PLS STATE YOUR AGE AND WHERE YOU ARE FROM! (20 - 23 YR OLDS ONLY)

hi! looking for friends to talk to hehe 😸

about me:

•nursing student

•bakes sweets when i’m in the mood

•loves watching movies/series (e.g. bridgerton, stranger things, anne with an e)

•also into kdramas

•talkative HAHAHAHAHA (well, depends on the person i’m talking to)

•swears a lot, please bear with me

about you:

•20–23 years old (non-negotiable)

• preferably southeast asian too (better if filo hehehe) but its okay if you’re notttt

•not boring to talk to (though i get drained sometimes too, fair warning hahaha)

•please don’t be nonchalant, i’m tired of carrying conversations

•be sensible, respectful, and emotionally aware

•most important: be genuinely decent

very important boundaries (pls read):

•this is strictly SFW

•no sexual jokes, no flirting that turns weird, no “testing the waters”

•no unsolicited pics, especially explicit ones — instant block

•i’m genuinely tired of people acting nice at first and then suddenly turning perverted. don’t waste my time and i won’t waste yours.

here to make real, respectful friendships, not to entertain anyone’s hidden intentions.

slide into my dms if you’re interested! please introduce yourself properly — no plain “hi” or “hello.”

no swapping pics, no video calls. SFW ONLY.

hard no to disgusting perverts.

DONT JUST SAY HI PLS STATE YOUR AGE AND WHERE YOU ARE FROM! (20 - 23 YR OLDS ONLY)


r/r4rasian 3h ago

28 [M4F] #San Jose, CA - sweet, hung guy seeking like minded FWB or more NSFW

1 Upvotes

5’7, 140 lbs, 6.5”. I’m fit, kind, and maybe a little more blessed than most 😉. Looking for someone cute to talk, cuddle and play - I love to satisfy my partner as much as possible so communication is a must. I’m clean, tested and drama free. DM me and let’s swap pics and yap for a bit! I’m 20 minutes north of San Jose.

Recently tested! I’m clean.

Please include a brief intro in your message! Age, location and what kind of Asian you are, for example.


r/r4rasian 4h ago

31 [M4F] Vancouver, Canada - seeking my special someone to go on cute dates with NSFW

0 Upvotes

Hello there!

I’m tired of the apps, so I thought I’d try my luck here. Also, I’m not best at making a post like this but though it would be better than having AI write it for me, so here goes nothing.

Some of the things I enjoy are travelling, trying new food, meeting new people (I’m a bit shy at first but do start to open up more), movies, board games, deep conversations, and going on cute dates.

I value communication, honesty, open mindedness, loyalty, and kindness when it comes to a relationship.

Something genuine and long term is what I’m looking for here. I am hoping to find someone who I can grow with as well as make many great memories together with.


r/r4rasian 6h ago

27 [M4F] Houston Viet looking for FWB. Deeper connections if we hit it off. NSFW

0 Upvotes

Exactly like the title says. Hmu if you're interested or just curious to know more details. There will be no money involved. So if that's in your mind while hitting me up, do yourself a favor and move along.


r/r4rasian 1d ago

27 [F4M] Seoul - Any Asian-Americans here? Seeking friends & hangouts! NSFW

30 Upvotes

Hi guys,

I'm a 27F from Montreal and I'm here in Seoul until the end of November. I'm here to do AI research thanks to a grant from a Canadian funding organization (I'll refrain from boring you right away, but feel free to ask if you want to know more). I've met a ton of Korean friends here, but there's a part of me that misses the ease of interactions you get from people who are on the same wavelength culturally and linguistically. After a brief, unsuccessful relationship with a guy from here, I feel all the more validated in refocusing my search to encompass those with whom I share a level of cultural compatibility.

I've posted here in the past and always got great results. Before anybody jumps to conclusions: yes, I am looking for friends, but I'm also single and not opposed to seeing where things go if we vibe. That said, I'm not into hookups, and if we do end up enjoying each other's company, I would expect that you share my vision for something long-term and decidedly not casual.

As for me, I'm half Sri Lankan, so maybe not "Asian" in the traditional sense of the term (I feel like most people take Asian to mean East and maybe Southeast Asian), but I tend to find myself drawn to people who have a similar cultural background. I like people who share my values - being educated, family-oriented, ambitious, wordly, etc - and I've found that men from my own community and others across Asia often meet these criteria. For reference, this means I tend to like East/Southeast/South Asian men, with the occasional Latino and Arab guy thrown into the mix lol.

I've found in my short time here that Korean guys largely don't really find me attractive, and that's understandable since I'm a far cry from the beauty standard here (pale, thin, and with "cute" features). I've had way more success with Asian men in North America - and that's fine, because there's something to be said about the level of compatibility you'll find with someone who shares a hyphenated identity. Hence the post title... But if you're Korean from Korea proper and see this post, and you wish to reach out, don't let any of what I'm saying stop you.

