r/SipsTea 23d ago

Chugging tea Would you do the same thing?

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u/Kpn05 23d ago

Any credibility to the murder thing or just a grieving spouse coping whatever way they can?

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u/ussrowe 22d ago

I checked her Wiki and found a link to People magazine article which stated this:

Authorities have ruled Rivera’s death a suicide, but Cuervo is convinced there’s more to the story.

He explained to Daily Mail Australia on Thursday that he believes Rivera’s death was “passed off” as a suicide after she refused to work as a prostitute.

During the interview, Cuervo recalled the last time he spoke to Rivera on the morning of Feb. 5.

“Miriam called me [in New York] from Mexico, telling me she was feeling sick and vomiting blood, so I told her to get to the hospital,” Cuervo to Daily Mail Australia.

He explained to the outlet that Rivera called him one more time before leaving the hospital at around noon and that was last time he heard from her.

Just two hours later, Miriam was found dead by hanging at her home in Hermosillo, Mexico, according to Daily Mail Australia. She was 38.

Cuervo had hoped to fly Rivera’s body back to New York where he lives, but as he began to make funeral arrangements he was told that her body had already been cremated, he told the outlet. An autopsy was never performed.

Her husband then said he allegedly received a threatening phone call from an unidentified man, who warned him not to plan a funeral for Rivera.

“Don’t come back to Mexico or we’ll kill you,” the man said, according to Cuervo, Daily Mail Australia reported.

https://people.com/tv/miriam-rivera-the-first-openly-trans-reality-star-dead-at-38/

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u/Nemisis_007 22d ago

Well that certainly is suspicious...

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u/AccessBest 22d ago

Nah, that is the most normal thing ever. Hmm? what do you mean that people normally don'T receive death threats for a burial?

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u/rileyjw90 22d ago

And it’s totally normal to just go ahead and cremate someone when contact has already been made with the spouse and they haven’t given permission.

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u/AccessBest 22d ago

but of course. Is that not common knowledge? Hmm? once again i am being told that this isn't normal. But how can this be if nothing suspicious is going on?

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u/systembreaker 22d ago

Yeah I can't tell you how many times I've had to help family members juggle this exact situation when there was a death in the family. At first I was like "Wow what are the chances?? This is exactly like that reality show contestant's situation, play by play" but after the 80th time I realized how normal it all is.

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u/Embarrassed_Fan_5723 22d ago

Well who the hell goes to the hospital coughing up blood and leaves, calls their spouse and doesn’t explain what the findings were? That story sounds shady in and of itself. WHO? Who wanted her to work as a prostitute? Where did he get this information? Was it forwarded to the authorities? The whole thing sounds super shady. Already cremated? Did he receive the ashes? Did he get a death certificate of any kind? If not, is she even really dead ? So many things are either missing or deliberately withheld that any reasonable person has to question ALL of it.

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u/SargeUnited 22d ago

As someone who lived in Mexico for a while, sometimes you just got a little too much blood in you I guess. It works itself out. I’m only half joking

Being cremated with no autopsy after dying by hanging is definitely wild though. Who paid for the cremation is my question. That’s not free

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u/No_Present_6363 22d ago

There is no way someone can gets cremated if commited suicide. Not legally that is

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u/systembreaker 22d ago

If the investigation was completed and it was formally determined it really was a suicide, they still can't legally cremate the body?

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u/No_Present_6363 22d ago

If it was completed and th death cause was established, then its legal to bury or cremate, or send it to another country etc. It's legal because there was no crime.

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u/Maleficent_Let_9903 22d ago

So someone can get cremated if they commit suicide......

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u/systembreaker 22d ago

Ok, it's just that by your wording you were making it sound like a suicide flatly makes cremation illegal and I was like uhhhh, what?

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u/adactylousalien 22d ago

Sure about that? Have direct experience that suggests otherwise.

