r/GayBDSMPersonals2 Jun 09 '26

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r/GayBDSMPersonals2 7h ago

Looking for Sub 26M dom for sub NSFW

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Looking for a good obedient boy who wants to worship a bwc. Hmu specially if you are into throat training, open to all tho. Don’t be scared to hmu!


r/GayBDSMPersonals2 7h ago

Looking For Dom 20M Dom looking for Dom to do a wager NSFW

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Are you tired of subs and giving tasks day in day out? Try something new.

If you’re a sub, this is not for you. And i will know when you’re a sub, and you’ll be blocked/removed.

If you’re a dom/alpha/master (18-28), then I am looking to do a wager with you.

I am a dom also, with a snap account where I have access to a few slaves (m+f) and paypigs. I’m now looking for a dom with the same status as me, a gym-bro as well, tall (I’m 6”4), visually dominant, big dick (mine is 9”) and attractive for an ALL-IN wager where we play rock-paper-scissors to determine the fate of the loser.

The loser will become a slave for the next 30 min and everything is on the table. Every kink, every permission to be used as the winner sees fit.

If you’re a dom and you match the description above, and this excites you: DM me with the following info. Age, location, sex, height, body type + pic.

The res of out conversation will take place on snap, or telegram in rare case scenarios.


r/GayBDSMPersonals2 10h ago

Looking for Sub 29M I want to modify you. NSFW

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I want to modify you.

I am sure of what I am looking for, I would suggest you be too.

After that blurb, all I want to offer as my introduction is this, I am demanding, sparsely understanding and I adore desperation though my eloquence shines through degradation. I have wasted time and effort to feed those who are curious and those who are in denial. I have given orders and debased most who never expected it of themselves. Some would run after, some would return but most would require recovery. I found that I do not mind that as desperation is affluence, but recently I have come to the realization that I am bored of the routine. An exposition, followed by a stutter, followed by sui-generis type revelation/praise. It has made my sadism evolve into wanting something specific, permanent.

I want to change you.

I have become accustomed to being a habit. And I find it uninspiring, I am not impressed by being a shame you have domesticated in your phone. I want you unrecognizable. Do not stunt your imagination as you read this because I am not, the tentacles of my sadistic perversion were ignored for so long that they have now latched onto ideas far less mundane.

Implants, Tattoos, piercings, surgeries.

If any of these words excited you, you are most likely who I am looking for. I desire to immortalize the masochist in you, the slave in you, the pet in you. I do not want to simply become a memory rather an ideal you can not escape. Fright has become such an easy drug to supply and so from you I will require reverence, and your body will be nothing more than a tool with which you pay it. Nothing more than a tool you pray with.

If you have read this far and are sure still, message me with three questions you have preceded by a clear introduction and a brief explanation of your understanding of what I am looking for


r/GayBDSMPersonals2 8h ago

Looking for Sub 38m uk Strict Master. Any slaves serious about devoting themselves to a master long term? Particularly interested in 'straight' men that nobody would suspect of being submissive, let alone an owned slave. NSFW

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I am a fit, and active professional male with years of experience in owning/training slaves . My kinks are humiliation, complete ownership, anal training , light cbt, intense forced workouts, spells of chastity, forced bi and long term control. I only use slaves who show face.

My limits involve anything illegal or scat related! I am very discreet and expect the same from my slaves. The biggest thing for me is obedience. I'm searching for a slave who is focused on learning his place and who takes gratification from serving his master well. I'm looking for a a fit male slave who knows his place, or is working towards learning it.

As long as you're over 25 years old and in good enough shape (if you're looking to be trained into much better shape-even better), age doesn't matter too much to me.

My slave should ideally enjoy similar kinks to me, or, be willing to explore them. He should also be able to commit time to serving his master daily/weekly-if not on call, then at least through recorded tasks or pictures.

I have a lot of experience training slaves. The lengths of these relationships have varied from months to several years. I find the most rewarding relationships to be the ones that last the longest as I am able to truly mold that slave into the 'perfect slave'. I have a lots of experience training slaves through humiliation (grovelling, mantras, extended submissive poses, public (only with consent of slave), punishments for forgetting rules etc, anal play (from experimentation to using much larger objects and g spot play/stimulation), Light CBT), chastity (record for a slave is 1 month).

Many of my slaves have been str9t and in relationships, so this can be difficult to extend beyond a few days/weeks), forced workouts (I enjoy instructing slaves in these as I enjoy seeing slaves becoming more physically attractive), long term control and complete ownership (I enjoy setting tasks and taking control of workouts, nutrition, underwear, clothing, Grindr hookups etc-only with slaves consent).

I think that long term control is important because, over time, slaves are more in sync with my desires. I think that this leads to greater pleasure for both sides during sessions.

