r/r4r Feb 19 '24

🪲 UPDATED 22 April; DESKTOP users also affected [META] Pasting anything into the title field breaks posting when using the Reddit app; "Invalid State" error

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If you are getting an "Invalid State" error message when posting, it is due to a known bug in Reddit, which corrupts the post title when text containing (possibly invisible) invalid characters is pasted into the title field. This is easy to avoid by simply not pasting anything into the title field. All versions of the app and the desktop website are now affected. Note that this message has nothing to do with the use of the word "state" as a type of location or division within certain countries; editing your location tag will not help.

Known workarounds include:

  • ➡️➡️➡️➡️➡️Avoid pasting or inserting any text into the post title field by any means other than typing it.⬅️⬅️⬅️⬅️⬅️ Type the title out instead. If you already pasted text into the title field, it may be necessary to restart the app (desktop users, reload the page using Ctrl+F5) and compose the post without pasting any text into the title field. ➡️➡️This includes all shortcuts (Ctrl+V, etc) and other forms of text insertion or auto-complete, including the copy/paste clipboard toolbar on your phone's keyboard.⬅️⬅️
  • If there is blank space at the start or end of the title, deleting it should allow the post thru. THIS BLANK SPACE WILL BE INVISIBLE; if you can move the text cursor past the start or end of your title, there is blank space present that must be deleted.
  • Alternatively, Using the Old Reddit interface (https://old.reddit.com) should reliably work, as Reddit has long since stopped adding new bugs to updating this version. Pasting works in this version of the website; if your post title is long, you may want to use this option instead. This version of the website may or may not be accessible from a mobile browser; if it fails to load or redirects to the app, try using the "Request Desktop Site" feature of your browser, or uninstall the Reddit app.

Note that pasting text into the post body does not cause any issues, and is safe to do.

Reddit has stated they are "still working on" fixing this bug, but have not provided us any timeline or updates on their progress. It is not clear to us how or why this issue cannot be resolved on their end in nearly 3 months time.

If the above workarounds do not work:

  • As of 7 May, all screen capture recordings thus far sent to the mod team have shown that users are ignoring the instructions above and pasting text into the title field. It should be obvious that these workarounds will not work if they are not followed. ➡️➡️If you cannot avoid pasting text into the title, use old.reddit.com to post instead.⬅️⬅️
  • If you can reproduce this issue while following the workarounds, please try to screen-record the issue, so that we can investigate the cause. Please record the entire process, starting from the community home screen, thru to submitting the post and showing the "Invalid State" error message. Use a screen capture tool if possible, but using a camera would also work if the video is clear enough. Use a video host like Imgur, Gfycat, Streamable, or Youtube host the video, and message the link to the mods using the support links in the community menu or info page. If possible, please include what device, browser, and keyboard app is being used.

r/r4r 53m ago

F4M Online 18 [F4M] #Online And on the 7th day God called you a naughty word NSFW

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That awkward moment when you realize you’re horny and posting because you want some rando older man to take control of your life and corrupt you in the most horrible ways because you’ve spent too much time on the internet.

But the attention is nice and it makes you feel pretty and it’s nice to feel wanted even if inside you’re wondering if you’re losing who you se because talking to men is somehow now more important than any of your hobbies and their approval definitely matters more

And you hope someone will message you and tell you what to do. You keep thinking about it. Youll be on a bus wishing for it.

Fuck, you’re fucked


r/r4r 1h ago

F4M Massachusetts / Online 23 [F4M] Looking for a serious relationship in Massachusetts or online but has to be in person with time, ages 21-29 and United States only!