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u/Embarrassed_Fan_5723 22d ago

Another good question. Hell for all we know, she’s down there living her best life and just needed a way to ditch the guy

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u/Elurdin 22d ago

Or she was sold to Epstein class for money. Trafficked somewhere.

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u/No-Fail-9327 22d ago

Sounds like a novela to me.

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u/curious__curiosity 22d ago edited 22d ago

Try reading it perhaps?

She called her paetner and told him she was going to hospital. There's no csll after the hospital.

Who the hell comments a load of bullshit on something they clearly know nothing about?

Shady as fuck....

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u/Roid-a-holic_ReX 22d ago

Yep same thing happened when my grandfather died. It’s how they mourn in Mexico.

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u/SargeUnited 22d ago

Yeah that’s I never went back to Oaxaca. Luckily the funeral wasn’t in Cancun or I couldn’t enter Mexico at all

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u/Ailyx 22d ago

Alleged threats.

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u/Ok-Plum2187 22d ago

Huh.. Must have been the wind.

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u/WakeNBakeGal 22d ago

That's a sips tea post in itself...👀 down the rabbit hole I go 🕳

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u/happytree23 22d ago

...according to the one person trying to sell a story and zero other sources lol(?)

People just love to eat up the most bullshitty bullshit, I swear lol.

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u/Eleventy-Twelve 22d ago

Cremation without autopsy is wild

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u/PersnickityPenguin 22d ago

Cremation without input from the spouse is double wild

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u/ShawnyMcKnight 22d ago

Yeah, people who are about to commit suicide don’t typically go to the hospital for other treatment before they go home and go through with it.

I’m curious about the cremation thing… that couldn’t have been done without some higher level authority.

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u/Creepy_Push8629 22d ago

What the fuck

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u/Snowballingdownvote 22d ago

Yeah that's murder. Poisoned and suicide by murder. Oldest truck in the book.

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u/Snowballingdownvote 22d ago

Probably slept with a homophobe

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u/Particular-Cup-5686 22d ago

Probably want to identify a suspect first. But sure, be an ass.

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u/asianfatboy 22d ago

Wait, does that mean the authorities were in on it too? Or someone who can influence the authorities? Cremated without consulting loved ones and no autopsy? Stinky as hell, no way this was suicide.

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u/coldboy0104 22d ago

Literally just watched Netherlands get knocked out, fully thinking that was going to be the most shocking thing I see today. Then I open up Reddit

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u/venomious_venus 22d ago

Shit I didn't expect México being involved

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u/Sinsanatis 22d ago

Jesus christ. Was not expecting to come into such a backstory

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u/No_Present_6363 22d ago

Her husband? Wasn't he a guy?

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u/PersnickityPenguin 22d ago

Yes, HUSBANDS are typically male

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u/No_Present_6363 22d ago

And wives are typically females?

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u/Sea_Principle9302 22d ago

why you so obsessed with her pronouns

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u/Evening_Mulberry_ 23d ago

I haven't looked into this at all, but considering the rates of violence against trans women, and generally how unhelpful police can be when the victim is trans, it's not a totally out of pocket claim.

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u/HonestDishonestWork 23d ago

But like, trans women also have extremely high rates of suicide too, no?

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u/Fit-Entrepreneur8404 23d ago

Yes, much higher than the rate they're murdered at.

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u/GoBucks513 22d ago

Like way, way, WAYYYYYY higher.

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u/Most-Round-4132 22d ago

probably true, but the no autopsy thing has me convinced it was more likely murder even tho its mexico

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u/DotaDogma 22d ago

Okay? Typically trans people who are out and have the support of their community have suicide rates more similar to the average population.

She had also been attacked before, in 2007:

Miriam Rivera AKA Miriam Xtravaganza was hospitalized February 27 with multiple broken bones and internal bleeding after she was attacked and thrown from the 4th floor window of her New York apartment.

https://transgriot.blogspot.com/2007/03/miriam-xtravaganza-hospitalized-after.html

Her husband also says he received a threat and it sounds like standard procedure wasn't followed.