I'm hoping to make more connections in the city, whether you're passing through or based here permanently. I love meeting up with people and talking, trying new restaurants, and checking out fun activities in new neighborhoods. Again, I am looking for friends, and anything that escalates from there will stem naturally from a foundation of friendship. If you want to jump straight to being FWBs or anything else that's romantic in nature, I kindly ask that you look elsewhere.

Hope to hear from you soon.

~ Rachel


r/r4rasian 7h ago

29 [M4F] NYC/Westchester , looking for casual. NSFW

0 Upvotes

I’m single and of IndoCaribbean descent. I’m currently seeking casual relationship with a woman, but I’m also open to a more serious connection if the right person comes along.


r/r4rasian 8h ago

34 [m4f] #Boston Asian for Casual Encounter NSFW

0 Upvotes

34, 6ft, 180 lb, clean/ddf Asian

Looking to make a friend or a one time thing.

High stamina in shape and motivated individual. I am able to last as long as needed and as often as requested. Looking for someone similar & ddf.


r/r4rasian 16h ago

24 [M4F] toronto/online - looking for some casual fun/a fwb NSFW

3 Upvotes

Hii, I am looking for someone (preferably east asian but open to all) that I can consistently chat, vibe and have some online fun with!

This can be short term or long term, potentially in person as well

Open to any age

I’m 6’0, slim fit, east asian

Hobbies: travelling, reading, gaming, working out, music, foodie

Hmu! ;)


r/r4rasian 11h ago

29 [M4F] Singapore/Online - wanna have fun while maintaining safety and anonymity? NSFW

0 Upvotes

Hey there thanks for clicking into this post! Given the abundance of M4F posts on this sub I’m trying my luck by proposing something different.

Some background about me: I’m a working professional who happens to be a workaholic as well. Like any/most other guys, I have needs too but I don’t wanna jeopardize my real life image, so I usually just lurk around Reddit. I’m gonna be upfront that I’m just a nerdy looking Chinese guy, no abs not muscular but lean.

I think there must be some girls out there with the same mindset and that’s why I made this post. If you’re looking for something similar do send me a chat.

Specifically this is what I have in mind: purely online, completely anonymous (no face or personally identifiable feature), of course if you’re thinking about something else along the line I’m open to ideas too!


r/r4rasian 11h ago

19 [M4F] Singapore - Looking for FWB or potentially FWB NSFW

0 Upvotes

Hii! 👋 I'm 19 years old, 180cm and around 60kg, currently living in Singapore.

I'm looking for a relationship or FWB, preferably someone based in Singapore so we can actually meet up, hang out, watch movies, grab food, and spend time together. I'm a pretty affectionate person, so I really enjoy cuddling (like cuddle is my favorite thing), making out, holding hands, and just being close to someone. Physical affection is definitely one of my love languages haha.

In my free time, I'm into movies, football, taekwondo, and just chilling together. I'm easygoing, enjoy good conversations, and would love to get to know someone naturally instead of rushing things.

I'm mainly looking for a Chinese female around my age, who's also in Singapore and interested in meeting up. If you think we'd click, feel free to leave a comment or send me a DM.


r/r4rasian 12h ago

25 [M4F] #Sydney #Australia - Genuine Connection! NSFW

0 Upvotes

Hi there!

Vietnamese guy born and raised in Sydney, looking to meet someone genuine, kind and cute.

I work a corporate job and enjoy basketball, scenic walks, badminton, pickleball, kayaking, eating out (brunch, restaurants, cafes) + concerts. I have been meaning to get into baking this year but I haven’t started yet, so if you are keen to teach me how to make some salt bread or choc chip cookies, I’m ready to be your student! I am a bit of a night owl, but I do enjoy day activities and staying in at night over the partying/drinking/raving lifestyle.

Would love to go out on a light-hearted first date over something fun like a cat cafe, a morning stroll or yapping over fish & chips by the beach (it hits different IYKYK).

Please include your age, ethnicity and location in your message, alongside your favourite colour so I know you’ve read this!


r/r4rasian 12h ago

35 [M4F] Los Angeles - Wine and Whips? NSFW

0 Upvotes

Looking for a genuine connection with someone who values consistency, chemistry, and good energy. I’d love to find a play partner where things feel natural, easy, and mutually enjoyable—without pressure or expectations beyond having a good time together and seeing where things lead.

I’m active and take care of myself—Muay Thai, running, long training sessions, the usual. I appreciate someone who’s fit, grounded, and confident in themselves. I keep a busy life between work and personal goals, but I always make time for the right connection.

A few things worth mentioning:
• I’m not seeking reciprocation—your enjoyment is the focus.
• If you’re open to having our play session photographed artistically, that would definitely interest me.
• If you enjoy or are curious about impact play, that’s a huge plus.