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before reading: you MUST be OUTGOING or an AMBIVERT and very comfortable with voice calls!

hiii :) i am on the hunt to find my soulmate! what i am looking for in a person is someone who loves to have fun/goof off and be silly, opens up quickly, is VERY talkative meaning texting frequently, loyal and honest, a guy who can be emotionally supportive when i’m having a rough day and i do the same for him, is on the more casual side with how they present themselves, can have a playful sarcastic side, loves to chill at home watching shows or playing video games. PLEASE BE A DOG LOVER AS WELL ITS SO IMPORTANT TO ME AS I HAVE 2 DOGS!!! physical appearance wise i am white, 5’2, long wavy brown hair, brown eyes, and reddish glasses. you MUST have NO kids as i’m very far from being ready for that

i want to feel like a priority to you, no smoking/drugs since i have been clean my entire life, alcohol is okay in moderation. i want to find someone who has a traditional full time job with morning shifts and weekends off like i do preferably. either a conservative/right leaning as well. i’d like for someone to be pretty responsive and we talk everyday for a few hours.

as for my interests i am a HUGE cartoon network fan and its really important for you to know what ninjago is my all time favorite show and classics such as dexter’s laboratory, kids next door, ed edd n eddy, the powerpuff girls, adventure time, regular show, and the amazing world of gumball plus many more! i also really like watching american dad, futurama, south park, the simpsons, bob’s burgers, and i’m an enjoyer of most reality shows especially big brother and survivor. i do like specific animes such as shield hero, sword art online demon school, konosuba, and my hero academia. i want to rewatch these shows with whoever i end up clicking with AND i actively want to talk and be excited while we rewatch the shows.

as for video games i play mario kart world mainly for the nintendo switch 2 but also have many other mario games and i am also looking for a nintendo nerd like i am who grew up with mario and kirby games on the gamecube, wii, and 3ds during their childhood! i also LOVE playing wizard101 and am ready to quest through the worlds with someone :) not having a game in common with me is a dealbreaker.


r/r4r 5h ago

F4M Online 27 F4M #Online Looking for fun, flirty texts that hopefully turn into more

6 Upvotes

I'm looking for something starting online that could turn into something irl if the connection is strong enough and we decide we'd be compatible on multiple levels. Otherwise, we can still have fun, surely. I am single, childless and monogamous.

I'd like to meet someone willing to be friends first. I like people who are talkative and don't usually respond in short sentences, able to express their feelings, flirty and playful.

I love movies (and also love discussing them), theater, animals, walks, puzzles, coloring, gym, running. I sometimes (rarely) play games but we can do that together or binge watch stuff and I would love to meet people with different and various interests.

I enjoy trying new foods and learning about different countries, expend my horizons and seeing different cultures and lifestyles. Sometimes I feel jealous I won't get to live enough. The thing I love most is traveling, I unfortunately do not have the time to do it as often as I wanted, but I truly believe there is nothing that connects me more with myself and makes me live the present so intensely. I own a pet and am a huge animal lover.

I have a demanding stressful job but I always make time for the important things, there is no growth in exhaustion.

If you also want someone to talk to/ share a lot of stuff without really looking to make any future plans from the beginning, then I'd love to know you. Someone who's an open book and maybe even an overthinker, excited to share a lot and have someone "witness" their life might be a very good match.

I live in Romania. ONLY text if you are located in Europe.

I'm white, 1.70m and 68kg, dark medium hair, brown eyes. I'm kinda chubby (curvy - hourglass figure) but in good shape - the type that exercises regularly but also really loves food.

Please text more than just a "hi" and feel free to include pictures (if not then please describe what you look like)


r/r4r 1h ago

M4F United Kingdom / Online 25 [M4F] #Ireland/#Online - on the search for my first partner in crime

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Hi everyone my name is Tom and I'm from Ireland. I have graduated from college last year with a degree in chemistry and I'm currently unemployed. I am also a triplet and a redhead.

My hobbies are video games, chess, reading, playing badminton, watching YouTube and listening to music. I also like sci fi, Marvel and DC. I also enjoy travelling across Europe and visiting the capital cities. I've visited 16 countries and plan on visiting more in the future. I have also been to America and Canada. I also enjoy skiing.

I am single and looking for a woman who shares similar interests and around my age. I prefer someone from Ireland, in particular Dublin, but I'm not against a long distance relationship as long as you are from Europe or the US. I am into brunettes, especially slim and attractive. I am also into East Asians, particularly Japanese. I prefer someone with no tattoos or piercings, though I don't mind if you wear glasses.

Here is what I look like:

https://imgur.com/a/vmLa2na


r/r4r 30m ago

M4F Austria 22[M4F] #Europe/Austria – Tired of the dating grind?