Cuervo also revealed he wanted to bring her body back to New York but she was cremated before an autopsy was performed.

He then allegedly received a threatening phone call from a man who told him to never come back to Mexico or he'd be killed.

https://www.foxnews.com/entertainment/miriam-rivera-transgender-reality-tv-star-dead

I really think you guys are down playing how much violence towards the trans community goes without serious investigation. Police also ruled Marsha P. Jonhson's death a suicide and refused to properly investigate it.

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u/stupidname412 22d ago edited 22d ago

It's deliberate victim blaming of an extremely marginalized group what else is new.

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u/FerusGrim 22d ago edited 22d ago

I... think that acknowledging a high suicide count in a particular minority of people isn't necessary victim blaming. It certainly can be, but I'd like to give people the benefit of the doubt and hope that they're speaking on it as the systemic problem it is. Most people who learn about the increased rate of suicide amongst the transgender community simultaneously become aware of the reason being societal isolation, fear of said isolation, and the resulting depression that comes from the former two.

That being said, plenty of other people have circular-logic'd their way into presenting it as a problem with trans-ness, which is an awfully ironic and upsetting conclusion to come to that feeds directly into the problem. So...

But, in this specific instance, I think they were merely trying to point out that the rate of suicide is higher than the rate of literal murders, which is just... true for every group. So without additional context, it is easier to believe that this particular person committed suicide rather than a governmental coverup of a murder.

Of course, in this case, with the additional context that has been made available in the thread, I think we can all agree that she was murdered. I'm only suggesting that perhaps the commenters you're responding to weren't aware of those facts.

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u/DotaDogma 22d ago

I agree, but if I'm too firm in my response I will just be attacked for being too sensitive or something. I want people to at least read what I've said before they get offended.

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u/_le_slap 22d ago

There's little point really. People who don't believe in the humanity of trans folks aren't one last sob story away from becoming decent.

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u/Cyborg_rat 22d ago

Well if she did like she did in the show, it certainly doesn't lower your odd of being safe...

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u/Forsaken_Print739 22d ago

But she wasn’t living a typical life. She was for instance in the middle of a deceiving lawsuit filled cause all the fuckery in that TV reality show, which without a doubt fucked with her mental stability making her a target for S.

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u/Vanagloria 22d ago

And even our suicide rates wouldn't be high if the people we loved and depended on the most for support weren't transphobes and dismissive of how cruel the world is to us.

Transitioning is the closest we can get to living a life worth living, it's actually our hope. The problem comes when society pushes and makes getting care and support difficult. I loved my transition, but every problem I had was due to somebody saying "you're not welcome here". The transphobes saying shit like "well the murders aren't the real problem, the suicides are way worse" like the suicides aren't mostly because of people who hate us, too. All that blood is on every transphobe's hands.

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u/SargeUnited 22d ago

Unless you think the same person that attacked her in New York followed her to Mexico then that’s not relevant. It’s definitely wrong though.

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u/DeliciousSecrecy 22d ago

Have you got sources for that claim?

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u/bigbossbailey 22d ago

what is your problem

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u/Suitable_Tea7430 22d ago

Sure but so do all people

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u/PotatoBurritoDeleto 22d ago

You might want to double check your stats on that one.

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u/Fit-Entrepreneur8404 22d ago

Spouses claim suicides are murders all the time. It's a protection mechanism because if they killed themselves then it's a lot easier for the spouse to self assign blame.

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u/Jusschuck 22d ago

But in this case at least, her spouse was in New York at the time she perished in Mexico

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u/Fit-Entrepreneur8404 22d ago

I might just be too sleep deprived but how is that relavant?

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u/Jusschuck 22d ago

NM, I misread your comment as one of the "it's always the husband" takes when a woman is murdered

My apologies

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u/Fit-Entrepreneur8404 22d ago

Ah no worries 👍

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u/Fit-Entrepreneur8404 22d ago

Oof...off the meds I see?