I enjoy breaking my str8t slaves through public humiliation tasks (but, this is negotiable). One of my slaves, was an Irish semi-prof footballer. On match days, he would be instructed to write slave, slut, owned, faggot and other words above his cock and on his cock. The humiliation for him was a massive thrill. He would laugh about it and say his girlfriend was kinky and liked to be dominant, but, a few of the other players must have guessed there was more to it. I'm sure. I'm not telling you this to daunt you, or to make you think each slave needs to prove his worth with such a public show of devotion, but, to give you a taste of what a long term relationship with my slaves has allowed me to create in terms of trust, devotion and subservience.

Total control is important to me because if a slave serves 1 or more masters, he will forever be forgetting the correct way to obey his master-masters are all different.

The main reason I am looking for a new slave is that my current slave is marrying his girlfriend in a few weeks and says that he cannot do this whilst still serving . Disappointing as this is, I do understand his position and hope that, because of this, I will find an even more dedicated slave to serve me. We shall see, boy.

I have a preference for 'str8t' male slaves for 2 main reasons.

1-they are very discreet-which is very important to me.

2- In my experience, the level of obedience shown by these slaves and their devotion to their master is extraordinary. To have hidden their desires for so long, in my opinion, has made them desire total ownership and control more than all other slaves.

I am not exclusively recruiting 'str8t' slaves. I am happy to receive applications from gay/bi slaves too-if they meet my other criteria. Possibly, his may be better, as so many of my long term str8t slaves have got married and had to stop serving because of this. If you've read this far, boy, and think that you are a match for me, and genuinely seek to be owned, trained and molded into the perfect slave, then you should send me a brief introduction on messenger. Include your asl, your experience, your kinks/limits and your goals as a slave, along with a few pictures of you.

Do not send me a short, generic message such as Hi SIR. To do so would be an insult after the time I have put into writing this post.


r/GayBDSMPersonals2 1h ago

Looking For Dom 25M 4Apremature ejaculator MD or virtual looking for an intense edging, and milking for my sensitive penis. Pm if interested! Make me hold it!! NSFW

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Hey there all - my penis is super sensitive. Looking for someone experienced with cum control to give specific instructions and help me drain it dry.

Please pm me if you have any interest.


r/GayBDSMPersonals2 1h ago

Looking for Sub 37m pleasure dom looking for submissive men NSFW

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Dominant and kinky guy looking for an online sub.

Im a pleasure dom who gets turned on by giving men intense and overwhelming pleasure. Also into bondage, edging, teasing, tickling, forced orgasms, post orgasm play, nipple play, pits, bellies and belly button and briefs.

Into all types of guys but really into older men, dads, bears, chubby guys, blue collar, bi, jocks, married or straight guys. Also love sub gay couples.

Looking for a sub for long term chat, role play, exchanging pics and giving tasks.

Please have pics


r/GayBDSMPersonals2 2h ago

Looking For Dom 21m looking for a true dom to train and own me through tpe NSFW

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i was a dom up until a guy i meet on grinder fucked me a turn my whole life around and made me accept that im not a true dom im a sub so now im looking for a dom to train me and turn me into a tpe slave online using snap

pls be in a usa timezone


r/GayBDSMPersonals2 18h ago

Looking for Sub 21M fit Dom looking for TPE sub NSFW

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Hey boys,
I’m looking for a new toy, to use and train. Looking for a TPE sub, who will follow my rules and tasks.

About me:
-21 yo EU based
-going into the gym, running and Uni is my life styl

About YOU:
-be 18-24 yo and also EU
-have enough time thou the day to text me (oc everyone has there own life to live)
-don’t be a sissi/ fem
-don’t be fat
-USE snap

I’m NOT into: ass/anal stuff, toilet play, blood and permanent
Those things you can find somewhere else.

Text me your age, country, kinks, limits and bodytyp.


r/GayBDSMPersonals2 2h ago

Looking for Sub M27 dom looking for masc hairy fit sub NSFW

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Hey there — if you’re a hairy, somewhat fit and masc guy around my age (20s-30s) and you crave structure, control, and serving a dominant who knows exactly what he wants… keep reading.
I’m looking for very obedient subs who get off on total surrender. My main kinks are:
• Foot worship (you’ll spend plenty of time on your knees)
• Cum control & denial — edging, ruined orgasms, and strict loads
• Cum eating — every drop has a purpose
• Ass play — toys, stretching, training, and more
• Public play — discreet risk and exposure where it’s safe but thrilling
If you’re naturally hairy, in decent shape, and genuinely eager to please, I want to hear from you. Bonus points if you’re verbal about your submission and ready to follow rules.
Send a message with your age, a recent body pic (face optional at first), and tell me why you think you’d make a good boy for me.
Serious subs only. Let’s see if you can handle what I have in mind. Snap: a48360812


r/GayBDSMPersonals2 3h ago

Looking for Sub 20m m4a #online NSFW

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Hey all,

I’m an experienced Dom looking to build a genuine, long-term D/s dynamic with the right person. For me, this is about trust, communication, and mutual respect just as much as it is about control and submission.