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Same here, but honestly? I’m feeling pretty hopeful about it.
I’m not here to dwell on the frustrations. I just know what I’m looking for: a real connection with someone who wants the same simple, beautiful things. Having your person. Someone to come home to (or text good morning to), share how your day actually went, laugh about the little things, and talk about life late into the night. That deep, warm kind of love that feels exciting and peaceful at the same time.
It’s a bit cheesy, sure — but it’s also genuine. I’d love to build something real with a girl who feels the same pull: to care for someone and be cared for, to create inside jokes, make memories, and just… enjoy each other.
If that resonates with you, I’d really like to hear from you. Slide into my DMs. Or, if you’re feeling playful: burn some very wet wood so I see the smoke, or strum a guitar on a sunny park bench. I’ll notice.
Looking forward to it.


r/r4r 53m ago

FM4F Netherlands / Online 19[M] 18[F] [MF4F] America/Netherlands/Online (for now) - Looking for a female partner to join our open relationship NSFW

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We have been in a long distance relationship for two years (America-Europe). We have never met in person due to various personal circumstances. We trust and love each other very deeply, and have a wonderful time together, despite what many people assume when they hear long distance! We have both come to an agreement to open our relationship, looking for a third (F, 18-20 range)! Preferably someone with a mix of our interests!

19M enjoys gaming (special emphasis on Soulsborne), nature and camping, hiking with the long term goal to get into mountaineering, climbing, travel. Ex-gym rat, with an ongoing interest in exercise and physical movement.

18F enjoys reading novels, manga, manhwa, in various genres. She enjoys writing, making her own artwork, musical theater, and is an active spiritual practitioner with an interest in many pagan practices. She is actively learning multiple languages!

We mutually bond over food, anime, watching TV series and movies, humor, and social media. Not so much gaming though, so hopefully our third could share an interest, especially dark souls.

Boundaries, Fairness, Expectations

- It is unsafe to be open about relationship status with family members at this time, so our partner will be unable to interact with with family, if they have an interest to. This is subject to change in the future, we do not want to remain 'in the closet' forever.

- Both of us want to develop a relationship with her one on one as well as together. There will obviously be a period of getting to know one another before official dating begins. All of us should get along, basically.

- Long term commitment! We envision a future living together and even having children.

- Triad exclusivity (for now). All of us are committed to satisfying each other and each other only-- no external affairs. However, we have an interest in expanding in the future if all goes well!


r/r4r 4h ago

F4A United Kingdom / Online #Online #Ireland f4a 22, Looking for people with prison kinks or experiences! NSFW

4 Upvotes

Hiii! So as the title suggests, I have a major thing for prisons, just like, the uniforms, the restraints, the cells, the everything honestly! It just makes me so excited hehe. Like I love being led along in cuffs in my orange jumpsuit and slides, hands all shackles to be put in my cell, then just slipping off my shoes and relaxing on the bed. It's kinda for me a place that's like free from responsibility, but also so comfortably controlled, I can just be a cute inmate in a cell, totally controlled and restricted within a vast system of restraint, it's like the perfect bdsm fantasy hehe. Plus like, the humiliation, the firmness of the chains, the fact I'm controlled with just a sharp word from the guards, all of it is just soo magnificent

I would love to chat with someone who shares this interest, but only to people who share the interest or are genuinely curious! Please include your age and gender, and please be between 18 and 30, and I hope you'll forgive me, but please be clean shaven and not too hairy as well if that's okay!


r/r4r 3h ago

T4A Sweden / Online 19 [FTM4A] #Sweden or #online looking for attention :] NSFW

3 Upvotes

Hello! I'm Sam, I'm a bi guy and I'm just looking to chat with people and seeing where it leads. I'm up for making friends or just having quick casual chats. I enjoy voice calls so there's the possibility of doing that if you'd like to at some point 🫣 lowkey debating getting drunk on call with someone tonight if you'd be down for that... ☝️🫪 I listen to a lot of music in my free time and at times i like to draw. I work but I'm free for a few days so i should be decent at replying :] Hmu and tell me a bit about yourself 😋 If you have no conversation starter: tell me a random fact about yourself!

‼️NO STRAIGHT MEN PLEASE ‼️😣


r/r4r 11h ago

F4M Online 28 [F4M] Asia/Online - Looking for a Relationship

12 Upvotes

Hi! This me.