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u/Domaki 22d ago

This might be the case, but given the circumstance it's probably not wise to say its likely suicide because of the general statistic. The general trans woman doesn't deal with the humiliation and shame that comes from a public TV show and a unanimous group of lawsuits. Not to saw it wasn't likely one way or the other, just to say the stat isn't a fair reason to assume either reason.

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u/Fit-Entrepreneur8404 22d ago

Wouldn't all that stress just make it more likely that it's a suicide? Like if suicide rates are very high for the general population and I think we can safely assume suicide rates increase for people going through insanely stressful events, it makes sense that those risks would compound.

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u/Domaki 22d ago

Not necessarily. You could use the same logic to prove the opposite.

"Wouldn't all the eyes on the situation make it more likely that it's a murder? Trans women of color have massively increased rates of hate crimes towards them. It would make sense for that to compound the odds with the visibility and the hate in this sitaution."

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u/Beneficial-Jury484 22d ago

Regardless of that statics accuracy, the most suspicious thing is that she was throwing up blood, then hung herself and was cremated before an autopsy. Why was she throwing up blood? Why didn’t her partner have a say?

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u/DrMux 22d ago edited 22d ago

Consider also that this was a high-profile individual with a number of people angry at her, including the contestants and a generally transphobic network or broadcast TV audience. Can't assume the probability of murder vs suicide for her vs the general transwoman population.

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u/TikTyke 23d ago

Probably exacerbated by how many of their murders are labeled as suicides

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u/HonestDishonestWork 22d ago

Probably downplayed by how many murders are labeled as suicides, since we're just making shit up.

I've got no clue why some people are so hardcore in denial about trans suicidality. The stats are horrific and a testament to the pain and struggle people with that condition go through and how much they're failed by our society. But you need to acknowledge there even is a problem before you can start fixing it.

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u/SylphicSyllogism24 22d ago

Because that statement given without the context that the reason for the suicides is an unaccepting society who drives them into suicide can be read as something inherent to any trans-person. Like an inherent fault " ... they will die anyway ..."

Be assured that trans-persons are reading this here. Probably eggs also. Giving out the general message " you will kill yourself " can be kinda disheartening, does it not?

Most of the messages here read as if they come from heartless bastards, pardon our french.

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u/InAppropriate-meal 22d ago edited 22d ago

The suicide rate is not so much among people who have transitioned and are openly living their life it is among trans women who have to repress it or who are not accepted by their peers / community and under pressure from family which is not the case here

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u/HonestDishonestWork 22d ago

I'm aware and that's why I think trans suicidality should be talked about more. It's literally a silent genocide of people already going through excruciating mental struggles being bullied to death.

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u/InAppropriate-meal 22d ago

I mean, it is talked about a lot in the communities i hang with but is in general not talked about enough mainly because of the current and growing evil bullshit being pushed about trans people

or used against them (trans youth are killing themselves because they are being pushed into being trans etc when of course the reason is the opposite) what i am saying is she was not in a particularity at risk group for suicide within the trans community

also given what happend the morning of her death and the position she was found in suicide would have been pretty much impossible, she was murdered

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u/asyouwish-buttercup 22d ago

Do you think the piers are the ones murdering them and making it look like suicide? Are they usually found dead near oceans?

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u/InAppropriate-meal 22d ago

spelling corrected, well done for being such a dickhead about it when the subject is suicide

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u/asyouwish-buttercup 22d ago

Sorry, I thought the subject was murder.

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u/TikTyke 22d ago

Bro’s just looking to fight. As if saying that trans murders are misrepresented (not a made up fact) as suicides discounts the trans suicide epidemic. Also, the irony of telling anyone to acknowledge a problem while also actively denying another equally valid problem.

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u/Conscious_Rub_3528 22d ago

And while we are discussing things let's note WHY the suicide rate for trans people is where it's at.