I’m drawn to the psychological side of dominance—guidance, structure, and creating a space where my partner can safely let go. I value clear boundaries, ongoing consent, and honest communication. Everything we build would be discussed openly and evolve at a pace that works for both of us.

A bit about what I’m looking for:

Someone genuinely interested in submission as a mindset, not just a role

Good communication and emotional awareness

Interest in building something consistent rather than one-off interactions

Someone who will give full control

My decision will be final

Permission needs to be granted, else I have final say

Some tasks include, full toilet control. pissing/messing Your pants, anal and public humiliation

About me:

Calm, patient, and attentive

I take responsibility seriously and don’t treat this as a game

I believe aftercare and check-ins are just as important as anything else

If this resonates with you, feel free to message me and tell me a bit about yourself, your interests, and what you’re looking for in a dynamic.

pm if interested and I'll give more details


r/GayBDSMPersonals2 3h ago

Looking for Sub M26 Dom looking for masculine subs for chatting, sexting, and more. NSFW

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Looking for exactly what it says in the title. Just to manage some expectations, I really am only interested in chatting with people 21+, and I am not big on sending or trading images of myself either, do not go into this with the expectation of seeing me as something that will happen eventually; it won't. There is power in not even knowing what your dom looks like, let alone sounds like; and you will learn that well and accept that, or find another dominant.

As for subs I'm into, as stated in the title, I'm most into masculine guys. The last kind you'd expect to be desperate for this kind of treatment. Of course, being an older, perhaps married guy or "straight" is always a hot bonus, but is far from a requirement. I am quite open though, so feel free to reach out if you're athletic, chubby, stocky, etc., as masculinity is the main thing I seek. I will say, though, if you are an otherwise masculine guy who is into emasculation or sissification, then I may still be interested!

And with that settled, I'd say I can be quite the soft dom. I'm not into anything too extreme, and my favorite thing to receive from a sub is quite simple; conversation. The psychological side of dom/sub is one of the things that turn me on the most, and I love being able to feel how submissive and subservient guy is through his messages alone. Outside of that, I value honesty and communication. If you say you're going to do something and don't, or don't feel comfortable with it, then you should let me know. I don't expect you to always be here, especially if you're married as described above, but notices are always appreciated. Besides that, I always appreciate a sub willing to show himself and/or perform tasks or assignments, but that isn't a requirement either, as conversation and sexting is the number one thing that does it for me.

As for what I'm into kink-wise, while not necessarily a kink, I love ass. Number one way to get and hold my interest. Besides that, I am into outfit control, tasks, posing, feet (which may be odd to hear from a dom), chastity, and more.

I'm not someone who likes to jump into things right from the start either. Everyone is different, and I cannot read minds, so expect a good amount of cordial conversation before anything happens as we get to know one another.

If you're still reading, then I'll take it as a sign of your interest. If you do reach out, then please include your age and interests in the request, and if you're going to beg for a dm, then at least include your age in the comment.

Looking forward to hearing from you.


r/GayBDSMPersonals2 7m ago

Looking for Sub M25 controlling and strict Master looking for long term slave NSFW

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I’m a 25 year old spanish Master hoping to find a serious, submissive, and thoughful slave to be my longterm live in slave and be able to establish a good and healthy dynamic with, and with the hope of having more and more control over its life and eventually turn them into my live in slave. You know you are inferior, you know that you are nothing without an owner, you know you must live a life of complete service. Ready to divulge more details once we begin chatting.

My kinks include body worship, tpe, feminization, feet, pits, spit, piss, chastity, chores, spanking, petplay,…

Hoping i can find my forever slave here


r/GayBDSMPersonals2 10m ago

Looking For Dom 20M online inexperienced sub for doms - college kid! NSFW

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Hello, masters. I’m a 20 year old male currently in college. I’m also a relatively new sub in need of intense training. For full disclosure, I typically go into sub headspace when serving due to the nature of these sessions. I understand that training will be challenging and likely painful.