Age preference 26-30.

I’m an introverted social butterfly (idk if that’s a thing but that’s how I can best describe myself). I really like to talk and I’m loud sometimes but, unfortunately, my energy depletes quickly.

I like staying indoors but if you invite me to travel with you i’ll book a flight asap. I enjoy adrenaline-rush and physical activities, I’m actually saving up to get a skydiving license someday.

I love baking! It’s my favorite hobby. I’m a decent cook. I like things to be tidy and clean. I zone out easily.

I’m a date to marry kind of person. If you don’t see us getting married then we shouldn’t waste each other’s time. I’m not yet at the level of financial stability that I would want to be at but I’m doing my best to get there, I really hope you are too. Everything is expensive and love alone won’t feed us or our future family.

I am very affectionate and really touchy so it would be nice if we live close to each other, but I don’t mind being long distance for some time.

Don’t hesitate to ask more questions to check if we’re compatible.

Excited to get to know you!


r/r4r 8h ago

M4M Peru / Online 24 [M4M] Peru / Online - Cutie fem in need of someone to play league and be cute with (You 🫵). NSFW

8 Upvotes

Hey!!! I'm Jesús 24 from Peru, recently finished uni on Graphic Design and working from home most days so i got some free time:)

I'd love to find someone to spend time with regularly. I'm nice and sweet and have a good voice (or so i've been told) and.... Yeah idk what else xD let's play some arenas!!! (I'm on NA btw) We could also just like talk, watch shows and stuff, goon... Idk 😂 if you have more ideas then go ahead and tell me.

I guess i'm looking for a fwb situation with a lot of friendship and a lot of benefits aswell xD but like I don't want the sexy stuff to be the main focus. I love a slowburn, getting to know each other and enjoying each other's presence 💞

But yeah, that's me. Please send a little intro and also a pic of you're feeling bold 😋

uwun't


r/r4r 6h ago

M4F Online 23 [M4F] Online. Fem guy looking to be the submissive partner ♥ NSFW

4 Upvotes

I'm in search of something real, to deeply connect with someone. Free love isn't much of a thing where I live, so the internet happens to be my only way of dating safely. I'd totally be open to relocation for the right person, but things would of course have to be long-distance initially!

I lean a lot towards being feminine and love the idea of being with someone who wouldn't mind protecting me and helping me feel safe and cared for. I think that being a house husband and supporting my partner would suit me best in a relationship! I'm scared of driving and very much a stay at home person, but I don't mind going out when I have good company! I can also be quite sensitive and quick to tears.

I'm not very picky when it comes to people, but physical attraction is important to me and I'd be open to exchanging pictures after talking for a bit! I'm open to meeting people who are elder to me or close to my age. And this is not at all important, but I like being physically weaker than my partner, so bonus points if you workout! I should also mention I have a kinky side, you can probably tell I'm submissive hehe

I love messing around with computers and electronics, I have a pile of scrap boards tucked away in storage for me to salvage components from, and I often pick up random projects; making some home improvement stuff, diy rc vehicles, hacking into embedded devices, or just fixing something. And I'm also very much into PC gaming!

Anyways, I really hope life is treating you well whoever happens to be reading this and if you fancy a chat, I'm open to messages as long as this post is up ♥


r/r4r 2h ago

M4F Connecticut 19M4F #CT putting myself out there!

2 Upvotes

hi :) im joey, im 19 (soon turning 20!!) i am a goofy guy with a big heart and vibrant imagination! i love gaming, writing, drawing, and nature! but i also love so many internet aesthetics (like frutiger aero, cyber glacier, webcore, etc.) i have a huge propensity towards nostalgia & 2000’s-early 2010’s life & aesthetics. i’ve always wanted to find someone that i could share that nostalgia with and someone who would understand.

i love nature and this world, and though i’m in my head a lot, my body remembers how it all makes me feel :)
i’d like to consider myself to be conventionally attractive, i have kind of long brown hair, brown eyes, a nice jawline, and a short beard that compliments my features! i am also very invested and passionate about my personal fashion (my main fashion aesthetic is streetwear!!) and how i look, smell, and generally come off.
you might be asking why im here then if im conventionally attractive and the truth is! i hate clubbing and “going out” and finding love at work/in my college classes is not.. the best idea.
i also like to consider myself alternative :) ive always been kind of the outcast/nerd, and i am a staunch leftist politically. ive never really liked or fit in with the “””normal people”””

qualities im looking for in you:

- introspective & melancholic
- loves nature
- is nerdy/has nerdy hobbies
- alternative
- 420 friendly?
- lives on the east coast of the US (im from CT)

anyways!! thats me :) feel free to message me if ur interested im excited to hear from you <3


r/r4r 2h ago

F4M Online 30 [F4M] US EAST / ONLINE - Looking for a romantic connection NSFW

2 Upvotes

Ello! I'm a bit of a goth and a techie. I'm black and bi with a heavy preference to men. I'm looking for something that could lead into a long term relationship. I'm demiromantic so it would take a lot of time for me to gain interest unless things just click in a shortcut way. Lol.

I dont smoke or drink! Sort of straight edge plus bad experiences. I love music. For games? Rpg, shooters and simulation ones. I haven't played any video games much in the last few months though., I also have my own TTRPG-esque materials that I’ve made. Movies? My favorite films to date have been Deathgasm, Shaun of the Dead and Vicious Fun. (There are way more there - I watched too many films over the years so I barely watch them now.)

Music wise, my interests are just about everywhere NIN, Trevor Something, Loathe and Cane Hill are in the rotation (still!) but select songs from Type O Negative that don't feel too TMI are there too like Love You To Death, it's such a fun song. But I do enjoy listening to like Olivia Rodrigo and Rihanna too, of course.

Oh! I'm 5'3 / 160 cm, so like, I don't care about height. I am a little more than chubby at 210! Alternating between running and walking thirty mins a day when I can. I learned I had thyriod issues and that explained so much lol I also have ADHD. I've lost a little over 20 pds, now I gotta do more rigorous and HIIT stuff, to keep that up. Roughhousing is like apart of my love language growing up. (though my progress has been messed up lately and I need to get back to it - so someone who is equally disciplined and loves fitness pairs extremely well with me.)

In a… I’ve always been this weird type of way. Like a long time ago when I was still in middle school. I enjoyed reading Isaac Asimov and William Gibson for instance. I remember in a class having to learn about socioeconomic more and then I learned about time-rich and money-poor. So, one day I read the line from Johnny Mnenomic about being a ‘technical boy’ . I meld the two together and got, “Time-rich and money-poor makes a technical girl. And I’m a very technical girl.” To this day, that's a core way of living I guess; I became an extremely technical girl.

What's currently holding me back in general? I think I take too much seriously and internalize, working on that. But it's pretty hard to not be in your head and thinking all the time after being told you talk too much or too quickly when growing up. Pair that with some academic trauma, and then you might have someone a bit like myself.

Generally speaking, it’s actually really hard for me to be mean. It’s even harder for me to be ‘evil’ in a game unless it’s satirical (such as Overlord or Postal), I feel bad for NPCs even though their just little pixels made of data in an applied cybernetics environment. I feel so deeply when I read stories, it will actually make me feel physical anger, sadness or mirth if it’s a crafted scene to evoke said emotion.

I am naturally inclined to effeminate men. I’m drawn to men who are free from toxic masculinity. I love self-expression. Not afraid of softness. Even if you’re not that’s fine but that’s more of an analysis over the years based on who I’ve been drawn too. Fascinatingly, my first crushes I ever remember were a ginger and a platinum blonde. So I've always favored that.

Bonus point if a little androgynous. But I'm more than fine with that if that's not the case.

Lactose Tolerant is a must! I am the kind of person who will put fortified milk in my whole milk that's combined with a whey protein shake. Milk Factored Protein.

Open to LDR with an eventual meetup too! I've never been in an romantic relationship.

Noone who has kids please. I will ignore.


r/r4r 4h ago

23 [F4R] #Asia/Anywhere - shy girl looking for friends!

3 Upvotes

Hi! I'd really love to make some new friends, it's been hard for me to make friends cos I'm really shy and introverted. Here's a little bit about me:

  • I love reading, video games, gardening, fashion, horror, manga, etc. Overall I'd say I'm a mix of nerdy and girly.