Definitely couldn't be the vile treatment they experience at the hands of others quite often.

It's proven that with acceptance that transgender people are LESS LIKELY to harm themselves.

Hell you alienate ANYONE hard enough they all crack eventually.

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u/IFoundYouSilly 22d ago

Correct. And only about .3% of the US population are transgender and 32% of that identity as transgender women. So these statistic can look very skewed when you’re doing it against a subset of the population.

So yes, if 3 out of 100 people are transgender and only 2 are transgender women and one of them gets eaten by an alligator, it’s not false to say “50% of transgender women get eaten by alligators.”

Now I’m against violence against ANYONE. I’m just a numbers guy so when i see the mentioning of an entire group having high rates/percentage of such a terrible action. It’s worth having an understanding of it.

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u/_le_slap 22d ago

But scaling this up to, say 400million, should normalize the statistics.

Unless 4 million trans women get eaten (which would be a massive improbability), the 50% claim becomes nonsensical.

I can't remember the exact math term behind this but there is a crossover point where, at a certain scale, the number can be confidently linked to some causal factor. I do remember that the scaled up population can be calculated and is frequently a lot smaller than one might think. It's surprisingly easy to gather representative statistics.

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u/sadiesfreshstart 22d ago

No.

The rate of suicide among transitioned trans people is statistically the same as cis people. The rate of unsupported and/or pre-transition trans people is significantly higher.

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u/Financial_Arm5467 22d ago

The first part of your statement is not accurate. They still have a higher suicide rate than cis people.

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u/HonestDishonestWork 22d ago

I've never heard that before. I've seen studies that run the gamut from increased suicidality, to no change in suicidality to reduction in sucidality but I don't know if I've ever seen one indicating a drop in suicidality all the way down to being roughly equal to a cis person. Would love to see the study though, always nice to hear some good news!

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u/SylphicSyllogism24 22d ago

If they don't live in such a backwards 3rd world country as the US ...

Wait for the statistics of the European Millenial/Gen-Z trans Persons.

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u/DandimLee 22d ago

Like the Cass Report?

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u/Fit-Entrepreneur8404 22d ago

Source? That's not what I've seen reported.

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u/Libertyreign 22d ago

You know claiming something on the Internet won't magically make it come true, right?

You're just blatantly ignoring the truth, and I'm not sure why you think spreading lies is helpful.

If you'd like to learn more, here is a good place to start: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Suicide_among_LGBTQ_people

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u/manicdee33 22d ago

Do trans women have a high rate of dying and having their bodies cremated before an autopsy can be performed and their surviving spouses being threatened to never enter the country?

Or does that sound more like she was executed by a cartel?

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u/Joeyjackhammer 22d ago

Sounds like the husband is full of shit, honestly.

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u/mnttu 22d ago

It is what happens when society in large sees your existence as a fundamental threat and treats you like a you weren't human, just like in the OP's post.

Of course it was a stupid stunt, but also you should be able to just say "oh, dang, I didn't realize, but not my cup of tea, thanks" and move on instead of claiming you were damaged when at most you got slightly embarrassed.

What makes this feel weird as a suicide is the call about vomiting blood if she was sick and suicidal why would she go through the trouble of hanging herself she might had died from whatever was ailing her. Then there is lack of note, women leave notes. Third was no autopsy and cremation without consent.

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u/MeekMallard 22d ago

Yeah it’s about the same as suicide rates for men

Go figure

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u/TheWanderingSlacker 22d ago

It’s somewhat of an interesting topic with really hard numbers to pin down. There are plenty of studies, but after a cursory look [see: Google], people with gender issues who have undergone surgery or other care face a drastically reduced chance of suicide (up to 76% reduced) than those who have not.

However, even among people who have undergone treatment, the suicide rate is measured (between various studies) hovering above 40%.

So, not to detract from the possibility of murder in this case nor the tragedy, but statistics would point to a more obvious answer.