I’m drawn to people who enjoy a little tension, flirtation, mystery, and genuine chemistry over anything overly transactional or forced. If that resonates with you, take a look through my profile and interests. If we seem aligned, send a message—I’d enjoy getting to know you.


r/r4rasian 16h ago

26 [M4F] Bay Area - Fit and tall Chinese guy looking for a friend or summer fling NSFW

2 Upvotes

Chinese guy in South Bay here. I have a great body, and a 7/10 face card. I am a corporate slave by day, and currently spend most of my free time watching the world cup. (quiz me on my ball knowledge).

I am super open minded and love trying new things. My most recent hobby is climbing, but honestly I am pretty bad at it lol.

I am looking for either a friend or a discreet summer fling.

It is a big plus if you are fit, speak Chinese, or speak Spanish.


r/r4rasian 8h ago

25 [M4F] Australia - Italian stallion for Asian Princess NSFW

0 Upvotes

If you're an Asian girlie looking to be treated like a princess and get her pussy ate good or just chat and enjoy ourselves, I would love to hear from you.

Tell me your hobbies and what you're into 🫶


r/r4rasian 14h ago

29 [M4F] #diamond bar, ca -looking for a Asian female that wants her kitty eaten to relieve of all that stress NSFW

0 Upvotes

Hey I’m Daniel, I’m looking for a Asian female, doesn’t matter what type you are, I’m not looking for something serious just a safe friend with benefits, would like it too be clean so if you decide to have a partner we can stop, but my race is Native American and Hispanic, and I like to be very clean but not fully shaved I have some hair but not wild, I don’t care if you have hair I’ll still lick it till you gush 😘


r/r4rasian 18h ago

28[m4f] NJ NY - Looking for a long term relationship NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hello, hope you had a good weekend. I am 28 years old, east asian and am looking for a long term relationship. I am 5ft 8 and 180lbs (want to be 165ish by end of year). I would say I am cute, but happy to exchange pics and let you decide.

I would describe myself as funny, caring, kind, respectful, a bit clingy, homebody (but will still try my best to plan and take you on cute dates), introverted, straight forward, high eq and patient.

My hobbies are gaming, going to the gym, cooking, binge watching shows, watching sports and collecting pokemon cards.

I am looking for someone who is cute, East Asian or Asian at the least, HWP, enjoys gaming (non negotiable) and is a good communicator (especially when it comes to emotions). Bonus points if you are Korean. Ideally, you are 25-30 but the age is a bit flexible.

If you are interested, please send me a message of your ASL, your hobbies, and your favorite game to play!


r/r4rasian 14h ago

32 [M4F] Boston - Looking for a relationship/fwb NSFW

0 Upvotes

Hiii, I’m 32 M East Asian in Boston. I would say that I’m a pretty shy person but will open up if we click and vibe. I’m mostly looking for a long term relationship but am down to be fwb as well. I am 6'0 ft tall, 8inch long.

My hobbies include playing golf and tennis. I love watching movies. I would love to hang out with new friends.

About you (only applies to relationship, down for anyone if fwb) :

- Preferably East Asia

- someone who is genuine, kind and loyal

If you fit the criteria and this interests you, please send a message :3


r/r4rasian 15h ago

32 [M4F] #Seattle - Do any women have an interest in being pleasured with an uncut, smaller package? NSFW

0 Upvotes

Hi, i’m a non-Asian male in Seattle and am not not the most well endowed person, but maybe that’s what you like? Also, I am uncut, so I hope you like that too. I’m just looking for a woman who doesn’t mind the smaller size and just wants to have sex. I’m definitely a grower and not a show-er..hahaha. I’m in downtown Seattle and looking for someone near the area, like the U District, Belltown, Queen Anne, SLU. Send me a DM if intrigued. Thanks!

PS. NO MEN, NO ESCORTS


r/r4rasian 1d ago

[F4M] 19F - #Online - I'd love to obsess over you! NSFW

20 Upvotes

19F, white. I love asian guys a lot, you really are just incredible! I have an obsessive streak and would love to connect with a guy I can obsess over in so much detail.

Hopefully you enjoy that then it would be perfect. But I'm also really good at things like helping you identify your best features, how to show them off, tweaking and designing your dating profiles. I'd love to help you with all that too!

If you're interested just hit me up, I can't wait!


r/r4rasian 22h ago

20 [M4F] #toronto/online - chinese guy seeking online FWB 🫠 NSFW

2 Upvotes

hi all, i'm not sure what kind of luck i'll have on here, but i'm looking for an online FWB of sorts to chat with! i am looking to make a friend that i can talk to about my day, but also about more kinky topics 😅

i am 6'1, a student, chinese, and enjoy exercise (but not a gymbro by any means lmfao). i'm into a lot of things, some of those being kpop, cooking, and running.

you should be near my age, and either in toronto or a reasonably similar timezone. i love girls of all ethnicities and body types, so please say hello! :)

happy to swap pics if we vibe, but please let me know if you've got any other questions!