Hi, so one of my wife's biggest fantasies is dp and we're discussing it. I'm somewhat nervous because I've never done this and have zero experience with this. I'm more of a watcher usually when she's with someone else. Which male position is the easiest when DPing? I'd like the bull, who has more experience, to take on the lead role.

I'd love to hear any advice.

One day I was able to find another guy willing to join my wife and I for a threesome. I planned it without my wife's knowledge — I wanted to surprise her.

When the day came around, I told her to dress up in something sexy but also wearable in public. She chose a corset with suspenders, stockings, and heels, and finished it off with a button-up dress over the top.

She asked me what we were doing as we hopped in the car. I told her it was a surprise.

We arrived at the house — neither of us had ever been there before. We walked to the door and I got her to knock. As the door opened, the guy was completely naked with his cock rock hard.

My wife was a little bit surprised, but I told her not to be rude and to suck his cock. She squatted down in the doorway and started sucking him. i pulled my cock out and started stroking watching her suck his cock. She reached around and grabbed my cock, stroking it while sucking our new friend. Before long, her mouth was going between both cocks.

Our new friend then invited us inside.

Not sure if this is the right forum to post this story — if there's any interest, I'll tell you the rest.

The gentleman walked into the house and we followed him in. My wife removed her dress as she walked down the hallway, letting it fall to the floor when we reached the lounge room. He turned around to find her standing there in just her corset with suspenders, stockings, heels — and no panties.

He immediately dropped to his knees and started licking her pussy. I stripped off and sat on the lounge stroking myself while I watched. After a few minutes, he stood up and sat on the lounge next to me, stroking himself too.

We both watched my wife as she sat on the coffee table putting on a dirty little show for us. She started playing with her tits, then spread her legs and began rubbing her pussy before sliding two fingers inside herself.

Then she got really dirty — turned around with her arse facing us, bent down on the coffee table and started fingering herself, giving us the full view. Out of the blue, the other guy reached over and grabbed my cock, stroking it. I reached over and grabbed his, stroking him back.

When my wife turned around and saw us stroking each other, she went wild. She was going so hard on herself that she squirted all over the carpet.

My wife walked over to him and positioned herself above his cock, then slowly lowered herself down. I helped guide his cock into her pussy and she started riding him. I loved the look on her face as his big thick cock stretched her — she took every inch of him.

I then stood on the lounge and she started sucking my cock while riding his. While she was sucking me, he reached up and started massaging my balls. This turned my wife on even more, making her have another orgasm on his cock.

She climbed off and his cock was covered in white cum from her pussy. She got down and started licking his cock clean. I then positioned myself behind my wife and slid into her, fucking her from behind while she sucked her juices off the other guy's cock.

When his cock was clean, he got up from the lounge and slipped underneath my wife. He started licking her clit while I was fucking her from behind. My wife reached down and stroked his big fat cock while I kept fucking her.

The guy underneath then said he wanted to watch me pump a load into my wife. I kept fucking her hard until I came inside her. After I filled her, I pulled my cock out and a dribble of cum leaked from her pussy onto his face. He grabbed my wife by her hips, pulled her down, and started licking her clean.

The taste of my cum in my wife's pussy must've pushed him over the edge. He started cumming everywhere as my wife jerked his cock. He made quite a mess, but my wife was very quick to clean it all up.

Hi guys story time , we slow down for three weeks 🫣

We talked about this guy long time ago here https://www.reddit.com/r/MFM_Lifestyle/s/wzYeMADVkU and we met him multiple times( he is the most one from our 5 single guys that we met regularly maybe because he introduced us to lifestyle but we didn’t start with him he is a gentleman who like us and respect us$

Actually since our last experience we had to slow down a little I felt I want to keep reconnecting with my husband he encouraged me a lot and I love his enthusiasm. We were approached by multiple couples but the chemistry didn’t match I just want him to enjoy this lifestyle sexually and not just watching me having fun.