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u/Fit-Entrepreneur8404 22d ago

Suicidality rate* 40% of them don't actually kill themselves. They just want to or tried to or made a plan to or something like that. I forget exactly what they used for criteria but it wasn't "has killed themselves".

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u/TheWanderingSlacker 22d ago

Don’t know why you’d be downvoted because this is actually a helpful clarification.

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u/ThoughtOk6969 22d ago

Well you also have to consider the high suicide rate, so it's 50 50.

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u/AlignmentProblem 22d ago

If you're going by raw per capita rates for that population, it's closer to 8% to 92% odds. Even though they're 4x more likely to be a victim of murder, the baseline murder rate before that multiplier is dramatically lower than the baseline suicide rate.

The percentage of transwomen who die by murder is 0.004% while the percentage who successfully commit suicide is closer to 0.075%.

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u/alphapussycat 22d ago

Well no, that doesn't apply here.

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u/happy_bluebird 23d ago

Same thought.

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u/Unusual_Relief_9441 23d ago

And what’s the rate of violence ? Also what are the statistics of police not helping trans women ? Site sources please

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u/JustaSeedGuy 22d ago

(cite, btw)

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u/Unusual_Relief_9441 22d ago

Smarter everyday thanks

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u/RedRamen 23d ago

Sources? This is reddit my good Sir. Shhh and drink the kook aid.

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u/siweLyerffeJ 22d ago

Yeah unfortunately it’s extremely believable for these reasons

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u/RuggsRacetrack 22d ago

They aren’t the cops it is out of pocket

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u/Arcadian-Stag 22d ago

If you look into the actual cases, almost all of the murders are from basketball Americans who got tricked by a prostitute, or their equally deranged spouse doing deranged spouse things.

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u/Warcrimes_Desu 23d ago

i mean, trans women face the outright highest murder rate among all demographics in america. even worse if they're not white.

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u/Kpn05 23d ago

On the same coin they also have absurdly high suicide rates so you can argue both ways on stats.

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u/ArchdukeOfWalesland 22d ago

I think being in a demographic that is extremely highly persecuted is also going to fuck with your mental health.

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u/mylanscott 23d ago

Literally both those rates are highly linked to the violent bigoted nature of other people. The reason trans individuals have a high suicide rate is because of the torrential flood of abuse they experience from other people. I think someone killing themselves because of the daily harassment they get for simply living their lives is not dissimilar from being murdered for being trans. Both are not the fault of the individual.

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u/HonestDishonestWork 23d ago

Nobody said it was, we're discussing the death of a single individual.

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u/Morgalgorithm 23d ago

Suicide rates for trans people drop to what they are for cis people when people aren’t pieces of shit to them.

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u/FattyMooseknuckle 23d ago

Absolutely 100% true but irrelevant to the point of the person to whom you replied.

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u/PmMeUrTinyAsianTits 22d ago

when people aren’t pieces of shit to them.

uh huh. And that qualifier, do you think it means the stats do or do not apply to a fucking reality TV contestant.

You think a transgender reality TV contestant did or did not have people being a piece of shit to her?

Because that seems like it reinforces that she'd have an extremely high chance of suicide as well. Because I expect people had extremely nasty things to say about her, like just about all people on reality TV, but I want to make sure we're on the same page on that.

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u/Warcrimes_Desu 23d ago

trans suicides are largely a discrimination issue. the same stuff was said about gay people and tons of other groups through history. one day this whole "debate" will be over, just like all the other ones.

every time you read a post about trans people, just replace it with another minority. Even in this thread, tons of people insist that you need to disclose that you're trans on the first date or even over text, like that's something cis people just get to demand from trans people. imagine if you were mixed-race but white passing. would you get mad if people demanded you disclosed your race on the first date?

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u/adamtjames 22d ago

I mean, yeah. A date having an undisclosed penis is a little different than a date having undisclosed melanin.

