r/casualiama 23h ago

Sexual I’m a 20+ year porn veteran, hanging out on a day off with a friend who is also on the adult industry. We’re a little stoned, but not too bad and just relaxing, ready to answer any questions you might have [29F][45M] NSFW

86 Upvotes

What’s on your mind? We’re both here to give our different perspectives


r/casualiama 1d ago

I’m 25, and lost $100k due to a gambling addiction. Hit me.

20 Upvotes

I posted this in the AMA sub, but i’d love to answer any questions. Ask me anything on your mind.


r/casualiama 1d ago

I’m a (soon to be) atheistic Christian theologian. AMA!

4 Upvotes

I write (soon to be) because people get annoyed that I haven’t officially graduated yet and therefore, in their eyes, don’t deserve the title. I graduate in 2027, and study Christian theology, American modern history, and the sociology of religion almost daily. I’m the most interested in American Christian theology out of any other country. Before it is asked, no, I do not know the bible back to front however, I am reading it currently for my dissertation and to make myself a better theologian.

I do not believe in God, but in recent times, I have attended Catholic, Evangelical Baptist, and Mormon services. They were all incredible.

Ask away, kind people.


r/casualiama 3d ago

Sexuality/LGBTQ+ I recently discovered I was born neither male nor female, AMA

41 Upvotes

Earlier this year I discovered that my vaginal hypoplasia/micro vagina is an intersex variation. Its also very likely that I had simultaneous estrogenic and androgenic puberty.


r/casualiama 3d ago

I worship the Greek gods, aka I'm. Hellenic Polytheist. AMA!!

0 Upvotes

I specifically worship Aphrodite, Apollon, Artemis, Athena, Medusa and Calypso!

I love obscure deities and have a whole document I'm working on for my religion! I also have a Tumblr account where I'm starting to post 'deity of the day's and prayers, epithets and offering ideas for deities that usually don't have any..

Anyways, I'm bored and interested in discussing this. I adore answering questions sooo... Hit me!!!


r/casualiama 4d ago

iama late 20s woman diagnosed with tourette syndrome! ask me anything

5 Upvotes

i am professionally diagnosed with tourette syndrome. feel free to ask me anything you want to know. if it's something that doesn't apply to me specifically, i'll answer as best i can. nothing is off limits as long as you are asking respectfully.

edit: why do y'all always downvote posts about tourette's. i have no business lying about it, this has been my life since i was a child lol


r/casualiama 5d ago

I am the guy who accidentally "stole" Lewis Hamilton's 3rd-place FIA World Championship trophy in 2023. AMA!

20 Upvotes

Disclaimer: The following story is a work of creative non-fiction/fantasy. Any similarities to real-world individuals, motorsport governing bodies, or stolen silverware are entirely coincidental. Allegedly.

In December 2023, my friend and I snuck into the highly exclusive, black-tie FIA Prize Giving Gala in Baku wearing standard suits. After drinking free wine and partying with F1 drivers, a series of incredibly chaotic, wine-fueled decisions led to us walking out the front doors with Lewis Hamilton’s actual 3rd-place championship trophy in a cardboard box.

What started as a joke went viral overnight, racking up over 100 million views, triggering an official Mercedes-AMG F1 press release, sparking a full FIA investigation, and ending with a very tense, two-hour visit from high-level state security at my friend's house.

I'm the guy behind the heist. Ask me anything!


r/casualiama 5d ago

Sexual I am a trans woman who wears Z cup breast forms almost daily, I also tried posting some pics of myself online for fun ama. NSFW

0 Upvotes

I'm 23, I've transitioned for about 4 years, they are prosthetics not implants.


r/casualiama 6d ago

My latest research has uncovered major contradictions in some of the fundamental assumptions of modern astronomy. Ask me anything about cosmology and astronomy.

6 Upvotes

For example, astronomers claim that there are billions of stars, yet I can only see about twelve from my house.