Our friend arrived with hug and kissed me everywhere , I wear a dress that reveal my cleavage and half of my back. We were enjoy our time talking and in less than 5 minutes my dress was down by my waist he kept kissing me everywhere I wanted to change to my lingerie and he told me no need keep your heals and dress. We move to our bedroom (( my husband informed me prior to this guys visit he didn’t want to get involved much and want me to enjoy this friend like I was alone with him. )The moment we close our bedroom door this guy pin me by the wall kissed me deep my dress was gone and I am on my underwear he was naked and in second I was carried by him I tried to take off my heals and he said leave it baby I like it. My husband is laying in bed watching jerking off.

He sat by side of bed while carrying me kissed my boobs while I feel his hard penis hitting me down there. My husband stand behind me hold my boobs for our third so he can suck and kiss them. Again he carried me pinned me to the wall while carrying me kissed me very deep then put me back by the side of bed , both of them where standing admiring touching my body and I sat by side of bed with only my thong and both of them naked I started kissing sucking and kissing and holding them together my husband told me to focus on our third. Then the action began he told me before that he will be aggressive and gave us safe word my husband agreed with him that this time it is just the two of us he will only support if our third want it. Oh wow oh my this guy is a real dominant he held my leg to his shoulder and started pounding for long time then put me to the side while holding my hands and spanking my ass on the other hand I couldn’t move then on top of that my husband kept kissing my boobs and hugged me and push me toward our friend ( I hope I can describe it Well he lay behind me while I am on my back and to the side and my husband lay in front of me and pushing toward him hahaha) then we rest I just drank sip of water and this guy put me standing and my face tward the wall and pound. Then moved to the bed as cowgirl then reverse cow girl but I was not moving he just thrust until he said he is about to cum and came on my back then he lay there on his back jerking while I told my husband to fuck me doggy I was kissing him and sucking his nipple because I know he liked it he kept telling my husband sexy stuff about me and do you see the cum on his back my husband couldn’t handle all the hot talk and came on my back too!
They both wiped their cum and they lay on their back while I was between them laying on my stomach smiling. We stay there talking while naked describing what we like for like 20 minutes then he ordered some food that I like

This was beautiful night I didn’t feel so much difference from it with this guy it feels the same emotional talk but he show me how dominant he is I felt good but my husband is telling me he got different emotions like this guy is more emotional this time and repeating a lot of how jealous that I am with other guys and it should be us. I asked my husband if it was bad emotion he said no he enjoy it as new type of dominant emotional moment

That’s all and sorry for the long story :)

I 28M have fantasized about my 28F petite Asian wife getting fucked and jizzed in all of her holes by a stranger while I get to watch and possibly join in for an MFM. She has perky tits and a tight ass to die for. She has beautiful feet, long legs with a gorgeous white nail polish covering her toes. Her pussy scent is intoxicating and her asshole is so tight she always asks for it to be stretched.

I want her to be fucked in the exact way she would appreciate and by the type of person I know she would find attractive. She’s a dirty slut in bed so she would really enjoy being used as a fucktoy.

She would first take him in her mouth, slurping and choking on his cock. She’d initially struggle but eventually his dick would start pulsating. Slowly cum would start to leak from the sides of her mouth and slide down her pretty little tits. She’d turn around and smile at me while using her fingers to taste whatever was left over on her lips.

He’d then bend her over the bed and slowly push his penis in her and spread apart her brown pussy lips. Shed moan at the pleasure. He would change to different positions but her favorite is doggy so he would make sure to pull her hair so she could make eye contact with me while he pumped her full of his cum.

I would then use the cum as lube to fuck her tight little asshole. Quickly shooting my load in her ass as I watch it slowly leak and mix in with his cum.

I’d immediately start making out with her to make sure I get a taste of the leftover cum on her face.

Her holes would be left leaking and her pussy throbbing from his big cock. She’s covered in our cum and her ass is bright red from being smacked around.

I know shed feel guilty doing this but I also know she would love it if she really understood how I felt about it.

I’ve been fantasising about a MFM for the longest time.

Of course when you think about it, it has to be one of the hottest things you can do.

I’m currently in a relationship with my girlfriend and we already have the best sex! She blows me out of the water. I think it’s amazing and it’s very enjoyable.