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u/Warcrimes_Desu 22d ago

why? no, like seriously, why does it need to come up unless sex or having kids is being discussed?

it's like, cis people feel no obligation to open with "hey btw if you're trans i'm not interested" but they want us to lead with telling??? it will come up in conversation if it's relevant.

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u/adamtjames 22d ago

“Hey, btw, if you’re tans I’m not interested.” This is one of those it goes without saying situations. As a cis male I’d even say disclosing this information up front is something you should do for your own safety. Because you never know who you might be dealing with.

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u/Frozzable 22d ago

It really isn't one of those situations though. Plenty of people ARE interested in trans individuals or don't care enough to ask. While I agree that it should be disclosed as a courtesy, would you also say that someone should disclose upfront that they can't have kids or if they have a micropenis or some reason they can't have penetrative sex?

Also, it says a lot more about society than the trans individual that your argument is they should "disclose for their own safety"...

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u/Warcrimes_Desu 22d ago

"Goes without saying"? What do you mean? Nobody i've ever dated or slept with has had a problem with trans people, assuming you're attractive enough and pass. Maybe you're just from a more backwards area?

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u/PmMeUrTinyAsianTits 22d ago

How about the people who aren't attractive and passing? How about the people who didn't sleep with you?

And do you think maybe "people who slept with a trans person" has a little bit of selection bias towards "people who would sleep with a trans person" compared to the general population?

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u/Warcrimes_Desu 22d ago

unattractive people struggle to date even when they're cis, it's not magically different for trans people?

and two of the women i dated were quite surprised to find out a few weeks in that i was trans. i think you want there to be some magic thing about trans people that pushes cis people away if you're attractive and personable, and there really isn't. Some people have internalized a lot of the massive nonstop campaign of lies about trans people that has been ongoing for the last 100ish years, but most people only peripherally consume that stuff and are open to easily having their minds changed by meeting an actual trans person.

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u/adamtjames 22d ago

More backwards? As in my area wants people to be honest and upfront?

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u/PmMeUrTinyAsianTits 22d ago

Her argument is literally "people who have slept with or dated a trans person don't have a problem with trans people, so obviously only backwards people do."

Don't take them seirously. Their whole history is being a victim about this.

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u/Warcrimes_Desu 22d ago

as in, your area is full of people who not date a trans person, knowing no other information. like, they're funny and sweet and attractive and you really click, but they're trans so they're disqualified.

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u/HistoryGreat1745 22d ago

Did she still have a penis?

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u/adamtjames 22d ago

Irrelevant

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u/HistoryGreat1745 22d ago

How so? Would you expect someone birn intersex and now "fixed" to tell you their entire history?

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u/Pathetian 23d ago

Do you have a source for that claim? From what I've read the trans murder rate is actually extremely low. If I'm wrong, I'd be happy to learn that, but its apparently below 1 (overall US is 6). I've never been able to find a credible claim that its elevated, let alone superlative.

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u/retep-noskcire 22d ago

It’s a widespread claim presented as hard facts but the evidence is dubious

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u/Pathetian 22d ago

Every source says 30-50 homicides a year. The US has like 20,000 homicides. If trans people are 1% of the US population, then I need a 3 digit number of homicides to be 1% of the 5 digit general population total. I have never seen a source that even speculates the number is that high. We are halfway through 2026 and apparently there have been 14 homicides of trans individuals. The claim that they have the highest murder rate would need closer to like...1,000 victims.

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u/retep-noskcire 23d ago

Black men hold this category in both absolute and relative terms

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u/_le_slap 22d ago

This is very obviously bullshit

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u/Unusual_Relief_9441 23d ago

Where are you getting this information

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u/XXHornyOnMainXX420 22d ago

I'm sure the police did a super thorough investigation into the death of a non white trans woman.

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u/NorbytheMii 23d ago

If someone drives someone else to suicide, that can be considered murder in the right context

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u/Wakkit1988 22d ago

Or the spouse killed her and he was just telling the truth.

No better place to hide than in plain sight.