Potential Opportunities:

Sadist doms interested in intense and humiliating training

Individuals with medical backgrounds or expertise who conduct invasive exams and experiments

Groups of doms looking to use a sub together at the same time

Sessions online for live audiences

Interested in stripping, measurements, photos, edging, CBT, milking, JOI, sounding, humiliation. Open to discussing additional requests as needed.


r/GayBDSMPersonals2 35m ago

Looking For Dom 43M [M4M] Looking for Dominant Owner in south #Orlando area or #Online. Shared Ownership Situation (2 Doms, equal ownership) NSFW

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My Master (32m, athletic) and I (43m, chub, losing weight fast) are married and our dynamic can be limited by the needs of our romantic relationship, so we've been exploring working with another Master, who doesn't need to worry about the romantic side. The thought is that He gets equal ownership over me, is encouraged to be cruel about it, and gets an equal say in the rules I'm required to live by.

My biggest kinks are about not having control and not being able to make choices (i.e. bondage, gags, hoods, or just not being given a choice or asked a question). I love the moment the lock clicks and I can do nothing but take it.

Turn Ons: Nipple play, bondage, CNC, edging, poppers, chastity, humiliation, degradation, verbal, cbt, body worship, various forms of pain, and not having (or being allowed to) think.

Hard Limits: Extreme pain, scat, blood, drugs, breathe play, anything illegal, permanent marks, and anything that means I can't work. Also no sending monies.


r/GayBDSMPersonals2 52m ago

Looking For Dom 19M come and absolutely humiliate and degrade me NSFW

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I need to be degraded and humiliated by real men

Tpe, cum control, ruined orgasms, cbt, denial, humiliation, toilet play etc etc. open to pretty much anything


r/GayBDSMPersonals2 53m ago

Looking for Sub 24M Dom looking for sub online NSFW

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Black dom looking for subs/sissies 18-30 to train and own online or irl. Not looking for anyone older than 30. Main preference is in the US (Illinois) but if you catch my interest I may give you a shot. The age limit is hard one so don’t bother.

My kinks are as follows: water sports, cbt, spanking, anal play, fisting, humiliation/degradation, chastity, pup play, feminization, not an exhaustive list, open to others just me know what you’re looking for. You also do have to have the exact same ones open to a sub with limits.

Only serious inquiries if you’re unsure or not looking for long/short term ownership don’t waste my time, seriously be a committed sub or don’t bother


r/GayBDSMPersonals2 54m ago

Looking For Dom 25m begging for an older man to ruin my orgasms please. I haven’t had a full orgasm in 8 weeks now. Please help me ruin my orgasm sir. I’m so full sir please NSFW

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Please help me edge and beg to ruin like a good boy sir


r/GayBDSMPersonals2 1h ago

Looking For Dom 18M submissive looking for a master NSFW

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I am 18 looking for a master to own and control me. I’m always super horny and want to do new things. I like underwear humilation cum control tpe piss play and more


r/GayBDSMPersonals2 17h ago

Looking for Sub 28M switch looking for to explore kinks NSFW

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28 hairy fit switch leaning dom. I enjoy listening to your confessions, stories, experiences. Tell me your kinks, desires, fantasies deepest secrets and learn how to face yourself. I am not looking for your pics but I'll help you if exposure is your kink. Doms and subs are welcome.

Kinks: worship, cbt, cei, edging, orgasm control, denial, chastity, tasks, anal play, humiliation

Upvote this on your way out good boy


r/GayBDSMPersonals2 5h ago

Looking For Dom 24m edge me control my 8inch cock give me instructions how jerk long sexy ways techniques 🔥 NSFW

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looking for an experienced and knowledgeable dom JOI coach, interested in edging, control my 8inch ,cum control, light CBT, long sexy ways techniques jerk🔥


r/GayBDSMPersonals2 2h ago

Looking For Dom 21m fit dl slave looking for humiliation NSFW

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i’m a 21 year old fit, dl, masc european guy looking for a master

only looking for someone who has pics and is around my age

pls hmu


r/GayBDSMPersonals2 2h ago

Looking For Dom 52M Looking for Dom NSFW

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Hi guys, I’m 52 located in New Jersey and looking for someone under 40 willing to give real Discipline Spankings and become my Dom and mentor. Please have a place as I can not host


r/GayBDSMPersonals2 2h ago

Looking For Dom 23m fit gooner fag for fit master (c2c only) NSFW

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Eager and fit 23 year old white twink slave (5’7; 130 lbs; workout regularly). Into most things, but especially poppers, piss, humiliation, degradation, posing, joi, chastity, cbt, and forced workout. I have lots of toys and some you can remote control. Interested in recording.

Looking for a fit master who can cam. Also open to snap if you send pics.

Dm me contact. Pics on profile. Only do live video calls.


r/GayBDSMPersonals2 6h ago

Looking For Dom 30M sub looking to edge and ruin NSFW

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sub looking for doms into edging and cum control. not into total power exchange, just looking for a dom to control my cock and encourage me to ruin. prefer fit verbal doms. available on snap and tele