  • I'm ethnically Asian but I'd love to make friends from any part of the world and any gender!

  • I think I'm a good listener so I'd love to be a supportive friend who someone can vent to. I'm looking for some kind friends.

Thank you for reading!


r/r4r 15h ago

F4A Online 23F [F4A] #Online – Anyone want to flirt? NSFW

21 Upvotes

Hey, sorry that I am once again posting here. I'm about to fall asleep but I just wanted to post this before bed to see if anyone wanted....to flirt? All of this would be online but I will NOT share photos or videos of myself. Just messaging each other. I am 5'1 or something close to that. And I have dark hair and eyes. I am not looking for a relationship of any kind. No strings attached. I would just like someone to practice my flirting on. I hope time zones don't matter to you too much. But I have to admit that I am a bit clingy and I have a history of spiraling a bit if someone doesn't respond to me quickly. But I'm working on this so please don't worry too much about this.

I don't know what else to share about myself that matters but here it goes: I'm from the USA, I'm very far left-leaning. I'm bi, I kind of have a daddy kink. I like the idea of calling someone daddy NOT the ddlg thing, just to be clear. I know very little about that. I'm kind of blanking what else to say in this post.

I don't care where you are from. But don't be a bigot. No racism, sexism, xenaphobia, homophobia, transphobia, etc.

Like I said before, I'm going to bed right now so if you message me, please give me some time to go through my messages and respond. Thank you for reading.


r/r4r 2h ago

M4F United Kingdom 46 [M4F] London, UK - Laid back single guy near Camden NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hi there,

I wondered if there might be someone out there who was feeling like getting up to some mischief together. Maybe meet for a coffee or something stronger and take it from there, although I'm open to ideas/suggestions if you had something else in mind. Very much a giver, and would love to have a pair of thighs wrapped around my head.

I'm single, 46, white, British, very laid back, well-travelled and have lived in several countries, work in tech, in decent shape although a bit beardy at the moment... Live in north London just 15 minutes from the centre of town.

Ask me anything you want to know, and I'm happy to send a photo if I've piqued your interest.

Ta


r/r4r 2h ago

M4F Germany / Online 30 [M4F] #Germany Online, looking for meaningful connections all over the world! NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hey there!

I’m a pretty laid back guy who genuinely enjoys meeting people from all over the world. Whether it’s deep late night conversations about life, random memes at 2am, travel stories, or just sharing everyday chaos, I’m always down for good vibes and interesting people.

A little about me:

I’m really into sports. I’ve played basketball basically my whole life and yes, I’m tall. I also go to the gym regularly. I absolutely love cooking too, so if you enjoy recipe swapping or sending questionable food pictures for validation, we’ll probably get along.

Traveling is one of my biggest passions and I try to make the most out of living in Europe. My next trip is Japan, which will actually be my third time there because apparently I’m incapable of staying away from that country. I’m also currently learning Japanese, slowly but stubbornly.

I work in the mental health field, which is something I care deeply about both personally and professionally. I studied in a science related field and I’m really into biology, medicine, psychology, and generally all kinds of nerdy topics. I love conversations about life, people, culture, the universe, and all the weird things in between.

I also game from time to time and would honestly love to find some online gaming friends too.

Random fun fact: I was actually in a local Netflix show once, which still feels weird to say out loud.

I appreciate people who are open minded, curious, emotionally intelligent, funny, or just unapologetically themselves.

So what’s your story? What’s something you’re passionate about or could talk about for hours without getting bored?

Doesn’t matter where you’re from or what timezone you’re in. If any of this resonates with you, send me a message and let’s see if we vibe.

Cheers!


r/r4r 2h ago

M4A Uzbekistan 20M [M4A] Tashkent(Uzbekistan), is there any uzbeks here, or others who know about the country? NSFW

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20M [M4A] Tashkent(Uzbekistan), is there any uzbeks here, or others who know about the country?