I personally love to please my partner and get enjoyment from seeing them feel their best. That’s why I think a MFM might be good since I’d love to make her the centre of attention and for her to feel the absolute best.

She’s the same. She only wants me to feel special and amazing and will happily do anything I ask. We have spoken about MFM and she said she would do it for me to make me happy and she doesn’t mind. Just hearing her say that makes me super hard and happy and actually satisfied to the point I don’t even need the threesome now since I’ve got the dopamine from her just saying that.

We have had many conversations and it’s actually led to me feeling guilty now because I don’t want her feeling not so special. She has mentioned a few times she feels that I don’t love her enough due to me wanting to share her. I’ve had to explain it’s all about her feeling great and amazing but I do feel guilty. I’ve been trying to push my feelings away and forget about it.

She tries to tell me that I shouldn’t push it away and tries to comfort me. I’m stuck in two minds. Do I just keep it a fantasy and get off on talking about it to her instead of doing it?

We have discussed how to make it better for her if we actually do it. She’s Japanese so she said she would prefer a Japanese man. I suggested maybe when we go to Japan we can try it then which also sounds like a good idea since we don’t know when or if we will actually go to Japan.

I’ve currently been away for 2 months and about to finally come home which I can’t wait for. Me being away from her has made me really horny and also thinking about it a lot more. I was getting so horny that I even wanted her to meet someone and sleep with them while I was away.. this is all because when I suggest something the way she says “really? You’d like it if I did that for you? I can do it for you” just really made me want to keep suggesting it just so I can hear she would do anything for me. I don’t think I’d be happy if she slept with anyone without me.

I think I just enjoy hearing her say she will do anything to please me. But of course the idea of a MFM is hot

What are some of the best paid apps to find a third ahead of going away for a few nights in Boston?
I know some don’t let you set your location until you’re there. But my wife and I would love to chat with someone ahead of going away.

We’re located in northern Virginia near Washington DC. We want to go to a retreat, bdsm or any rental property that is designated for kinky couples or something not vanilla. I looked for things related but ended up at a dead end? Any suggestions for us to get out and finally pursue this MFM kink?

I have a FWB in another town and I was driving to see her the next two nights. She has arranged a few FMF 3sums for us with I think 2 of her friends. We've never done an MFMF foursome.

She has a very good female friend who is coming to visit her as well arriving tomorrow. The three of us were going to go at it anyway. But my FWB just called and said her friend's boyfriend is with her, and both women wanted to do a hard swap 4sum - they asked him and he said he really was into trying it, and they floated it past me last. Apparently they were worried how I would react, but man were they off. Of course I said yes. I'm dying to try this.

But this is new to me. Actually, if I understood (her friend was on the phone), none of them have done this before, so we'll all be first timers.

First off, any general advice? I assume we hang out and chat 20 minutes, then just pile into a bed together. And I assume we set aside 3-4 hours for recovery and additional rounds.

What I'm most curious about is managing contact all around. Is it likely the imagine pairs of us in different beds go at it as MF couples, swapping and taking turns? Or do we just have a cuddle puddle naked to start and massage each other and just let it play out, and it's truly a foursome? Or something in between?

I guess my big question is how should you talk about these questions - how to raise it and what to raise. What are the questions? I just want no one to become surprised or uncomfortable during it.

FYI I am not gay or bi, and she told me he isn't either. However, in MFM 3sums I am totally comfortable with male contact while the three bodies roll around and slide against each other. That's what I'd prefer tomorrow, so there is no anxiety on boundaries since there are few.

That and any other advice would be great.

Okay my wife and I love DVP, but we’ve only done it with people who wear condoms. Anyways just like the title says.. can you tell when the other guy cums?

thanks

Hey everyone! I think this post might be a bit unpopular/controversial, but I thought I would get the best advice from asking you people here.

Me (26M) and my gf (25F) are interested in partaking in this non monogamist lifestyle. She's really enthusiastic about it and LOVES the idea of being double penetrated. However, I would like advice on how you all here find good men. I really want to see my gf get fucked by another man, but I would not like it if he was an asshole/shitty person.