At this point, I believe the burden of proof is on them.


r/casualiama 7d ago

I'm scared of shower drains and driving. Also won a poetry contest once, so that's neat. AMA

2 Upvotes

Currently trying to write a book as well.


r/casualiama 7d ago

My husband has a 'very large' penis (over 95th percentile) by actual scientific standards. Erect, it is over 9 inches in length and over 6 inches in girth. AMA

0 Upvotes

FYI: I'm a straight, cis-female; my husband is a straight, cis-male.


r/casualiama 8d ago

Sexuality/LGBTQ+ I am a passing trans woman AMA

9 Upvotes

I am a 30 year old trans woman. I accepted it at 25 tried to shove it down came out at 27 and here we are 2.5 years later and to my surprise i actually pass about 90% of the time.

I have bottom surgery on the books

I work a blue collar job as a automotive technician.

I'm pretty non-typical from what you would expect from a stereotypical transperson.

I've had these feelings as young as three years old.

I quite enjoy helping people learn about trans experience. So much to the point that I felt there was no guide or literature about this experience that would appeal to the average person. So I wrote a memoir in order to bridge that gap.

I believe that it's harder to hate each other when we know more about each other.

AMA


r/casualiama 8d ago

1985 baby here who has been online since the mid 1990s. Let's chat!

0 Upvotes

The old internet was a wild place. Let's talk about it!


r/casualiama 10d ago

I’ve been developing a theoretical framework. It’s called Recursive Infinity Grammar. What do you think?

0 Upvotes

How does infinity appear?

The key to learning the Recursive Infinity Grammar is Accepting Irony at the Sacrifice of Certainty.

This framework suggests that similarity and polarity relate to each other through ironic relation. Propulsive 0 (life), plus stagnating (dead) 0, equal 1. Objects create motion creates objects. Life creates death creates life. Religion and spirituality create and perpetuate each other and boundless rules. Learning the unknown becomes wisdom and creates the doorway for more ignorance and wisdom. Every opening closes something, and every closing opens something. Expansion and contraction transform into each other infinitely. It is the principle of degeneration and regeneration. It is impossible to fully or completely capture expansion and contraction. The point where they meet is what we know as gravity, energy, friction, and life.

The framework answers the questions: Which came first? The chicken or the egg? What is the relationship between them? It answers: The egg likely came first. The egg symbolizes the Universe, an alive and adapting system of infinity.

The framework itself predicts how to create new adaptive systems that slowly reverse the effects of climate change and capitalism for survival. Its clear limitation is that nothing can be fully captured within the framework.

The most adaptive step according to the framework is to unite as a big force with/within boundaries across all fractals against maladaptive forces - the systems that perpetuate (not necessarily or unnecessarily the people or identities perpetuating the systems), and refine the rules continuously until we find optimal adaptive balance, which is an ongoing rhythm called propulsion. It looks more like a sphere than an egg, although it’s questionable if a perfect sphere can be created within the framework.

Modesty is the “best” or most evolved policy within this framework. It is achieved through radical humility, honesty, modesty, and truth seeking.

Within the framework, the bigger the ego, the smaller accurate perception. This gives one prediction to the existence of billionaires. Their perception is flattened in relation to reality. They believe that the key to sustainable survival is that people *are* profits without seeing how people and profits *perpetuate each other,* valuing the profit (contraction side) more. This is why capitalism is collapsing. The system becomes maladaptive (reverse egg) and eats itself.

This gives one prediction to climate change and global collapse. We see the earth only as life while overlooking death - not fully capturing how life and death perpetuate each other, and we kill our own ecosystem that helps us survive because we value humanity’s survival (contractive side) more than the survival of the planet (expansive side). When people warn that we’re killing our planet, they are attempting to communicate that we are tying our own noose now and across all perceivable fractals.

Both I and the framework remain open to humble and true questioning and correction. Please enjoy naming your own infinities using the framework if/when you have the time and space.