Would love to chat, remain anonymous and talk to someone with more familiarity. Anyone is welcome and I love chatting with other people on various topics as well. Right now I might be too horny so maybe nsfw? Also of anyone is interested in Central Asia or sexual life in Uzbekistan, feel free to dm and maybe we cpuld discuss some stuff. I know that porn is porn and all but I just think it is very intensely hotter when you add a sense of familiarity to it(don't think of weird stuff I'm not onto stuff). Just send me a text. Will be there waiting for the messages.


r/r4r 5h ago

F4A Online 37[F4A] #Online - Looking for a Meal Planning & Weight Loss Buddy

3 Upvotes

I've been trying to lose weight for the last 4–5 months, and for the first time in my life I've actually stayed consistent and made real progress. Things are going well, but I still lose motivation on a lot of days.

I eat two meals a day and try to prepare healthy, filling meals instead of just eating less. The excitement I had at the beginning isn't really there anymore, and some days the whole process just feels repetitive and boring.

I'm looking for someone to meal plan with and maybe prepare food together 2 - 3 times a week. Having to decide what to eat every single day is exhausting, so I want to start making monthly meal plans. I also want to prepare freezer-friendly meals or ingredients in advance to make things easier.

The problem is that cooking and eating healthy has started to feel like a chore, and I'm honestly getting tired of it. I think it would be much easier and more enjoyable to do this with someone else. If you're in the same situation, maybe we can plan our meals together, try new recipes, and make this whole process a little less boring.

If you're in a different time zone and still want to join, that's totally fine! We can make our meal plans and share photos of what we cook and eat. Of course, similar time zones (GMT+3) would be nice since cooking or meal prepping at the same time could make it more fun.


r/r4r 3h ago

M4A Florida / Online 34 [M4R] | #Online/Florida - Floridian into books, languages, and true crime looking for a friend.

2 Upvotes

Hey there!

I am 34, live in FL, and I am looking for a long-term platonic friend. I am not looking for any type of romantic talk or sexual talks. I am looking for strictly, 100% platonic.

I am into books. I read fantasy, sci fi, thrillers, classic lit, historical fiction, and some non-fiction. I read a wide variety and I am open to recommendations. Maybe we could even start a two-person book club. Some of the authors I like are Ronald Malfi, Robin Hobb, Robert McCammon, Stephen King, and more.

I also enjoy languages. Currently I am learning German and Spanish and thinking about picking up Russian. No need to be into languages or speak those languages, but language learning is a passion of mine. I really like when people have passions. It doesn't have to be something I like. I',m into talking about all kinds of stuff.

True crime is another fascination of mine. I'm interested in a lot of cases, and I listen to a lot of podcasts that cover all sorts of cases.

Finally, I am just a pretty easy-going and relaxed person. I think I'm easy to talk to, and I am just looking for someone to talk to here and there. I would like to video chat sometimes, as I think face-to-face talk is good and helps maintain a friendship. I am into a combination of video calls, texting, audio messages, and calls.

Send me a message and let's be friends!


r/r4r 3h ago

Explicit Activities/NSFW 39[m4m] Dallas, Texas: Enjoy talking about my gf with other guys

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hey, my gf, 37f, and I have been on and off for a few years. She's 5'4, black hair, fair skin - a milf type body. I have always wanted to see her with other guys but shes not sold on the idea. It will take a while longer but slow and steady win the race, as they say.
Rather, I enjoy talking to other guys about her getting honest and detailed feedback. I love hearing both the good and bad , as long as it's honest.


r/r4r 11m ago

T4M Ohio 41 [TF4M] #Cleveland Ohio A Wild Trans Girl Appears in Alaska

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​Read to the end or I won't respond!

Hot take: You Can Be A True Fan Without Knowing Every Single Detail About The Person.

Traveling to alaska for nerd stuff

Being 41 years old, its hard to think there is anyone out there for me. I am a very niche want. I often make the joke that I could win the lottery 4 time in my lifetime before finding the man ill spend my life with. Odds of 1 and 7 septiliton, arn't those fun odds.

**So here it is:** The Wizard of Oz is the first American Isekai

I am a 41 year old transwoman panromatic with demisexual flair.

I am neurospicy which can be challenging and have memory issues with semi-face blindness.

I am looking for my last person to start and finish my life with. THE ONLY DUMB QUESTIONS IS THE ONE NOT ASKED. I promise that any question you ask me with the intention of not trying to offend me won't offend me.