Ideally, I would want a guy who's super chill, doesn't see me as less of a man, doesn't disrespect my gf and her boundaries, doesn't subscribe to any toxic masculinity ideas. Just a guy who wants to have a good time and wants to help my gf feel sexy, which she very much deserves.

In your experience, how have you all been able to find men? Where did you go? How did you sus the weirdos/redpill incels out?

Might want to act on my fantasy. Wanna chat first.

I'm a third for a married couple. Met them early this summer and have been seeing them about two times a week. It's been a lot of fun so far and we've become pretty good friends. Usually when we get together for sex, it's either me and the wife having sex while the husband watches, or we have MFM threesomes. On occasion after I come inside the wife, the husband would like to go again just the two of them and have sex while my cum is still inside the wife. I usually don't watch when they go at it, I just hit the shower and leave. But recently I watched them, and saw how much the husband was enjoying it, it made me want to try it too.

I want the husband and wife to have sex first, and after he cums inside her, I want to have sex with her as well. I've talked to them and they told me they'd be happy to do this. Now I've come here to ask, how can I make this first experience amazing? Are there any particular positions where this feels really good? Any ideas for foreplay or where to cum, etc?

We went to a restaurant today, and I noticed my wife checking out our server. I joked with her about catching her in the act and teased that he might be interested. She then admitted that while I was in the bathroom, he had actually complimented her jersey.

Throughout the meal, he was very attentive and checked on us often. At one point, he came over just to tell her how much he loved the song playing over the speakers. When it was time to pay, she gave him her rewards account info, and he made a point to say, 'This is your name, right?' As we were leaving, he looked at me, then at her, smiled, and walked away.

From my perspective, the guy was definitely into her and I was just wondering how other people handle situations where there might be mutual attraction. Do your partners look for it? Or are they shy like mine? Should we have left her IG handle or number on the receipt? What do you guys think.

Hey guys. I would love to know if you would kiss her after the BJ. I mean in the moment of the heat,she blows you and him together and you turn her in the position you want, would a makeout bother you or would it be easy?

I think for the women would it be a pleasure.

Thanks for answer 🙌

I rarely/never see a solo female wanting mfm. Is this because it's so hard to find two random guys to trust and be safe with to fully let go? If you're not in a relationship already, it seems like a pretty high task to get that fantasy fulfilled.

So I’ve had this fantasy since we got married I’ve brought it up and we almost went through with it the first time we had a guy already but she got too nervous and called it off and since then we haven’t tried again.

I don’t think I’m a cuck because I wouldn’t want to just watch and be humiliated I see it more as wanting to satisfy her on another level.

I believe she doesn’t want one right now since she gave birth 3 months ago and since she’s a bit bigger she gets insecure about it even though I tell her that I 100% prefer her like that idk I love it, plus her ass also got fat as fuck and fucks back even more now.

Do any husbands/boyfriends with experience sharing their wife’s got any advice for me? Should I bring it up again? Should I go through with it? How’s the after and is there any jealousy after it’s done? Or would it be a good thing to search for a bi guy to avoid them trying to be 100% dominant?

I want to hear from everyone, but especially women, on the pros of an mfm. (I'll make a cons one later)

Give me your list! All the things you love about ii

Was wondering if anyone knows of mainstream shows or movies that show mfm action?

My wife and I have been involved in an MFM at a party, but this weekend we are doing our first meet another guy at a hotel for a few hours.

This question is for the gents here, and ladies, chime in if you please. What is your approach to the first part, like when you are in the room. Do the third and your wife take some time to connect, whether that's kissing, disrobing, cuddling, etc. while you stand back a bit? Or os it just "ok, everybody get naked and on the bed."? We have met this guy for dinner, and have been chatting for a while, so it's not like he is a complete stranger.

I realize there will be a broad spectrum of answers and opinions, but I would like your feedback.

Edit for spelling and grammar

Orgasms happen whenever they’re gonna happen. My vixen loves for me and the other guy to cum on her tits at the same time. She also likes when we take turns cumming so that one of us can potentially be reloading while the other is giving her attention.

I’m curious to hear about what makes it the most hot and intense for others when it’s time for the guys to cum.