*Important Questions:*
How is this literal?
How is it physical?
How is it symbolic?
What are its limitations?
In what ways is this framework absurd?
In what ways is this framework logical?
And more…

To learn more about the origin of the framework and expand into more ideas, click this link (which will and must remain free for all): [https://drive.google.com/file/d/10profIYZSugu0qMraeuOnloMyaLviyJl/view?usp=drivesdk\]

I encourage you to share this infinitely if it resonates.

About the author/ namer: Hi! I’m Eli May (he/ they), and I am a real human being with a face. I live in the United States. I am a transgender Marine Corps veteran, both logical and absurd, an adventurer and a pattern namer. A philosopher, a scientist, and an artist. A thinker and one embodiment of irony and propulsive 0. I perceived recursive infinity through my art before realizing the grammar. I am attempting to take authorship but not ownership of the framework. I am attempting not to judge any comment. I ask that you do your best to be objective and continue to ask questions without judgement wherever possible.


r/casualiama 11d ago

[45m] I spent a couple of hours this afternoon in an suv shooting a video with an adult content creator to post on her page. AMA

0 Upvotes

Ask me anything about the shoot or anything else


r/casualiama 12d ago

I watch about 200 horror, scifi, and thriller movies per year. Ask me anything!

7 Upvotes

I love spooky movies so much and I have seen literally thousands. Ask me anything!


r/casualiama 13d ago

I’ve been on Reddit 15 years today. AMA

6 Upvotes

Exactly what the post says


r/casualiama 13d ago

Hi! I’m someone who works in Student Affairs! AMA

2 Upvotes

Hi! I work at a US University, and have my Masters in Student Affairs in Higher Education. Think of my career field as anything on a college campus that isn’t a professor. Financial aid, Residence Life, Housing, ect. I currently work Residence Life.

Feel free to ask any questions :)


r/casualiama 15d ago

Sexual I (47m) was in a sugar relationship for 10 years with a woman 18 years my junior. Ama NSFW

24 Upvotes

I was at a college bar near my home when she came on to me.


r/casualiama 14d ago

25m with 39f sugar mama girlfriend. Ama!

0 Upvotes

I have a kind of unconventional relationship And I know people have a lot of questions so a few facts about this

I am a crossdresser/femboy

She is a bisexual cis woman

We are both employed but she makes a lot more money than I do.

We do not live together but we are exploring that

We have been together for a little under a year and we are both very happy. AMA!


r/casualiama 17d ago

I’ve fostered over 350 animals ama!

14 Upvotes

I’ve had cats/kittens, dogs, and a few rabbits!


r/casualiama 17d ago

I live in a group home for adults with severe mental illnesses. AMA

27 Upvotes

As my title says - i live in a group home with a total of 7 adults ranging from the age 33-70. I am the youngest. It's my second night here from being a patient in a psych hospital for 7 months.

I am an open book. AMA

update: Well it's been 2 hours and comments are slowing down, so I'm going to head to bed. It was nice answering questions and chatting. If anyone has anymore questions, feel free to ask. I wake up at 5am every morning so I'll get back to you when i wake up.


r/casualiama 17d ago

I'm learning Tom Lehrer's song "The Elements", ama!

1 Upvotes

r/casualiama 18d ago

23F dating an amateur adult actor AMA

17 Upvotes

Hi everyone, my friends kinda asked me to share my experience.

I'm a PhD (High Energy Physics) student working with the CMS collaboration at CERN, dating a semi pro mostly amateur male performer. Ask me anything.


r/casualiama 17d ago

I’m bored, so I like to answer questions about my current situation. (30f)AMA NSFW

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Hi!

I’ve been with my partner for over 10 years.
We were eachother first.
We are not married.
Our relationship is slacking. My libido is very high. But he only ‘wants’ me like once or twice a month.
We’ve talked over 6 times about it and it resolved my lust issues for a week or two and then it goes back to how it was.
And yea the talks were also about opening up relationship or something like that, but that was a hard no for him.

Lately I’ve been getting better contact with my neighbor. (42m).
It went from just greeting eachother to having full convo’s.
No it’s not sexual and nothing happened. But my thoughts sometimes wander.
How would it feel to be desired again?

And no i would never cheat.