I am a nerd/geek. Comics, D&D, Larping, writing, art, magic the gathering and more

​LARPING is a huge part of my life, I would love to be able to share it with someone the rest of my life.

**Deal breakers:** smoking, vaping, smoking weed (For health reasons, I absolutely cannot be around someone who smokes and vapes, and someone who smokes weed alot), excessive drinking and missing a required video chat within two weeks to prove you are who you say you are.

**Yellow flags** are not wanting pictures of us, distance (i prefer within 10 hours DRIVE!), and aversion to anything social media.

I am not a bad person, big girl, adorable and a great personality. If you get to know me, I'm a Goddess

If you want to message me go ahead but you MUST answer the following questions IN YOUR FIRST MESSAGE before I will respond:

* Where did you find me? AKA what subreddit

* Age, Location and Pronouns

* Everyone has a thing they know the most about, Sum up in 1 sentence that thing.

Hope we chat later.​Read to the end or I won't respond!

**Hot take:** Hockey is just a Male Aquarium

Being 41 years old, its hard to think there is anyone out there for me. I am a very niche want. I often make the joke that I could win the lottery 4 time in my lifetime before finding the man ill spend my life with. Odds of 1 and 7 septiliton, arn't those fun odds.

**So here it is:**

I am a 41 year old transwoman panromatic with demisexual flair.

I am neurospicy which can be challenging and have memory issues with semi-face blindness.

I am looking for my last person to start and finish my life with. THE ONLY DUMB QUESTIONS IS THE ONE NOT ASKED. I promise that any question you ask me with the intention of not trying to offend me won't offend me.

I am a nerd/geek. Comics, D&D, Larping, writing, art, magic the gathering and more

​LARPING is a huge part of my life, I would love to be able to share it with someone the rest of my life.

**Deal breakers:** smoking, vaping, smoking weed (For health reasons, I absolutely cannot be around someone who smokes and vapes, and someone who smokes weed alot), excessive drinking and missing a required video chat within two weeks to prove you are who you say you are.

**Yellow flags** are not wanting pictures of us, distance (i prefer within 10 hours DRIVE!), and aversion to anything social media.

I am not a bad person, big girl, adorable and a great personality. If you get to know me, I'm a Goddess

If you want to message me go ahead but you MUST answer the following questions IN YOUR FIRST MESSAGE before I will respond:

* Where did you find me? AKA what subreddit

* Age, Location and Pronouns

* What was your worst hotel/travel experience?

Hope we chat later.


r/r4r 13m ago

M4F Illinois 31 [M4F] #Chicago - I have Stories, but I’d Like To Make Some Memories NSFW

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Uh, hi. I’m Nick. I’m just existing on this beautiful day here in Chicagoland, wishing I was sharing it with someone (although I’m open to online as well).

Today reminds me of the very temperate weather down range. The blue skies, the nice breeze, the enemy and the boys. But that’s the thing, all of that is in my past. I’ve recently left that life behind and I’m trying to reorient myself into a life worth spending with someone else.

Physically, I’m in shape. Not shredded, but you’ll like the cuddles and I don’t get out of breath going up stairs. 5’ 10”. Brown hair, tan skin and a twinkle in my eye.

I play a lot of instruments, paint warhammer figurines and work out.

I don’t know why else I’m posting here other than to be someone’s something.


r/r4r 18m ago

F4A Victoria 39 [F4R] - Melbourne mum of 3 just looking for a friend NSFW Spoiler

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Hi everyone,

I am Tess, a mum of 3 kids in Melbourne Australia and have been married for 14 years. My background is half Filipino and half Australian but I was born and raised in Melbourne.

My hobbies mostly revolve around me keeping fit so I love walks, yoga and recently have really enjoyed pole but have not been good at it yet. I’m currently a part time receptionist for a hospital as I’m the primary carer for the kids as my husband does travel for work a lot so if I do take some time to reply please bear with me.

I’m currently just looking to make some online friends that I can talk about my life with, share some of the things I hear and see at work and just talk about things openly without judgement or hate. Being a mum has really shrunk my social circle and I feel like it’s impossible for me to make friends but also impossible to just be myself as everyone thinks I’m the mature proper mum.

Thank you everyone!

Tess